If the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is good, the environment of the whole family will be good, and the relationship between husband and wife will benefit a lot from the better environment in which children grow up. To do this, we need the joint efforts of both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Of course, as a man, for the sake of family harmony, he should also handle the relationship between mother and wife. From the day the daughter-in-law entered her mother-in-law's house, there were problems between them, because her mother-in-law always thought from her own perspective. But if a good mother-in-law, she will stand on the same front with her wife, and will not hurt her, but treat her as her own daughter.
As a parent, mother-in-law doesn't need to tell her children what to do with their lives. Because what the mother-in-law wants to see is the happiness of their husband and wife's life, if what the mother-in-law says makes sense, she can tell her wife directly without going through her husband's ear. If it is not conducive to unity, a good mother-in-law will not say anything, so there will be no contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Although people say that there is nothing wrong, but the parents-in-law married the wrong wife, in the long run, the misunderstanding between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law will become deeper and deeper, and the contradiction will become bigger and bigger.
In life, many family conflicts are caused by the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which leads to the instability of the whole family. If there is a good mother-in-law at home, reducing some contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will greatly improve the environment at home.