"Like a fine rain, sprinkled down my heart, that feeling so mysterious, I can not help but raise my head to look at you, and you do not show, although not say anything, call people hard to forget, that is your eyes, bright and beautiful ...... "
Just bought back Tsai Chin's VCD record, I put it into the computer, when her song echoed in the room, the concert, her bright smile on her face, I was really happy, I've been looking for her song "Your Eyes", and now I hear her original singing, it's really a pleasure. The first thing she said when she opened her solo show at the Hong Kong Red Centre was, "I've been waiting for 18 years to get on this stage, and for 18 years, all I could do was to keep putting out records, and then, surprisingly, so many songs made me a hit, and now, I'm finally on this stage." I saw that there were some tears in the corners of her eyes, for her singing career, she sacrificed her family, sacrificed a lot of things she should have. A short monologue, let a person bitter, let a person touched, can be seen, in the process of waiting for the dream, filled with how much expectation and tears, as well as, the persistence and strength of life.
Everyone, will experience a period of darkness in life, or short or long, life at this time, can only let themselves quietly waiting, waiting for themselves to continue to send out light, waiting for their own one day, to be able to realize their own dreams; waiting to bring light to the people at the same time, their own out of the darkness of the night. Tolstoy lost both parents at the age of two. The cruel reality brought him disappointment after disappointment. In the face of war, he longed for peace; in the face of hypocrisy, he longed for sincerity. His heart was never at peace. Yet he can only wait for his dream. It is such a man full of contradictions that has shaped a thousand types of people. Like Mariya Natasha in War and Peace, Maslova and Nekhtov in Resurrection. You will see characters in the book smile at you, sneer at you, cry at you, and roar at you at times. There is language that will last you a lifetime, and there is language that becomes more and more catchy the more you read and the more you realize the wonders of it. The suffering of war, the struggles of the soul, and the author's monologue-like statements are all thought-provoking and moving. He brings beauty to the table while achieving success in life himself. One can only imagine how much waiting and suffering he went through during this long process.
Cheng Qian, once a famous host, won the audience's favor when he was young, with only a high school education, through his own unremitting efforts. But who knows that he went through the Cultural Revolution and worked as a laborer, and those dark days were undoubtedly as long as years for him. But for his dream, he waited hard, and finally everything came through.
Many years ago, I like a girl, but our conditions are very different, so I can only quietly work hard to make themselves glowing with youth. After writing for many years, I turned from a text rusty writers into a little-known freelance writers; in the continuous accumulation, through their own continuous learning, I turned from an ordinary worker into a foreign enterprise's financial director; in the continuous struggle, I established their own small company; looking back at the past road, perhaps because I am persistent to her, but also perhaps because my heart has a kind of Hope, that is, I hope I am excellent, and can be in a certain year, a certain month, a certain day, can let her produce a very refreshing feeling, can like me. But not necessarily love me. Under the support of this hope, I keep trying, waiting in the effort, and later, she still did not accept my like, just can be good friends. However, I found my own true love in my efforts. Perhaps, this is life.
Many people will be like Tolstoy, Cheng Qian as experienced a period of black night of life. But there are many people still living in the dark night of the self, can not go to the light. Why? Because they are just waiting for the dawn, but ignored their own goals, as well as the efforts, struggle, learning, persistence and the use of scientific methods. To get out of the dark night of life, you should light a lamp of hope for yourself, burn your own dream of hope, light up others at the same time, but also for their own direction, and for this and the persistent waiting and struggle.
Draw yourself a bottom line
There was a martial arts master who lived in seclusion in the mountains.
Hearing of his fame, people came from far and wide to find him and learn some tricks of the trade.
When they arrived deep in the mountains, they found the master picking water from the valley.
He hadn't picked much, and neither of the two wooden barrels was full of water.
According to their imagination, the guru should be able to pick very big buckets and carry them full.
They were puzzled and asked, "Guru, what is the reasoning behind this?"
The guru said, "The way to carry water is not to carry too much, but to carry enough. Greedy for more is counterproductive." The crowd became more and more puzzled.
The Master took a man from among them and had him refill two full buckets of water from the valley.
The man picked them with great effort, staggering, and within a few steps, he fell to the ground, spilling all the water and breaking the man's knee.
"If the water is spilled, will we have to go back and re-do a bucket? With a broken knee and a hard walk, won't you have to pick less than you just did?" The master said.
"So Master, may I ask exactly how much to pick and how to estimate it?"
The Master laughed, "Look at this bucket."
The crowd looked and a line was drawn in the bucket. The master said, "This line is the bottom line, the water should never be higher than this line, higher than this line is more than one's ability and need. At first it is necessary to draw a line, after picking more times you don't need to look at the line, you know by feeling whether it is more or less. Having this line reminds us to do everything to the best of our ability and to live within our means."
The crowd then asked, "So how low should the bottom line be set?"
The master said, "Generally speaking, the lower the better, because such a low goal is easy to achieve, people's courage is not easy to be frustrated, on the contrary, it will cultivate greater interest and enthusiasm, and in the long run, step by step, naturally, will pick more and pick more steadily."
Picking water is like martial arts, and martial arts is like being a human being. By taking a step-by-step approach and gradually realizing your goals, you can avoid many unnecessary setbacks.
More stones underfoot
When I first graduated from college, I was assigned to a remote forest town as a teacher, with a pitifully low salary. In fact, I have a lot of advantages, teaching basic skills are good, but also good at writing. So, I complained about the unfairness of fate, while envying those who have a decent job, that a generous salary of fellow students. As a result, not only did I lose my passion for my job, but I also lost interest in writing. I've been thinking about "jumping ship" all day long, fantasizing about the chance to transfer to a good working environment and get a good paycheck.
In this way, two years passed quickly, my essential work is a mess, and there is no gain in writing. During this period, I tried to contact a few of my favorite units, but ultimately none of them accepted me.
However, it was such an insignificant little thing that changed my fate that I always wanted to change.
That day, the school held a sports meeting, which was undoubtedly a big event in the town where cultural activities were extremely poor, so there were a lot of people coming to watch. The small playground quickly surrounded a dense ring-shaped wall of people. I was late, standing behind the wall and crossing my legs, I couldn't see what was going on inside. At this time, beside a very short boy attracted my attention.
I saw him moving bricks from a short distance away, behind the thick wall of people, patiently building a platform, layer after layer, half a meter high. I don't know how long it took him to build this platform, and I don't know how many exciting games he saw less because of it, but he smiled at me when he climbed up to that platform that he had built himself. The joy and pride of success was so clear.
In a flash, my heart was shaken - how simple it is: to see the wonderful game over the dense wall of people, as long as more bricks under the feet.
From then on, I was passionate about my work, down-to-earth, one step at a time. Soon, I became a well-known teaching master, busy, I still don't forget to plow, will be their own teaching experience, write out the experience. Later, my name frequently appeared in newspapers and magazines, became a number of newspapers and magazines of the contributing writer, and my book was also edited and published. At one time, a variety of enviable honors have fallen on my head. Finally, I got what I wanted, and got my very favorite job.
When people's situation is not as good as they would like, they are used to find a reason, often saying that the world is unfair or fate is not favorable. In fact, there is no reason, only excuses. The same environment but have a different life. There are always advantages and disadvantages of the environment, and no matter how the environment, there are always people who excel, and at the same time, there are people who do nothing. So don't blame the environment for the unsatisfactory situation, the key is how you face the environment, the use of favorable factors, the transformation of unfavorable factors. You utilize the existing conditions? Not enough opportunities, but you do not have a better use of opportunities
Ideal people as long as you do not spare no effort, down-to-earth in their own feet one by one pad "bricks", will always be able to see their own longing for the scenery, picking the heart of the tempting fruits, to achieve their own expectations of life.
Learn to stop
A fool, said he stupid, because if every time someone take a five cents and a dollar coin to choose, he always choose five cents of the coin. Many people do not believe, there are many people to verify this matter, but, the fool really is every time to choose 50 cents of the coin. So some people asked him behind his back, "Do you really not recognize the value of coins? Why don't you choose the one with more money to take?"
The fool whispered to him, "I recognize the coins, but if I chose the dollar coins, who of you would still be playing this game with me?"
It was such a fool in the eyes of the people that he took the fifty-cent coin every time, and he took many times the one-dollar coin for it, and who of us can think that he is still a fool? Not only is he not stupid, but he is cleverly witty.
Several men were hooking fish by the water's edge when they saw a hooker's rod rise and hook up a big fish, more than a foot long, and the audience cheered. However, the hooker removed the hooked fish and threw it back into the water. The spectators then lamented that the hooker was too greedy to be satisfied with such a big fish.
Not a moment later, the hooker made another cast, this time the fish was even bigger than the last, he looked at it, put it back in the water and continued his fishing, then several times, the angler hooked a fish that was much smaller compared to the previous ones, the crowd was watching him, and this time the hooker carefully placed the fish in his own creel.
Some people then asked him, "Why do you give up the big one for the small one?
The hooker replied, "Because the biggest dish in my house is only a foot long, and I can't hook a fish that is too big for my dish to hold."
Modern human relationships, often people always choose a one-time overdraft, doing business also want to earn all at once. Think they are so smart. I don't know that this itself breaks their own back. We think about it differently, this people think of the fool, because of his stupidity, only to have too much reward.
Man's desire to never stop tempting us to the pursuit of the material world, and excessive pursuit of interests often also make people lose the direction of life itself. Therefore, in all things moderation, learn from the wise thinking of the angler of our pen.
Life is a journey, and then the beautiful scenery can not be retained in a hurry
We are always by the first sight of the beautiful lost his eyes, forgetting to wait for the change of the old man's heart helplessness. Until you leave only to understand that, originally, every encounter in life, not all will be a long stream of companionship, more is the tea cool people scattered respectively. I love the encounter, know each other, separation, goodbye forever. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money to pay for it.
Can't stay is to get along with the drop, and the rest is always far away from the back, leaving a deep and shallow imprint in the life, but the road is just a passer-by, tearing apart the line that pulls the edge of the...? The flowers are similar year after year, and the people are different year after year. The so-called things are not the same, so it is so sad sigh. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
At one time, most of us longed for eternity. However, only after the loss of understanding, life is an endless journey, and then the beautiful scenery can not be retained in the hasty footsteps. The scenery around us is constantly changing, so the short road to meet people ah, how many can always be accompanied? The reality is so, constantly met, constantly lost. Once met like have to say goodbye to the scenery, stay there, become the protagonist of the memories again and again. Just once the protagonist of memories. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money to pay for the services you need.
The so-called eternity, just time and our joke. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money to pay for the services you need.
The years have taken people farther and farther away, and I have taken the memory farther and farther away. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new product, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new product, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new product. So many people, are gradually forgotten, the only still remember, is that brief companion of tenderness.
There are tears can fall, even if the sadness, then, will not again heartbreak it
Flower blossoms and falls, is the cycle of the chronological order, and the seasons seem to be associated with seemingly no association. After all the changes in the human experience, will still be confused in their own lives, but also intoxicated in their own lives, but there is no way to force themselves not to think about those seemingly irrelevant things that have passed. Sitting in the gradual fall and will fall under the flowers, reach out and catch a petal red, in the nose tip sense of its cool and fragrant, as to see that the chrysalis butterfly into a cocoon as open-minded. No one can encounter the miracle of not wandering in this world of reincarnation. I would like to meet Tao Ling, from now on to avoid the world in the "peach garden", after all, that is also a beautiful dream, why expect too much unrealistic it?
Often appreciate Luo Guanzhong's "rolling Yangtze River, the waves of heroes," the mood, however, and often sigh "right and wrong, the head is empty, the river and mountains are still in a few degrees of sunset red" depicted the sadness of life. So, I keep drifting, keep planning their own drifting route, want to go that long river sunset round desert north, go that thousands of birds fly away from the west of the region, go that ten miles of the fragrance of the lotus Jiangnan. Although the pressure from life is so realistic, although from the reality of life is so cruel, I still adhere to, all the way to the dining morning dew, all the way to the evening sleep alone, the wind and rain in the wandering, only the starting point does not have the end, as if the fallen flowers into the mud can no longer return to the branches of the once unlimited scenery.
The next year when the flowers may bloom and can be brilliant, it is also once again the cycle of just. I'm not sure if you're a good person, but I'm not a good person. Bitter short, go day bitter more Cao's sentiment, I will also be like the ancient people tears wet lapel. "Once the sea is difficult to water, in addition to the witch mountain is not cloud." I don't know is that the ancient people a moment of talent to come up with the poem, classic really can "no one after".
Still laughing at the spring breeze, look at the flowers in the spring memory of whether the flowers blossom and fall season, I tried to follow the path of the flowers to solve the path of life, seek to seek to go, people will be old and rotten, the road is still the same road. Maybe when how many years have passed, farther and farther away from the past, I can no longer trace. Although some people may say that it is a bit late for you to go back to your dream, I am going to go back to my dream again. But I'm going to go back and see if there are any more peach blossoms on that tree, if it's still as soft as water, and if it's still as soft as water.
Whoever is able to hold on to those flowers, he must be able to hold on to his own life, and must be able to listen to the faint fragrance of heartbreaking despair and live happily. I can not do, so I can only recall that light "rainy night, that full of green leaves, and Daiyu buried flowers of the tragic; can only do so, do some of the most boring things, watching flowers blossom and fall in vain, leaving sad past.
The day has gradually bright, green and white smoke and mist covered in silver-white morning sun, confused eyes to see the flowers: blossom and fall of the time in the end how much more? Life is not much of a day, the occasional sadness counts as a day? I don't know, but I think this looks quite helpless life seems like it shouldn't be a mistake, don't you think?
Like to taste wine, so like green apricot boiled wine allusion. The love has been confused, the world and who is willing for me to plum rain cold, and who is willing for me to wear a wide belt without regret, and who is willing for me to drop endless tears of lovesickness blood throw red beans, and who is willing for me to open endless spring willow spring flowers full of paintings building? Life may be graceful, blossoming and falling sadness will fade with the passing of life, so it is rare to feel "that wait in the season, such as the lotus blooming and falling" beauty, but also therefore sad at the sentence "I'm not a returnee, it's a passer-by," the bleak. The morning sun, beautiful as usual. The morning sun, beautiful as usual, summer flowers, beautiful as usual, but I, the beautiful state of mind has long ceased. The state of mind such as drifting maple leaves, instantly feel the eastward flow of autumn water.
Time is still in a hurry, too hurry, and occasionally for myself now can "distribute by the summer cool, shade lying idle spacious" and complacent. Finally be able to experience Li Bai's "life must be happy", who cares who is right and who is wrong tomorrow and today? Hobbling footsteps move lightly, pain and happiness to see the flowers blossom and fall, and fall with the flowers, than a person as lonely as the fireworks good it.
The horse flies and chugs, and the spring goes to the fall will come. I look out of the window in the morning wind, looking through the autumn water, but also look at a long sleeve swaying with the legend of the years, but sprinkled with my heart of the land. The summer is over, the long days are getting shorter, but people are starting to get confused.
No need to care too much about other people's laughs, dress up the mask of reserve, in the uninvolved years on the stage and sing and sing, show the splendor of the one-man show, regardless of the applause and flowers from the decorations, the sea is still flowing horizontally, the mulberry field is still difficult to old, I am me, a person with a unique personality charm. Really, I really want to watch the flowers blossom and fall; really, I really want to know how life is in the end?
Looking back at the past as shallow as a lamp, come and go, things are different, life is always as good as the time, gathering and dispersing in a hurry is always the edge of the fly edge scattered, or how can life must be happy, which cares about who is who is wrong tomorrow and this day. Just, the sea is still flowing horizontally, the mulberry factory is still difficult to old ......