? Everyone wants their feelings to be sweet all the time, but emotional things can't always be smooth sailing. There are always quarrels, running-in, quarrels again, running-in ... sometimes quarrels are too serious for us to run-in. In the process of running in, many people feel that their feelings for each other are deeper. That's because you understand each other and tolerate each other in the running-in, but there is a degree of tolerance. If you don't grasp that degree well, it's easy to be apart. The sea of people is vast, and the process from meeting, knowing each other and knowing each other to falling in love is precious. Every relationship will go through some twists and turns, and sometimes it will break up. Whatever the reason, since you still love him, go and get him back.

? When you just break up, give each other some time. When we just broke up, most boys would have some negative feelings about girls, only to see your bad and irrational, but not your good. During this time, don't disturb him, don't call him, don't send him short messages, even if you miss him very much, let him digest those emotions quietly. Many girls are too eager to save their boyfriends, which disrupts their time to digest negative emotions and often leads to their disgust. The length of this time depends on the strength of your breakup and your boyfriend's personality. Generally speaking, the more peaceful the breakup, the more rational the boyfriend, and the shorter the time. You can try to contact your boyfriend in a week or so. If his attitude is also quite peaceful, then you can move on to the next step. If he is still tired of you, then you can wait.

You should know to reflect on yourself. During this time, you should find out why you are with your boyfriend, because of love or other things. Do you really want to be with him now, because you still love him, or because you are too dependent on him to adapt to life without him? Analyze your feelings and think about when your feelings began to crack because of different personalities. Different living habits? Or do you not trust each other enough? If you really still love him and want to be with him, then you must know how to compromise and change.

Don't give yourself too much pressure. Don't keep calling, leaving messages and texting him. It seems that you can't live without him. You can do what you are interested in, go out with friends more, and life will always go on. Don't give him a feeling that you are desperate for life. Give him a call when you think about it. Don't send messages or leave messages, which can't express your tone and feelings. Call him positively, sincerely, sincerely and enthusiastically. Don't always make a promise to your boyfriend that you want to change, you should show him practical actions. You know, your boyfriend will break up with you, which is a little distrust of you. Only when you put what you said into action will he be more confident to go with you.

? Don't give up on yourself after breaking up. Learn to think rationally in your feelings, keep a positive attitude and be good at using some tips. Sometimes recovery is not necessarily successful, and sometimes you have to experience the pain of lovelorn. We can only work hard once, so that we won't leave regrets in our hearts and have a clear conscience. There are better people waiting for you ahead.