How to mix like a fish in water on the Chinese style dinner party?

1. Rather be a cupped eye, not a teasing eye, as little as possible, only in the key time to talk to pick up the stakes, and more to give people to find a step, rather than to give people to find a stump.

2. Do not stay waiting for others to give you a toast, others first toast you, you still have to return, it is better for you to toast each other first, so that others first feel your enthusiasm, and then wait for the other side to come back to toast you.

3. If you're not a good drinker, then drink slowly and be frank with each other. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and then you'll be able to get your hands on a new one, and then you'll be able to get your hands on a new one.

4. When clinking glasses, no matter what the status of the other party, the mouth of their own cup should not be higher than the mouth of the other party's cup, there are a lot of people who will care about this detail, so try to be flush with the mouth of the other party's cup or a little lower in order to show humility.

5. Do not persuade, others want to drink how much to let others drink how much to respect other people's alcohol, if you are to persuade him to drink, perhaps next time he no longer want to drink with you, similarly, you next time you no longer want to eat and drink with a certain person, then persuade him to drink hard.

6. More words of praise, not words of damage. Do not harm anyone at the table (including people outside the table), avoid drunkenness, if you feel blurred, go to the restroom with cold water to sober up a bit, to ensure that they do not talk nonsense.

7. Don't talk big, we are all old hands, you are not in the bragging everyone can tell, although others may not remember what you said, but they can remember you say these words to bring them the impression.

8. Less standing in line, more watching, keep a neutral attitude. When someone at the dinner table to put forward a point of view, do not immediately express their own subjective views, if the views of others with their own different, that self will be in an awkward situation of isolation, first wait for others to express their views, and then decide to speak, even if the views of the other side of the opposite, but also to say more to show respect for the other side of the opinion of the words.

9. If you are asking for help, start with the topic of life, share your life experience with the other person, create yourself an emotional person, impress the other person emotionally, and then mention your needs, the success rate will be much higher.

10. Less trust in what the other side says, as in Article 9, you are "luring" the other side at the same time, the other side may also be luring you.

11. The other side of the glass is empty when you can take the initiative to pour the other side of the wine, regardless of the other side of the social value than their own high or low, he will be very sense of emblem, if he said no pour, then do not pour him, respect each other's views.

12. If it is a potluck dinner with the leader singing wine, less patting the leader on the back, because everyone can see, and on their own a person patting the leader on the back, it will make other people very embarrassed.

13. Pour the wine to each other first, and then to themselves, first to the female, and then to the male.

14. If it is your treat, it is best to take the opportunity to go to the restroom when the bill, rather than call the waiter to the table to settle the bill, this detail will make the other people in the seat a lot more comfortable.

15. The food and drink. If you have just been integrated into a group for the first time to eat with the other people present, do not feel embarrassed, let go of eating, let go of drinking, more with others to clink glasses, it is best not to raise a glass of wine alone, otherwise it will make people think that you isolated and make them feel embarrassed.

16. When ordering food, take care of everyone's tastes, but do not ask one by one in detail, after all, ordering food is not a job, and a little bit faster will let the other side feel that you are a person with an opinion.

17. Don't deliberately try to please others, words should be said in a smooth way, deliberately trying to please the other party easily feel that they are not sincere.

18. You can share more of your own story, many people like to hear other people's stories, especially at the dinner table, such as the scene of the idle flaws, everyone's comments on your story and spit can not only enliven the atmosphere of the meal, but also to enhance your feelings with everyone.

19. Control the amount you drink and don't let yourself get drunk.

20. Drive without drinking, drink without driving.