How? When the horse died, I followed the trend.
In the only 100 yuan, I took out the consignment fee and sent all the unsalable clothes to my wife's house (Xiangxi). The rest of the money goes to KFC for a big meal. The wife said, "Let's talk about it after eating. Tomorrow will be better. "
Then, I went back to my parents' house and borrowed 1000 to let my wife go home and take care of the children. I went back to my old job. I once designed a commercial dining kitchen. I began to follow the old relationship and contacted one by one to find projects. After finding feasible projects, I contacted my buddies who always wanted to cooperate with me to discuss cooperation conditions. The basic adjustment is that he pays the money and I am in charge of the business and technology. After the project is completed, the cost will be deducted and the profit will be shared equally.
In June 2002, 165438+ 10 finally got the project, and we started formal cooperation. After the Spring Festival the following year, the project was completed and 40,000 cash was given to everyone. At that time, when my partner handed me a plastic bag filled with cash at the gate of the community, I almost fainted with excitement. When they ran home and collapsed on the broken table, the couple touched a lot of tickets and really cried. Only babies crawl leisurely around them. That's my first bucket of gold.
Since then, with a passion, my wife has taken charge of the rear without any regrets. We finally bought our own (home) in full in 2006, took the rest of the money to play around with our wife and children, traveled to Hong Kong and Macao, chose diamond ring jewelry that we owed our wife when we got married, and gave our parents pocket money. The feeling of spending money is really painful. I went bankrupt again soon that year.
But there is no problem with hope, and enthusiasm is still there. I am willing to make my family happy. I am young and not afraid of being tired. Then there was nothing, and I started again, so I was painful and happy.
20 19 years, after New Year's Day, I broke up with my girlfriend who had been together for nearly six years. The credit card limit is 1 10000. At that time, it had already spent more than 90,000 yuan, and my girlfriend still needed a breakup fee of 1 10,000 yuan. On a snowy night, I dragged my suitcase in the cold wind, which can be said to be penniless. At this time, the scene arrived.
Fortunately, a colleague at that time took me in. He rented a house with two bedrooms. The bed in the empty bedroom is broken. I was in a bad bed, but I didn't get it. I slept all night, but I couldn't sleep at night. I brushed a video of Tik Tok, just like at that time. Those days were really the lowest point in my life. I have no money, and I still owe hundreds of thousands.
But it will be all right in the future. I bought a house and a car, but I'm still single. My goal this year is to get married, hoping to find that.
This is what I call vibrato video, which is always kept in my mobile phone to remind myself at all times.
Thank you
Every time I see this problem, I feel sad.
Childhood:
Childhood left a deep imprint on my heart. I only remember a famous natural disaster in history, not to mention food, wild vegetable leaves and even bark, which were difficult to fill my stomach.
Because my father is not at home, everything at home is on my mother and a woman with little feet. My eldest brother is just thirteen years old and will drop out of school. Half of the burden at home is on his thin shoulders, digging wild vegetables and doing everything. My second brother and I can only watch helplessly with our eyes open.
I remember that spring, the land was distributed collectively. In the afternoon, my mother took our three brothers to plant seedlings in the field. It's raining bleak, and I want to go home crying. My mother coaxed me that seedlings are easy to live when it rains, so I am not hungry in autumn.
Big brother's thin shoulders struggled to get water, and second brother took a water ladle and poured it into his mother's seedling pit. I was not sensible at that time, and I was still crying beside my mother. It's getting dark, and there's a terrible silence all around.
When my mother dragged us home with her tired body, it was already dark. Because there was no oil in the oil lamp, my mother had to burn a pot of wild vegetables dug from the ground in the dark. I cried and cried with hunger. My eldest brother and second brother are very sensible and deceive me. The rice is cooked The so-called rice is potherb soup, mom? I bought a bowl to cool myself down, and cried and cried hungry in the middle of the night. My weak and tired mother held me in her arms and sang nursery rhymes gently with tears until I fell asleep.
Speaking of poor words, it really makes me feel terrible. There may be many people who have never suffered. Because the family has good economic conditions, some teachers and friends feel the same way with me. As long as many people suffered in the 1960s,
Rural people always split up as soon as they get married. When they are together, it is difficult to solve the problem of food and clothing all year round, so they have to give up things and find ways to spend money on them.
In everyone's mind, as long as there is a sense of responsibility, they will think about how to make money. To tell the truth, money is not everything, it is earned by yourself.
After the reform and opening up, everyone worked hard in big cities, and I followed the trend to a strange place. It was a very difficult day when I first entered this city. Because I can't do anything and I don't have any special skills, I can only earn money by coolies. At that time, hard-working people really made a little money.
In those days, I did everything as long as I made money. Then it got better. Life is much better than in the countryside. After several years of struggle, I have a clearer understanding of the city's market and turned to small business. Although I didn't make much money, my family got by. People can't compare with others, and comparison will make people angry.
As long as a person's heart is satisfied, he has no culture and expertise, and he relies on hard work. Now that his children and grandchildren are full, he need not worry so much. People's health is still the most important. As long as people don't go to the evil old society, life will always be full of sunshine.
Everyone's situation is different.
There are three moments that make me feel poor.
The first is relative poverty.
When your own conditions are far from your environment, and things like your own desires or vanity are not satisfied, you will feel sorry for yourself.
Compared with others, I am poor, so some comparisons are meaningless. Calm down.
The second moment when I feel poor, I am really in financial difficulties.
I haven't experienced it myself. When I was in junior high school, many students liked to play gambling machines. As a result, they just took money from home for a week and gave it all to the gambling machine. Borrowed 10 from school and ate steamed bread every day. In junior high school, I looked at them. I thought about why this happened.
I think if it really comes to this, I should explain the situation to my parents. After all, parents are the closest relatives, but don't ask if you are lazy or lose money. It's embarrassing. Another way, go out and find a temporary worker, laziness is not an excuse.
I think the third moment of poverty actually comes from spiritual poverty.
Go with the flow, not sure, not insisting, afraid of becoming someone you hate.
Material poverty, although poor, but I am still optimistic and happy. But sometimes spiritual poverty often makes me depressed. This is a kind of dissatisfaction with yourself.
People who are rich in material and spiritual resources are truly powerful.
Generally speaking, how did we get here when we were poorest?
In a word, poor. I'm glad to be here.
I know someone must say that now is the poorest time, and I have always been poor.
I don't care, because fortunately, although I am poor, I am not at the end of the road.
Life is still full of possibilities and hopes.
So come on, everybody.
Thanks for inviting me. The poorest day is when the child is only two years old and he is about to get married. His family only has more than two thousand dollars. Four houses were built that year. Sometimes, when the goods arrive, they temporarily borrow some money from others. The coolies are all helped by relatives, neighbors and friends, and there is no salary. My husband and wife have done it when they are free. It was a hard year, but they saw the results. Although decades have passed, I still want to thank my relatives and friends who have helped me, and my neighbors. Thank you! Difficulties will pass, poor days will pass, and days will get better every day [pray]
Under normal circumstances, I don't want to mention the poor days in the past, because it is a bit sad to mention it. A few years ago, I wrote a memoir describing my life. Divided into three parts-1,bitter childhood; 2. Difficult adulthood; 3. Happiness in old age. In 42, Henan people fled, and my father carried me from Henan to Shaanxi while begging. After liberation, I just had a full meal for several years, and the standard was low. When I was poorest, I only had one pair of trousers, which I washed and dried in the river before putting on. After the reform and opening up, it is getting better and better, but to see the sun, for all his glory is buried by the coming night. What a pity!
/kloc-at the beginning of 0/6, the partner absconded with the money. After selling the car, the credit card was overdrawn. The salary is 600,000 and the miscellaneous expenses are 440,000. There is still a mess of about 200 thousand. The credit card is overdue, that is to say, don't call it every day, it is invalid. I went home to sleep for a month and went to Beijing with my backpack on my back. Deliver takeout to make a living and pay back credit cards. At the end of 20 18, four brothers and two young ladies were around. Borrowed, spent, and the total credit card overdraft gave me 800 thousand. Start over. It's already turned over. The debt has been paid off. I bought back the car I sold. There is no way to explain how difficult it is to start a business. Because only you know your own difficulties. Thank the friends around you.
My poorest days were spent at my mother's house, where I lived as soon as I got married. My husband had to go out to work because of the debt he owed when he got married. Less than a year later, we gave birth to a boy, and the family burden became heavier and heavier, which made him breathless. In this way, in order to pay off my debts, I continued to live in my mother's house until our children entered the first grade of primary school. At that time, we didn't have much savings to live on, and we had to ask my mother for daily necessities. It was the hardest day of my life. Although the environment has improved now, it is far from others, and poverty will never catch up with others' wealth.
How much debt a person can bear, how much future he can have! This is my personal experience! No matter what the reason, most people will have a low point in life, they may be confused, they may give up on themselves, but life will continue! This year is the worst year for me. I owe my classmates 70 thousand, credit card130 thousand, borrowed flowers ... about 2500 thousand, and I have to pay back the car loan 6000 every month, and my wife and children eat 3200! Especially at the beginning of the epidemic, I feel that I can't see hope! A while ago, it was like a walking corpse. I don't know what emotion is. I have to pay it back almost every day. I wake up every day thinking about how to pay it back today! I couldn't sleep all night! I almost despair, but when I think of my wife, children and elderly parents, I just bite the bullet and rush forward! I made an appointment with my best friend, got as drunk as a fiddler, and made my own statistics and plans when I came back! I believe there will be milk and bread! Debt is not terrible, but no enterprise is terrible. Giving up on yourself is the most terrible thing. Every day, several friends cheer for me! First of all, there are economic sources, no matter how much, at least income! If we can do it in stages, at least the pressure will be much less every month! After half a year's hard work, I feel my self-confidence has come back and I can get used to it slowly. Although I am very tired every day, I still get something! Recently, I joined the media industry and made full use of my scattered time! As the saying goes, fly meat is also meat! Being in debt is not terrible. Solve the morale problem first, that is, your own heart. Second, you must have a relatively stable job that can solve the problem of food and clothing. Third, make full use of your trivial time, find one or more part-time jobs, so that you can have enough food and clothing at the same time! This is my little experience! Share it with everyone!