Dude, you'd better meet your in-laws first and listen to their parents' opinions. Then began to decorate the new house, because the woman's family will marry him when talking about the ceremony. At this time, it depends on what dowry the woman will marry. This dowry is usually chosen by the woman's parents. This is something my daughter likes. When these things are solved, we can decorate them. When we get married, we just talk about the gifts first, then buy the house that the other parents want (mainly near their parents' home, so it's convenient to come and see), and then the TV, washing machine and microwave oven are accompanied by the woman! Then I bought some electrical appliances. I finally got married! So you'd better meet your in-laws first, or they will find fault with you!