How to invite friends to a wedding
How to invite friends to a wedding? At present, electronic invitations are generally used to invite friends to weddings, but invitations are still used in some places. I believe everyone is familiar with the writing of invitations. Let's take a concrete look at how to invite friends to weddings. How to invite friends to a wedding 1
1. Send an electronic invitation
For young people, sending an electronic invitation in a circle of friends is becoming more and more common. Inviting friends to a wedding can be done by sending electronic invitations to friends or in a circle of friends. After seeing the invitation, friends can directly determine whether they are going, which is simple and convenient.
template 1 of e-invitation:
submitted to xxx platform: it is hereby decided to hold a wedding ceremony for xxx and xxx on X day of the Gregorian calendar in X year and X day of the lunar calendar in X month. Xxx and Mr. and Mrs. xxx (or xxx with his wife, xxx with his family, xxx with his husband) are cordially invited to visit xxx Hotel.
Location: xx Hall, X Building, No.X xxx Road, time: X in the afternoon. You are invited.
E-invitation template 2:
Submitted to xxx platform: X, X, X, X, X, X, X, X, X, X, X, X, X, X, X, X, X, X, X, X, X, X, X, X, X, X, X, X, X, X, X, X, X, X, X, X, X, Xxx, you are invited.
2. Send an invitation message
For classmates or friends who live far away, you can send an invitation directly by SMS one month before the wedding. If you reply to confirm your presence, you can write down your name directly. For those friends who don't respond to the SMS invitation in time, they can make a second phone invitation half a month before the wedding, which will not only leave reasonable time for the other party to arrange their trip, but also explain the wedding-related information on the phone in person.
Invitation SMS Template 1:
Hello, the groom xxx and the bride xxx are scheduled to hold a wedding ceremony on XX, xxxx. We sincerely invite you to bring your family to witness the ceremony.
location: a hall of a hotel
time: xxxx year x month x day x hour, lunar calendar x month x day, week X.
Invitation SMS Template 2:
Hello, there is a cloud in the ancients, which makes everyone happy. I recently held a wedding on X, and I think I should share my joy with you. I hope I can look forward to your arrival then. To my dearest friend.
Third, telephone invitation
Inviting friends by telephone can not only leave reasonable time for the other party to arrange the trip, but also explain the relevant information of the wedding in person on the phone.
Telephone invitation template 1:
Hello, is this xxx? I am xxx, and I will hold a wedding ceremony at xxx Hotel at X, X, X, X, X in the lunar calendar. Welcome to my wedding.
Telephone invitation template 2:
Hello, is this xxx? I am xxx, and I will hold a wedding ceremony with my lover xxx at xxx Hotel on X, X, X, X, X of the lunar calendar. I look forward to your coming to witness our happiness.
that's all about how to convey the effective information of the wedding banquet. I hope it will help you. How to invite a friend to a wedding 2
1. How to invite a particularly good friend?
ps: "very good friends" refers to those who are close friends and girlfriends, who have been in constant contact for many years and don't need to be polite.
Do you think that good girlfriends and good brothers won't pay so much attention? Not really! In fact, he cares more about your attitude towards him, for example:
Therefore, since he is a "good friend", he should care more about the feelings of the other party, at least different from "ordinary friends", and should be better or even best in practice. When inviting, he should pay attention to:
The earlier the time, the better
It is best to tell the other party first when you get married, and then notify them after you set a date, and be sure to inform them better than other friends.
if you don't plan to hold a wedding or invite anyone except relatives, you'd better inform your friends about the wedding in advance and explain the situation.
Even if you are afraid of friends coming to trouble in a different place, you should tell them the wedding news first, and explain that "you can't come" or "you won't receive a gift" or "you will hire a car to stay" is better than not telling them at all.
Be sure to inform
your good friends individually that you can't send invitations in groups, but only if you do! Set! Yes! First! I have been notified in person/by phone/WeChat separately. Don't just send a message in a group, or contact him after sending it in a group, which will make him feel very neglected.
and since we are good friends, it's better to talk more about marriage at ordinary times, so that he can feel that you treat him as one of your own, so it's more natural to tell him after setting a date. It's not appropriate to say that you are getting married at first.
2. How to invite friends with good relationships?
ps: "Good relationship" refers to friends who often meet and chat with each other at this stage, and you want to invite them, and others will be willing to come
Such friends are generally evolved from colleagues and classmates at this stage, or met through certain circles, so there will be many endless relationships, for example, there will be the same circle of friends, so you should be careful when inviting him, otherwise it will also block people's hearts, for example, < But since we are friends, we should still pay attention to each other, and don't let them feel neglected. When inviting, we should pay attention to:
Give notice in advance, and don't let people be caught off guard.
If you are in the same city, you can give notice 2-3 weeks before marriage. If you are in a different place, you'd better give notice 1-2 months before marriage. After all, you should leave someone time to arrange your trip, and don't give notice a few days later, which will make people feel that you are not taken seriously.
You should be treated equally in the same social circle.
If you are friends in a social circle, you'd better notify them together on the same day. After all, friends will exchange messages, and it will be very uncomfortable if you are treated differently.
It's necessary to give a separate notice
Even if it's not particularly good, as long as it's a friend you care about, you should give a separate notice. After the notice, it is best to send another invitation to explain the time and place. When the wedding is near 1-2 days, send WeChat again to remind each other and express their expectation for each other's arrival.
3. How can I invite a friend who has a normal or no contact?
ps: "the relationship is very general" refers to a friend of praise who is not familiar with you, rarely contacts you, or who was good before but hasn't contacted you for a long time.
Actually, this is not a friend, so whether to invite you or not should be carefully considered, otherwise it will easily arouse the other party's disgust:
So if it's just a friend of praise, just don't invite him, and there is no need to take it to heart what he thinks of you, anyway, there is no need to socialize in the future. If you really want to invite, you should pay attention to the following:
There is no need to give a separate notice. Send an invitation from your circle of friends.
Send an electronic invitation from your circle of friends one week in advance to inform everyone that you are getting married and invite them, so that others will naturally come to you if they want to go, and if they don't want to go, they will be regarded as not seeing it.
But be sure to send this circle of friends after notifying other friends who need to be notified separately. In fact, it is specially sent to those "unfamiliar people" who don't know whether to invite them or not.
You can do it without a gift.
If you really want to invite friends who used to be nice but haven't contacted for a long time, you'd better "pave the way" more, and it won't be too much.
if you don't ask for a gift and just want more people's blessings, you can explain "no gift" in advance or send a gift in advance to show your sincerity, and the other party will never say anything again, but will be happy to attend.
4. Are colleagues invited or not? How to invite?
colleagues don't need to explain, but it is really a headache.
After all, we don't look up and see each other, and we all know each other, so it's easy to be criticized if we don't handle it well. For example,
How can we invite our colleagues? Suggestions here:
Good colleagues become friends, and private invitations should be kept quiet
If you have changed from colleagues to friends, you should invite them naturally, but it's best not to say it at work, you can invite them privately, and you should pay attention to it. If it's the same relationship, please them together to avoid being criticized.
ordinary colleagues don't have to be invited, and wedding candy should be in place
If you are just an ordinary colleague who has no intersection in private, especially if you have just joined the company, don't invite them. You can send wedding candy to everyone after marriage, which is also in place.
Don't talk about getting married in the office
Don't openly talk about where you got married, how you planned it, etc. It's embarrassing if you say that others heard you or pretended not to hear you.
Don't be afraid to be asked, just answer like this.
Of course, some colleagues may really mind that you didn't invite him, so you can answer, "It's just a small wedding, only invited relatives and close friends" or "the budget is not much, only invited a few guests", so you can't pick the reason.
5. is the leader invited or not? How to invite?
The most difficult thing comes last. The leader is really troublesome. If you don't invite him, he may think that you don't respect him. If you invite him, he may even disdain to come. If you invite him without inviting other colleagues, it's not good to be known. So what should we do?
Let's see if others invite you first.
If a colleague of yours got married and invited a leader before, you'd better invite him, or if the leader finds out, it will inevitably lead to bad feelings.
it's up to him to make the decision.
anyway, I suggest you give the paper invitation to the leader in person. You can tell him, "I'm getting married next weekend, so you can come over when you have time." Then if people don't want to come, they will definitely give him the decision because they are busy or have no time.