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There is a folk saying that people aged 60 to 80 are not encouraged to celebrate their birthdays vigorously, because there is a saying in China's numerology that a big birthday can take 8- 10 years. Moreover, numerology also believes that human birth is a process from God to man and then to God.

Why can't old people celebrate their birthdays?

1. From birth to 16 years old, this child is a "god" rather than a person. We can all celebrate our children's birthdays, even if it is a big event.

2. 17 to 59 years old, people have changed from "gods" to people, and they can celebrate their birthdays, but they should celebrate their birthdays according to local customs. For example, every tenth birthday is usually one year earlier. For example, the 30th birthday is usually completed at the age of 29. Because there are many folk sayings: "If you pass three, you can't pass four", "If you pass three, you can't congratulate four, and if you congratulate four, you should be naughty", and "The living don't worship forty, and the dead don't worship forty-seven", so you can celebrate your thirtieth birthday, but you can't celebrate your fortieth birthday.

3. When a person is 60 years old, it is already the cycle of 60 children. Therefore, from the age of 60 to 80, it is impossible to celebrate birthdays in a big way. In the past, it was believed by both people and individuals that once people reached 60, they could not celebrate their birthdays, because they were afraid of "reminding people" and "checking out" their birthdays in advance.

When people reach the age of 80, they become "gods", so they can celebrate their birthdays with great fanfare, because they are already "gods" and not people.

Friends who are too old in those years should be careful about their birthdays. You can "do it quietly, don't shoot."

Birthday taboos for the elderly

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Pay more attention to every tenth of your life.

According to tradition, every tenth of the whole life is highly valued. Moreover, every tenth birthday can be called a big birthday. For example, when you are 60, 70 or 80 years old, you can say that you are 60, 70 or 80 years old. However, there is a special emphasis on birthday celebration. There is a folk saying that "do nine things but not ten things", that is to say, every tenth birthday should be celebrated one year in advance, which is also called "do nine things". The 60th birthday should be the 59th birthday, and so on.

Why is it so stipulated? Because "ten" is homophonic with "death" in China tradition, people are quite taboo. Celebrating one year in advance also takes the homonym of "never leaving ten" and "never leaving ten" in China's "never leaving ten" sentence, and also expresses the wishes for the health and longevity of the elderly. On the other hand, "Ten" has the biggest saying in Feng Shui, meaning perfection, meaning perfection. In China, there is such a cognition that "full stomach will hurt", "full moon will lose money" and "extremes meet", which means reaching the end and reaching the top. Celebrating the tenth birthday and holding a grand ceremony means "celebrating the birthday", which is very unlucky. In China, the word "nine" means good luck, and the homophonic word "long" means "long and long", which means that the old people are endless and well-intentioned.

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How to celebrate longevity, longevity and longevity?

The life expectancy of the elderly should be greater than the nominal age of 50, 60, 66, 70, 77 (happy birthday), 80, 88 (longevity), 90 (longevity), 99 (centenarians) and 100. Before the nominal age of 50, no matter how prominent the family is, no one suggested celebrating birthdays and holding a grand birthday party.

Among them, the four birthdays of 66, 77, 88 and 99 were celebrated in advance on the sixth, seventh, eighth and ninth days of the first lunar month, and the birthdays of that year were just like that.

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On birthdays, interval is the most taboo.

Once you start celebrating your birthday, you have to celebrate it every year. If you break it halfway and celebrate your birthday again, it's called "decapitation." In addition to the idea of doing it every year, there is another factor, that is, inviting relatives and friends. Invite relatives and friends for the first birthday, and invite them for the second and third time.

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Risk age of birthday celebration

As the old saying goes, "Sixty-six, Heavenly King Lao Zi eats a piece of meat" and "Seventy-three, eighty-four, the prince goes uninvited", 66, 73, 84 years old is a hurdle, or longevity, the elderly should pay attention.

When the old man died at the age of 66, his daughter or daughter-in-law would give him 66 jiaozi, weighing six pounds, six sides and six pounds. Vegetarian stuffing takes precedence, followed by meat stuffing.

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Shouyan time

The banquet for the elderly should be held before noon 12, and birthdays are not allowed in the evening. This is a little common sense and a very important practice. If the birthday party is held in the afternoon or evening, it is easy to reverse the yin and yang, the gas field is disordered, the magnetic field collides, disasters come, and there are many bumps.

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The happier the better.

Old people should have a family reunion and enjoy family happiness on their birthdays. When the old man has a birthday, the more children and grandchildren get together, the better. The more people gather, the better. Not only will the birthday girl increase because of his popularity, but the people attending the birthday party will also increase more luck because of his popularity.

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Avoid extravagance and waste, avoid killing.

The banquet for the elderly should be vegetarian, don't kill too many people, and focus on extravagance and waste. Remember not to kill for the old man's birthday party, otherwise it will be counterproductive and you will get rewards again and again. Shouyan dishes should be served in double portions instead of single portions. The staple foods are longevity noodles, longevity buns and longevity peaches.

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First-class Fu Bao

It is better to release more people, print more scriptures, donate more money to build them, and do more good deeds while the old people are alive. If the elderly have other religious beliefs, they can do more good deeds according to their own beliefs, pray for themselves and accumulate blessings for future generations.

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scarlet sage

If old people celebrate their birthdays, they'd better wear red clothes. If it is inconvenient to wear red, underwear and socks must be red. Before the opening of the birthday party, firecrackers should be set off to ward off evil spirits and pray for prosperity.

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