Brothers should be clear about their accounts, but this does not mean that brothers are completely equivalent to outsiders. Man is a perceptual animal. They have eaten in a pot since childhood, and their brothers and sisters with the same blood in their veins are broken bones and tendons.

When encountering difficulties, brothers and sisters must help each other and help each other. Of course, this kind of help should also be measured, and the helper should consider the mood of the spouse, not just brotherhood and disregard the feelings of husband and wife.

People who receive help should also pay attention to their discretion and don't take the help of brothers and sisters for granted. Nothing in this world is taken for granted. Even if parents are kind to their children, many parents are irresponsible and have no children, let alone brothers and sisters.

So don't be too selfish, be willing to help others and care more about the people you love. People who receive help should know how to be grateful and thank everyone who has helped themselves in life. You know, others can't help you, others help you out of love. Don't you have to thank them?

02

Zhang Xiuzhi and her younger brother have deep feelings. When I was a child, my parents worked outside the home, and my brother and sister took care of each other. When cooking, Zhang Xiuzhi cooks on the stove, and her younger brother makes a fire under the stove; When washing clothes, Zhang Xiuzhi washes clothes, and her younger brother is responsible for fetching water. When cleaning at home, Zhang Xiuzhi is responsible for sweeping the floor and her younger brother is responsible for cleaning the windows. ...

Later, Zhang Xiuzhi went to college, but her younger brother only graduated from junior high school. Because in my brother's third year and Zhang Xiuzhi's third year, my father was injured at work, and the economic situation at home suddenly changed.

Zhang Xiuzhi is in the third year of high school, and will soon be able to go to college. It's a pity to drop out of school at this time! Therefore, my younger brother voluntarily gave up his studies at an early age and embarked on social work. Because he has no education and skills, his brother can only find some coolies.

After graduating from college, Zhang Xiuzhi followed her boyfriend to the city where he lived. Later, they got married. The wedding room was bought by my in-laws, a house with three bedrooms and one living room, and the area is quite large. Because she doesn't live with her in-laws, Zhang Xiuzhi has always had a good relationship with her mother-in-law, and her mother-in-law likes Zhang Xiuzhi very much.

03

After Zhang Xiuzhi got married, his younger brother left his hometown to work in the city where his sister lived in order to earn more money. My brother got a job at the construction site and became a migrant worker. My brother is very satisfied. Because being a migrant worker is hard, but the income is much higher than when I was in my hometown.

My brother lives in the dormitory of the construction site, with eight people in one room. Zhang Xiuzhi went to see him several times, and she was very distressed by her brother. She wants him to live in her house so that she can take care of him.

But my brother disagreed. He said that my sister married her husband's family and my brother-in-law followed, so my husband would have problems. When he came out to work, his mother told him to be conscious, not to cause trouble to his sister's family and not to embarrass her in her husband's family.

Zhang Xiuzhi was very sad. She really wants her brother to live in her own home. There are three rooms and one living room in my house, and two rooms are vacant. One more brother at home is not a problem. But my in-laws bought the house, and she let her brother live in it, so my husband and in-laws may have opinions, so they dare not insist on letting my brother live at home.

04

After my brother worked on the construction site for half a year, one day Zhang Xiuzhi's husband went to send a quilt to his brother-in-law. Because the weather turned cold, it was inconvenient for Zhang Xiuzhi to ride an electric car with a quilt, so she let her husband drive.

The husband went to his brother-in-law's dormitory. As soon as he saw the poor living conditions, he immediately asked his brother-in-law to move in with him. But my brother-in-law wisely refused, repeatedly saying that it was good to live on the construction site. Now my brother-in-law has brought him a new quilt, which is warmer.

My husband can't convince my brother-in-law. When he got home, he told Zhang Xiuzhi to let her take his brother-in-law to live at home. The conditions on the construction site are too bad. After Zhang Xiuzhi had a husband's words, she boldly asked her younger brother to live at home.

Later, Zhang Xiuzhi and her husband took the initiative to move his brother-in-law's things home, and his brother-in-law came to live at home. My mother-in-law happened to come to her son's house on business that day and saw her daughter-in-law's brother move in. She immediately said, "That's it. My brother lives in my sister's and brother's house and takes care of each other. My in-laws can rest assured at home. "

Zhang Xiuzhi was very moved. She is very grateful to her husband and mother-in-law. Therefore, since then, Zhang Xiuzhi has been more filial and respectful to her in-laws. Husband and brother-in-law also get along well, as close as brothers.

05

After living in Zhang Xiuzhi's house for two years, my brother borrowed money to buy a new house before moving out of my sister's house. He has always been very grateful to his sister and brother-in-law for their help, which made him stand firm in this city. Later, my brother got married and became a family, and lived happily. The object is introduced by Zhang Xiuzhi's mother-in-law

The difference between family and outsiders lies in helping each other. People will always have difficulties in this life, everyone is the same, so brothers and sisters must help each other and give each other warmth and affection.

Zhang Xiuzhi wanted to help her brother, but she also had to consider the feelings of her husband's family, so she didn't insist on letting her brother live at home at first. There are many women in Zhang Xiuzhi's position, who may let their younger brother live in their own home early in the morning, regardless of whether her husband agrees or not, her husband's family will feel distressed.

People are mutual. Now that we are married, we should think more about each other and be nice to people in family of origin. Marriage is not only between husband and wife, but also involves many other people and things, so if you want to have a happy marriage, you must handle all kinds of relationships and be as tolerant as possible.