Reflections on "You are my long-awaited homecoming" (1): people who have been waiting for a long time.
You are the person I have been waiting for, and I especially like this title. Waiting for your return, whether it's your lover or your family, as long as you think it's worth it, it's worth waiting for. 18 stories of different lengths in the book tell about family ties and love. Different stories and different situations are all waiting for the long-awaited returnees.
The sheep in the first story finally survived and did not turn into soup, so those who hated it were relieved. A sheep that was originally hated by all the staff was missed on the day when it was about to be slaughtered, thinking about the excitement this sheep brought to this indifferent city. Sheep themselves are insignificant, but they have different sustenance. Although grandma Zhang lives with her son, she still can't get rid of loneliness. The monotonous childhood life of the children in the community excited the sheep and others. This is a sheep that everyone has been looking forward to.
Other love stories in the book, when they are together, are people who are destined to wait for a long time. The ending is mixed. Happiness means being together, and sadness means being apart. Different people have different stories. People who have been waiting for a long time may not stop moving forward and stay with you forever.
Lost in the wind, Xiao Zhuo and Ayi are so similar, the same single-parent family, the same stubbornness and even the same font. Destined lovers, if they are not together, God can't explain it, but they still lose each other after all. Their single parents have devoted all their efforts to bringing them up, which is more than ordinary parents. They can't leave their parents to live in each other's cities. After graduation, I finally got up the courage for the man's courtship, the woman's mother's ridicule, and Ayi's decision to get married after only two weeks of blind date. I waited for each other for a long time, but I took a fork in the road halfway. At the end of the book, it says that they go on with their lives and their days go on. Only no one knows that in their hearts, the long-awaited person can only be the back of their hearts forever in this life.
Zhang Hui's and Xu Xiaodi's delicious stories, Ke Yimin's and Lumei's fat intestines, all ended in happy endings with hidden regrets. Xu Xiaodi "sealed" his unusual sense of smell for affection, and Ke Yimin left his parents from Nanding to the far north for affection. Zhang Hui is from Xu Xiaodi, and Lu Mei is from Ke Yimin. They didn't give up halfway.
There are many other stories in the book, and the most fateful one is Pingsha Goose. After more than ten years of growth, Pingsha and Dayan firmly exist in each other's dreams, and finally let go of all their obsession.
"You are my long-awaited homecoming", eighteen stories, different opportunities, waiting for people who have not returned for a long time.
Reflections on "You are my long-awaited home" (2): Happiness is always similar, but misfortune has its own story.
When I first picked up this book, I thought it would be a complete love story. Unexpectedly, the opening of the book "A Sheep Living on the Seventeenth Floor" actually tells the story of lonely old people living in big cities and rural areas. After reading it, I also added a lot of goodwill to this book. Of course, it's not that the first one is not good. If companionship is the longest confession, that sheep is the companion who has always been with grandma. For grandma now, it is also a love story between them.
After watching it, it will be all kinds of love stories. Suddenly I had a special idea: is it only the misfortune in love experience that can form all kinds of stories in which the listener is sad and the listener is crying? Because after reading this book, I suddenly looked back at my emotional experience-I never quarreled or had any friction, and all I can remember now are some embarrassing things. I don't know where to start, and I don't know where to start ... If I have experienced trials and misfortunes, I don't know if it will be unforgettable. ...
Happiness is always similar, but misfortune has its own story. Sometimes the factors that contribute to love can become obstacles to love. For example, because the nose is too smart, the relationship between two people falls into a rigid little place. Two people fall in love because of this encounter, and two people are suspicious and escape because of this. But fortunately, at last I made a small sacrifice, specially caught a bad cold, eliminated the special function of the nose, and their love was restored.
If love in a small place is melodramatic, there is also desperate love in the book. The unfortunate beginning is that people are homesick after all, because it is somewhat regrettable to love being too far away from home. Ke Yimin, who ran from Guangdong to Heihe, was tortured to death by snacks in his hometown since he was a child, and turned against his beloved. However, when he really goes home, he misses the steamed bread in the northeast and the hot kang of his wife and children ... This contradictory psychology also shows that people will adapt, miss an environment and soon adapt to a new environment. After reading this article, I still admire his courage to really give up everything for love. If I were two years younger, I could hardly do it, but I'm not sure. ...
Of course, love will also be affected by many factors. For example, A Yi, who got married hastily for family reasons, cried after reading it. Their love is so beautiful that they want to be together so much that they can give up almost everything. However, in the end, because of Xiao Zhuo's mother's deliberate obstruction, it went away. Although Xiao Zhuo finally worked hard, Ah Yi still failed to persist until the last moment. ...
There is compromise in love. For example, Mu Yanyun, who has two boyfriends, resolutely chose a fairly good Yankee after discovering the betrayal of love. ...
Alas, such a thing as love is really incomprehensible.
Reflections on You Are My Long-awaited Home (3): You are a good book I have been waiting for for a long time.
You are a good book that I have been waiting for.
"You are my long-awaited homecoming" is indeed a good novel, outstanding, and it is indeed a gentle academic flavor, revealing the taste of small fresh meat.
The author of this book is the latest short story of Chen Qiling, the first prize winner of the Literature Award of the United Daily News and the resident writer of "One" electronic magazine. Introduction recommended by Fan Xiao, editor of "One" app! In addition, he won the first prize in the short story group of Taiwan Province United Daily News Literature Award, and his works are of very high quality.
Baidu search shows that the author's popularity in the mainland has been increasing in recent years. His works were selected into The Last Days of Missing edited by Zhang Xiaoxian and supervised by Han Han, and the collection of short stories published by the editorial department of One.
This book * * * featured 18 Chen Qiling's short stories. Each article describes different types of feelings, including the pure love of college students, the love of young people who have just entered the society, the respect for faith, the deep concern for parents, the sincere nostalgia for hometown and the response to social injustice. The characters in each story are vividly portrayed, without a thousand people, and everyone shows their unique personality. The language is unpretentious and close to life, which is a collection of novels full of the author's sincerity. On the road, we are bent on going far away, but we don't know what the distance is. It is easy for us to leave home, but we don't admit that we are homesick. It is easy for us to say goodbye to ourselves, but we look for ourselves everywhere. And those personal ups and downs, sunny and rainy days on the road, do you suddenly want to talk when you walk? These languages are really delicate, intriguing and have a desire to read.
We will also find that her writing skills are so skillful. We care about the warmth and light, just like going home. The meaning of home is to put it in place, and no matter how late it is, someone will wait. We walked so far just to find a lamp. All a storyteller can do is to keep the light on this window and say with a smile, "Come back, come in and have a glass of water."
Excerpts from wonderful books are as follows: Have you ever eaten fat intestines? You have tried, because you love someone and everything there becomes yours. When the freshmen introduced themselves, Ke Yimin said, "I come from Yangjiang, Guangdong Province, where the sun is shining and the rivers and seas are rivers." The voice is a little high, cadence, a little feeling of reading poetry. The girl behind me went on to say, "I'm from Heihe, Heilongjiang, the river in the roar of lions." Everyone laughed, and so did he. Looking back at that girl, with two black eyes, she was a little innocent and surprised. She looked so innocent. In retrospect, she lowered her eyebrows and sipped two dimples, and finally smiled. Elegant questioning reveals the filar silk culture, and it is indeed very delicate, which makes people have the impulse to continue reading.
Reflection on "You are the one I have been waiting for" (4): Unless you come with me, there is no other waiting.
You're the one I've been waiting for.-I like the title. Thinking about a poem and a song is like life. The eighteen articles in the book are carefully crafted and clearly audible.
Among all these obscure articles, one is still disappointed after reading for a long time, especially that one, in which Xiao Zhuo and A Yi passed each other in Roseanne.
We often say that two people are in love together, but marriage is often the PK and running-in of two families and three views. Zhuo and Yi's three views on family are in tune, and their single parents unanimously require their children to stay with them. So one mother committed suicide and stayed, and the other father was so angry that he vomited blood directly. A Yi compromised and gave another girl a wedding invitation within a few weeks, which made Xiao Zhuo's efforts to get a license before lobbying ridiculous and pathetic. Every time I think of this story, I always think of my friends around me and the regrets I witnessed. I can't forget it for a long time
These short and pithy stories touched me one after another. Accompany me to spend my daily commute and wait for medical treatment, and it is rare to have a focus of thinking in my almost numb life.
Qi Ling wrote about nine articles, all about love, but only one or two were happy endings. Although I only like happy stories myself, how can everything in life be perfect, especially love? Some waited too long to come, some passed by, and some would rather meet than miss it. Love, followed by regret, followed by happiness. Love is hard to find, as if it were a curse and a stumbling block. We may never find the right person, and everyone has different choices. There is no fixed formula for sighing all your life, being comforted by luck in fulfillment and fulfillment, or refusing to do anything.
Qiling's story, affection and friendship occupy the other half of the country, which is strange and inevitable, and each gives a happy ending. Perhaps it is said that kinship is truly pure, not greedy, and can be accompanied for a long time. We have come so far, looking for the flame of the rest of our lives, but behind us, there is always a gentle and immortal door lamp beside our loved ones. This is the luckiest and most gratifying thing in life.
Reflection on You Are My Long-awaited Homecoming (5): I found my home here.
On the Mid-Autumn Festival, my friend played in Xitang and sent me a photo. It's not too late, the moon hangs on the roof, the boats are flowing, the fireworks are gone, and I feel complete in an instant.
Actually, we don't want much.
Just like grandma Zhang, she lives in her son's house and can't go back to the prairie, but she can only be with the sheep. Sheep are not allowed in the community environment. Grandma Zhang made constant compromises and finally got out of danger on August 15. "They are wandering in the market, alone, a sheep. I don't know whether she is with the sheep or the sheep is with her. That one-handed posture, that out-of-place posture, always makes people pay more attention. "
Just like Ke Yimin in Yangjiang, Guangdong Province, she went to the northeast with her girlfriend after graduating from college and wanted to eat the fat intestines in her hometown. At this time, Lu Mei, who has become his wife, couldn't stand it, so she went online to learn to do it. He ate it, but it tasted different. He went out when the two men quarreled. Lu Mei chased him out and asked him where he was going, but his heart was desolate. In the ice and snow, he will always be a stranger. Finally, I returned to my hometown, but everything in front of me was not what it used to be. At the transfer station, he took out the fat sausage wrapped by his mother, which was still warm. Tears welled up in his eyes, and someone next to him asked, Big Brother, what are you eating? He finally understood why Lu Mei kept telling him it was too far away. What do you mean, too far? You can eat whatever you want. It takes a long time to meet people. Seeing and looking back are the most important things. No one understands this idea. Such loneliness can't be solved.
After reading this article, I was very sad, and finally understood why my mother refused to let me marry far away, and finally understood that a person sticks to a family.
There is also Mu Yanyun, who has to be prepared at any time and place. Even her boyfriend made two at the same time. One is close to her lungs, but she has no money. The other one is rich but doesn't care much about her. Before marriage, she asked for property notarization, because he needed money and asked her for help. She didn't help. Make it clear about money, especially for smart and realistic people like us. So, she was ready to turn around and look for the intimate girl, but unexpectedly found that he had a childhood girlfriend. Who cheated who, who cheated who? Gentleness is true, and so is gentle protection. Everyone wants sweet words to be true at the moment they are spoken! It's just that the truth is so pale that we often compare it.
Playing the guqin and chatting about pingsha, I finally met the flute in my dream and never dreamed of it again. Dare not and others can not pass the housing construction, sold himself to the company to sell the house. Girlfriend is harassed and dare not act rashly. Finally, he came to his senses. As long as this person is here, the rest will gradually be put down, so manager Cai, who harassed his girlfriend, was punished and went to find her himself. And the girl who wears old clothes to chase boys for others. Finally, there are many misunderstandings. Finally, she found that she still liked old clothes, but she didn't know how to let that person know.
Chen Qiling's book is my favorite short story in recent years, and there is no one. The text is not exquisite, but comfortable enough, the content is not amazing enough, but it is enough to make people think. It's a novel, but it makes people feel that all the characters in the story are around. This skill can only be cultivated slowly if you really settle down and live.
"So we care about warmth and light, just like going home. The meaning of home is to let go, no matter how late, people are waiting. We walked so far just to find a lamp. "
"All a storyteller can do is look at the light in this window and say with a smile,' Come back, come in and have a glass of water.' "
I found countless lights and a home in her words.
Reflection on "You are my long-awaited homecoming" (6): I have seen her in the story, but I don't know her.
After reading an article by Huang Tongtong, I got to know this writer who lives in a corner of southern China. So I looked for her articles, from "A Half Life" and "Looking Back at Him" to "One" from time to time. Compared with many writers, she wrote few, mainly short stories, and there was only one trilogy of female growth stories mentioned in the interview. Miss Chen, we are still waiting. )
"You are the person I have been waiting for" is said to be a topic that the editor and Mr. Chen have been grinding for a long time before thinking of. The novels in the book are scattered in "One", including "Have you ever eaten fat intestines", which is very popular on the Internet recently. I've admired it for a long time, and I finally read it this time. Sure enough! Parents say marriage will be settled, and friends say marriage will be practical. Ke Yimin is practical and stable, but his hometown is a foreign land, and the alienation of not knowing that he is a dream guest cannot be eliminated through marriage. Come to think of it, you don't have to travel all over the world. You only live in a city a few hundred kilometers away from home for a few years, and the distance from your hometown, town and village will get farther and farther. After returning home, the nervousness and strangeness with parents and friends are exactly the same as those in Ke Yimin's long-lost hometown. What changes is the plot, the unchanging heart. No wonder it is popular. Today, with the great migration and mobility of population, it is hard to tell where it is. I concentrate on my work during the day and have no time to think about other things. At that time, even if I read this article, I might turn my head and forget it. After reading it before going to bed after a hard day, it is too easy to recall the unspeakable loneliness and loss.
There is also the first article "A Sheep Living on the Seventeenth Floor". Grandma Zhang is in a foreign land, and the happy life in the eyes of outsiders is really sweet but lonely.
Pingsha in Pingsha Wild Goose, and Yang Peitian in "It's better to miss each other than to meet each other" ... They are cowardly, calculating, compromising and sometimes inexplicably persistent.
When you see fear, you will unconsciously put down your book and guess, what kind of person is Mr. Chen? How can a university teacher with a stable and quiet life write these complicated and subtle feelings into real and appropriate welfare, without publicity or cynicism? In my opinion, the most intense story "Falling Wind" is also so calm and angry. I didn't blame Xiao Zhuo's mother's vitriol or Ayi's compromise, but it was faint and distressing, just like the last sentence of the lyrics of "She came to my concert", "The child is asking her why she is crying."
In addition to these tangled and sad stories, there are many bright stories that are as pleasant as the sunshine in spring. The unrequited love of three college girls in How Long is this Season also makes people feel beautiful, and the fresh and lively atmosphere dilutes all the depression in the last article. Finally, Prince Pan's story begins with a lie but has a happy ending, which makes people laugh when they close the pages and recall the little steamed stuffed bun.
Is this arrangement of articles intentional or unintentional? From suppression to promotion, but you don't have to fall asleep with a heavy heart. It's good.
Some people say that the character stories written by Mr. Chen are warmer than reality and more vivid than fairy tales. Yes, she is not afraid to expose the gloomy background and struggling predicament in her life, but she gives them the most generous tolerance in her own slow way. She never makes moral criticism or argues. She just slowly lays out all the details for people to see, and won't deliberately incite you to tears.
How can such a calm self not be liked?
You are my long-awaited home (7): You are my long-awaited home.
If it's warm.
Maybe I haven't read a book for a long time, maybe my work life is too depressing recently, maybe I just wrote it too deeply and touched some soft parts. Finally, I almost cried. The most gratifying thing is that it's not all the emotional entanglements of sad spring and cool autumn, but more warmth.
Holding a window lamp, the years are coming. You are me, long-awaited homecoming.
I have seen it all the way, but it is a touch of sadness. It can't be said to be a complete tragedy, but it is also true and sad.
"Have you ever eaten fatty intestines" is probably the curse of every traveler. Now it is popular to say that if you look at it, you will not break it. That's probably it. At first, I thought there was nothing wrong with leaving, but I missed some delicious food in my hometown very much, and it was uncomfortable to scratch my heart and lungs when no one around me could understand it. I finally got home, only to find that everything was different again. I really lose both sides. It's really too far! But neither side can give up and let themselves not make any decisions. After reading this story, it seems that all the wounds have been torn open and * * * is naked and helpless. Things are like spring grass and people are like clouds.
The Lord of God is the saddest sight. This kind of family entanglement can be regarded as real pain. It's nobody's fault, just each has his own position. I didn't know much about the world when I was a child. I just judge right and wrong according to my own preferences, thinking that I handled it perfectly. Looking back now, I probably hurt my elders' hearts. The entanglement between elders, as a junior, really shouldn't interfere at will. No one is wrong, just helpless. In the end, I can only hope for myself. I want to have a big house in the future, bigger than the new house, my own, and I want to get my God card back. At this time, will you think of those unrealistic but reasonable wishes when you were young?
It seems that writing "God's main card" is the culmination of sadness, and the tone of the next four articles is gradual happiness; There are some Ah Q-style self-consolation in "Changing careers", and little people are helpless. That ending is the best, and it is worthy of the Tathagata. "Chinese New Year", great sorrow, then great joy, joy until cornered. How long is this season? Three unrequited loves are full of youth, but I envy this friendship the most. "Prince Pan" just wanted to be different from others, but he chose the wrong road. Fortunately, he waited for him.
The first time I read the author's book, the first time I listened to the author. The story is really wonderful. They are all small people. Little people wander around the local customs. The author must be a very knowledgeable person. So many different old habits are so smooth, without any affectation, and there is a kind of intimacy when talking about things in his hometown, which shows his strong writing skills. When most people talk about these customs, they will call them "bad habits". Even if they don't know, there will be some irony. However, the author's articles are all about maintenance, and people who read them will respect these customs more. At this time, it is no longer a simple story.
China people always pay attention to cadence, and even more, they suppress it first and then raise it, so it's really easy to control the emotional trend, and the arrangement in the book is also excellent. Although I was sad, at least I was happy when I finally closed the book. Life is complicated enough, so it's easier to read books and stories.
Just like this book, sad is sad to the bottom of my heart, happy is happy both physically and mentally. We walked so far just to find a lamp. At this time, someone kept looking at the light and said, "Come back, come in and have a glass of water". Are we going in or not?