Unconsciously, we became busy people running for our lives, tired but afraid to rest. Tension strings are everywhere, and there is no trace to be found.
We tried our best as if we were powerful machines, without rest or injury. However, it is the body that will create you, stumbling all the way, those injuries, those tears, inner grievances and full of unhappiness, and sometimes I don't know who to tell.
Disappointment is often nine times out of ten, but it is no different from others. Many times, you can only bear it alone in the dark, surrounded by sadness, and there is nowhere to hide. At this time, fortunately there are books to comfort people. For example, the book "Plant your own flowers and love your own universe" written by the animation image design teacher is such a magical book that can cure all your unhappiness.
This is a super cute and super healing little book. The cover of the book uses the shape of a flower to help you see the world from a flower. Combining the lemon yellow and unique design selected in the whole book, your inner joy will flow and your mood will be bright.
In the book, Fan recorded small moments in daily life with simple and lovely illustrations and simple healing words. The little girl in the picture is just like us who stumble.
Read and read, and you will be hit inadvertently, waking up a worry. Many golden sentences in the book give people warmth and strength. It helps you see the world clearly, see yourself clearly, accept yourself, fall in love with yourself and complete a healing journey.
0 1 Look at the world: life is to upgrade monsters.
Fan Xiaobai wrote in "Grow Flowers and Love Your Universe":
"Everyone will encounter very difficult times, and nothing is satisfactory, but this is life."
"Don't be afraid, we just temporarily lost, this is normal. There is no royal road to life. Relax, detours are also your own life. "
"People always have a lot of troubles. Don't worry, people live to solve one trouble after another. "
Yes, all beings suffer, and there is no easy word in the adult world. Even behind the glamorous life, there are unknown sadness and helplessness. You are not alone.
Accept the truth of life frankly, and you will have an open mind in the face of ups and downs. The so-called life is one worry after another, just like a game to upgrade monsters. But every time you upgrade the monster, your ability will also be upgraded by one level.
For example, Zhao Han, an expert in knowledge and emotion, only knows that she is a big V, and she has many fans and admires her aura. In fact, her life was not smooth sailing. When you read her book Han Jie, you will find that she actually has a harder life than most of us. She was bullied on campus when she was a child. When she was admitted to the university, she was full of twists and turns and illness. It was after overcoming many unimaginable difficulties that she achieved today's brilliant achievements.
However, the test of life is also the joy of life. Otherwise, a smooth day means boredom. Is this life too boring?
And, as Fan said, all the hardships you endure will turn into good luck:
"Some days are really hard, really hard. Looking back, the bitterness that should be eaten, the bitterness that should be suffered, and the south wall that should be hit have not fallen. After this hurdle, the next days will become particularly good. "
No matter how hard the days are, they are full of hope. I believe good luck is coming to you, waiting for you to sign for it!
Look at yourself: stop and listen to your heart.
On the road of life, we struggle all the way forward and stumble all the way.
In the workplace, on the one hand, I work hard and often work overtime, on the other hand, I am anxious that I may be hit by layoffs and salary cuts.
When you get home, you have housework, children, cats and dogs, and all kinds of miscellaneous things waiting for you to take care of, which makes you overwhelmed.
You still have to take time to study, attend classes and study. Because there is too much competition, you don't know when you will be eliminated. You should improve yourself and plan ahead.
As Fan said: My luggage is full of ups and downs all the way. From youth to calmness, I always bow my head in a hurry. How long has it been since I slowed down and looked at the world curiously?
At this time, we need to slow down, just like the "life inquiry" issued by Austrian psychologist frankl. We also need to stop and listen to our inner voice. "There are too many voices and noises in this world. Along the way, don't miss the scenery on the road, don't miss the inner voice. "
Go deep into your busy daily life and ask yourself, what do you want What are you working so hard for? Most importantly, are you happy?
You will find that if you are unhappy, you have failed yourself and time. Because, when you are unhappy, time does not belong to you. If you are not happy, you are not alive.
You need to stop, look at the blue sky and white clouds, wait for bloom, slow down and find happiness again.
Accept yourself: let the power of self gush out.
When you see the upgraded world clearly and see the truest self in your heart, you will gradually accept life, accept yourself and fall in love with yourself, so that your self-power will burst out.
You will be more patient: "It's cloudy because the sun is loading." Be patient, everything you want is on the way. "
You will be braver: "Be brave, what are you afraid of?" Big deal, go back to the starting point and start over. "
You will be more tenacious: "When you are ready to give up, ask yourself if you want to?" If you don't want to, you won't insist. A lot of things just get through it. Get through it, and you win. "
You will put down your struggle and say, "Be bold. Anyway, in this world, we only come this once. How can you be willing to let yourself live in regret? "
You will be more decisive: "Give up when it is time to give up. Sometimes, giving up halfway is not a mistake, but a timely stop loss. "
You will be more relaxed: let go of those worries, anxieties and busyness, "relax and travel around the world."
You are no longer confused: life is actually very simple. "Don't embarrass yourself. In the following days, our goals are: eat well, drink well, sleep well and be in a good mood. Relax and don't let yourself get lost in obsession for the rest of your life. "
You will be more sure: because, you know, "all success comes from hard work and running, and all happiness comes from struggle and persistence."
Haha, do you feel it? No matter who you are worried about, Fan Xiaobai seems to be able to cure you, give you warmth and energy with TA's books, and awaken your strength in the wild.
In fact, no matter how hard the days are, we might as well press a pause button for life, stop being busy with life, unload fatigue, make a good cup of tea, hold a good book, enjoy time while reading, rest in peace, and let words heal your heart and your pain.
Personally, I think Fan's "Plant your own flowers and love your own universe" is also particularly suitable for pillows. When you feel upset, sad, anxious or depressed, you can read it again at will. This book lets you know that you are not alone, and there are people like you. Let it cure your unhappiness with lovely pictures and wise words!
I hope that in the future, whether it is sunny or rainy, you can: "Be your own sun, emit your own light, and make the days bright and hot!" " "
Remember, you must be happy!