When I went to Sister Wang's house that day, her husband was busy cooking in the kitchen, and then pushed out all those of us who wanted to help in the kitchen and said with a smile, just sit and wait for the food.
When the dishes were served, one of them forgot to add salt. Sister Wang immediately changed her face. Just when she was about to have an attack, her husband quickly picked up the dish and explained that I was so happy that you could come over for her birthday. I forgot to put salt in it.
Then I turned and went to the kitchen. I followed him to help wash the dishes, and I couldn't help but give him a thumbs up. As a result, he casually said that a soft word can solve it, so why bother to make her angry.
I was a little unhappy when I brought the food to the table again. I can't find any trace on Sister Wang's face. She is busy greeting us to eat food. Although she didn't say anything, the happiness on her face could not be hidden.
In fact, sometimes men don't take it so seriously and put away their so-called face properly, and marriage will actually be happier.
Since the birth of her daughter, Xiao Yao, her best friend, has devoted her whole heart to her daughter, fearing that she will be in great pain when she meets her. But her husband has a big heart, and he doesn't care at all about taking care of the children, according to Xiaoyao's words.
That night, Xiao Yao was washing dishes in the kitchen, and her daughter, who had just turned one year old, stumbled around in the living room. Xiaoyao let her husband watch, don't let the child fall.
As a result, the bowl was only half washed. Xiaoyao heard her daughter crying and ran to the living room. Her daughter hit her head on the corner of the coffee table, bulging a big bag and crying her eyes out.
Xiaoyao lovingly picked up her daughter and looked at her husband who was at a loss. She wasn't angry. She yelled at him and asked you to look after the children. what do you think? My husband whispered that she touched it herself. I really didn't mean to.
Now Xiaoyao is angry and growls at her husband. What's the use of me asking a man like you? I thought I was crazy to marry you. Then I hugged my daughter and cried myself.
At this moment, my husband suddenly came over and hugged her and her daughter. He said softly, it's a good thing you're out of your mind. Otherwise, how could I have such a beautiful wife and such a lovely daughter? In such a word, Xiao Yao suddenly burst into tears.
These little embarrassment in marriage, sometimes a soft word from a man, can be solved.
There are many men who like to compete and quarrel with their wives in order to please them. They never give up or give up, as if it would embarrass him. But the problem is, if you don't lose face, you may lose your feelings.
Seriously, it's not a shame for a man to be soft on his wife. When two people live together, one of them must be persuaded. If they don't give in to each other, I'm afraid they will only break up in discord.
In a truly happy marriage, there is a man who is willing to "recognize cowardice".
The so-called cowardice does not mean that there is no principle at all. It is only in those things that a little cowardice can solve in marriage that we are mainly weak and timid. Just like Sister Wang and Xiaoyao's husband, they just made a confession and resolved an unnecessary quarrel.
For the rest of your life, you want to marry a man who is willing to "recognize" you.
Only such men are truly worthy of marrying, because they are the most transparent, because they know that wives are never used to conquer, but to grieve.