In-laws' visit is not worth a penny. This is an old saying, which means to belittle and despise. Nowadays, in a civilized society, families are harmonious and in-laws are related. For the sake of children, we will often meet if we have something, so we must get along well.

In-laws are nothing more than children from two families. Be careful, be polite and don't make too many friends. If there is anything wrong, please advise.

This sentence mainly expresses people's attitude towards their children's in-laws. Although it sounds unreasonable at first glance, after careful study, experts say: this is the experience of the ancients.

"In-laws' visit is not worth half a penny" means that in-laws don't need large-scale entertainment.

In-laws refer to two families whose children get married, which has been said since the Tang Dynasty.

In ancient China, at that time, people preferred sons to daughters, and the whole social concept generally believed that "married women spilled water". Once a woman got married, she was completely attached to her husband, and her relationship with her family became more and more alienated. Daughter parents don't expect their daughters to provide for the elderly, and even some women have their parents' male surnames in front of them.

A married daughter has no right to inherit her family's property.

In this context, "in-laws' visits are worthless" has become a matter of course.

Today's society advocates equality between men and women. Daughters also enjoy the same rights as sons to inherit their parents' inheritance.

Family planning has been practiced in China for nearly 40 years. Most young people are only children now. Children have the responsibility and obligation to support their parents.

In today's society, daughters have the same right to education as sons, and women have to engage in social work and earn money to support their families as men, so their status has been greatly improved. Women are no longer men's accessories, they enjoy the same social status and rights as men, so the status of in-laws has also improved. "Half-written" has become a thing of the past.

Nowadays, in the marriage of young people, there is already a phenomenon that children take their mother's surname. It is also popular in Zhejiang Province for young couples to have two children, one with the husband's surname and the other with the wife's surname. This is the product of the combination of ancient tradition and the reality of the only child.

In Shanghai, many grandparents bring up their grandchildren, and the woman seems to be in the dominant position, which fully shows that the only child is male or female.

There is another meaning in the sentence that "in-laws' visit is half worthless", that is to say, it is best to have less contact with in-laws here, and visiting them is self-deprecating.

Since ancient times, "mother-in-law relationship" and "in-laws relationship" are prone to contradictions. There is an unspeakable disharmony, which is a difficult relationship to deal with. Therefore, as children's parents-in-law, it is best to stay at a respectful distance from others, and have less contact and communication.

This is of great benefit to protect the stability and peace of children's marriage.

This sentence is an old saying; In today's society, it is completely different.

1, I am a girl born after 60, thanks to the strict family planning policy. Obviously, people my age, especially people in cities, are mostly children. Then, the married daughter can never be splashed with water. Because our daughter will still come home often, all our wealth belongs to her.

2. Therefore, the birth of a daughter must be the cooperation of her hometown. Because the house is a little big, I am kept at home, and my in-laws come to my house every three days to eat and drink. After the full moon, my daughter-in-law is willing to go back to her new house. Well, I won't stop her. So, my parents-in-law served, but my father-in-law had diabetes and my mother-in-law had heart disease. Although we are about the same age, I am afraid of tiring them. So, we used the weekend to replace them and let them go home to rest. Besides, there are old people on it. Now, we have formed a three-day door-to-door service and a four-day in-laws door-to-door service. Of course, we often get together.

3, the key is that prostitutes are not strong enough. When we were young, a mother mostly took four or more children with her. Now, grandparents, grandparents, daughter-in-law, Yue Yue, seven people with a child, are still jabbering in a hurry. The key is of course that our daughter is not smart enough, but our parents like our grandson and hate our daughter, so we are embarrassed and afraid that our children will be tired and hungry. No one wants to miss the growth of a baby.

So there are only two children who are kind and loving, and our parents are willing to pay. Besides, as I said, we have a house with a deposit of 1 million, 100 square meter, which will be left to them sooner or later. We can say that our in-laws came to visit us, such as the God of Wealth.

In-laws don't communicate with each other, except for weddings and funerals at each other's home, let alone visiting each other's home, which will make people look down upon them.

I don't know this proverb, but I always feel that no matter who tries to live in peace, there is no need to make noise all day, which is good!