Especially when I was a student, I guess I played tricks on my classmates in the name of April Fool's Day.
Friends my age may not be interested in this festival, but the young people in our company are still playing hard and still young.
Unlike our middle-aged couple who cooked women, I couldn't remember them at all unless my colleagues reminded me. Besides, there are all kinds of trifles in life. For us, this is just an ordinary day in life.
In fact, before I had children, let alone April Fool's Day or even Christmas, I didn't take it seriously. I think this is a foreign festival, and there is no need to spend so much time there.
Since the birth of children, both China and foreign countries have basically come to join in the fun. I believe that life needs to create some sense of ceremony, but anything that can bring happiness is worth mixing. We must learn to create happiness for ourselves.
On the other hand, although our family doesn't celebrate April Fool's Day, think about it. Besides joking, our understanding of April Fool's Day is almost a "cheating festival".
Almost all of us have grown up since we cheated on each other. Who wasn't cheated by our parents when we were children?
"I'll save the lucky money for you." "You can't eat clean rice, and you will grow pockmarked when you grow up." "You picked it up from the trash can." ......
For us children, as long as our parents don't agree, every day is April Fool's Day, poof, hahahaha ~
When I grow up and have my own children, I finally have a chance to "cheat" them. Although April Fool's Day was not specially chosen, I never "cheated" two children.
I didn't give my baby ice cream when he was a child. He wants to eat when he watches others eat it. I said, "this is not as delicious as mom's cooking." Mom will do it for you. "
Then, I cheated him with yogurt for a long time, until one day after I went to kindergarten, when I brought it to him again, he said to me, "Mom, this is not ice cream, this is yogurt. Are you stupid? "
Today's children are still well-informed, not as naive as I used to be, thinking that when they grow up, they really have a lot of money saved.
I once went to America for a business trip and said to my baby, "Mom is on a business trip. You and dad have a good meal and sleep at home. Mom will bring you a super gift when she comes back. "
Then I turned my face and placed an order on Taobao, pretending to be a gift brought back to my child on a business trip in the United States.
I must cooperate with my father. When I receive the courier, I will hide first. A few minutes before I get home, I will put it in my bag and hide it in the corridor, pretending that I bought it.
Colleague said: "The meat bag is really poor, and it is always cheated by my mother."
I said, "He's not pathetic at all. Since childhood, no one has lied to me like this, okay? "
Later, when the bag was still small, he would bring him "super gifts" every time he went on a business trip, one at a time, all of which were his favorite things.
I don't know if this is "cheating" on children, but it is a good example of spoiling children.
In our family, not only the mother cheated the child, but also his father did a lot.
Once my father went running in America and visited the Boeing factory. Before leaving, he asked me to tell the baby that dad was going to buy him a big plane.
The child lingered all day, but there were still some gifts. In the end, he didn't know where it came from.
When you get to the second child, you can't favor one over the other, you have to fuck around ~
My brother took him to the toy store, and the two sisters were dazzled, looking around, looking at this and touching that, and completely lost.
My brother asked, "Yang Yang, what do you want to buy?"
Me: "This is a museum. You can only see it. "
However, fooling around didn't take long. After several visits, the second child learned to "deal with a man as he deals with you."
See grandpa and say, "Grandpa, let's go out for a walk. It's sunny outside. " Then, I took it to the toy city when I went out.
I'm packing jiaozi. Although sometimes it is fun to "cheat" or tease children, we parents still need to pay attention to a scale.
Tell a proper little lie, which may bring him a lot of happiness in his childhood. If the child is willing to accept it, just feel happy.
Even if I know the truth when I grow up, it is enough to regard it as happiness. Children also need a sense of humor, and a positive sense of humor can also bring confidence to children.
If you think that children don't know anything, but they are just Doby, scaring them, "The wolf will come to you if you don't sleep" or "Your mother doesn't want you", don't tell lies that make children afraid and lost.
If you don't like the "treatment" you received since you were a child, why should you let your child bear it again?
After all, children are still young, and both cognition and three views need the correct guidance of adults. We must help them understand it, right?
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