A woman is pregnant and needs nutrition. She can't help buying pork because it's too expensive. Today, let's talk about the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law caused by ribs.
Xiaohua is 32 years old and has been married to her husband for 7 years. A few years ago, Xiaohua's stomach was always quiet, so her mother-in-law had a lot of complaints. Now she is finally pregnant, but Xiaohua is unhappy because she met a stingy mother-in-law, which made her very angry.
Xiaohua comes from the countryside and has a sister who is five years younger at home. Although the family conditions are not good, her parents are still unwilling to help Xiaohua finish college. After work, Xiaohua took out all the money for her sister to study. With the support of Xiaohua, my sister also successfully finished college. Sister Kobanawa made money one after another and built a three-story building in her hometown in just three years. Everyone in the village praised her two children for their ambition and filial piety.
Many young girls in rural areas get married early, and Xiaohua's parents also have this idea. They looked at Xiaohua's age and hoped Xiaohua could get married early. After all, girls are young and have more room to choose a spouse, but Xiaohua hates blind date because she thinks blind date is unreliable. Later, under the introduction of friends, she met Xiaogang.
Xiaogang is tall and quiet. Xiaohua likes this kind of boy very much, because she thinks such a boy can bring people a sense of security. Later, after a period of contact, the two formally fell in love.
After dating for a year, they got married, but the marriage was not smooth, because her mother-in-law disliked her, Xiaohua was born in a bad family, and Xiaohua had no brothers. Mother-in-law thinks Xiaohua's parents are a burden to her son after all. Xiaohua's parents also saw her mother-in-law's worry, but they appreciated Xiaogang. In order to let Xiaohua marry Xiaogang smoothly, Xiaohua's parents made concessions, not to give a bride price, and let her mother-in-law reluctantly agree to this marriage. Because of this incident, Kobanawa's mother-in-law had a contradiction, but the contradiction was not made public. Soon after their marriage, they separated from their in-laws.
We all know that young people are married, and the task of 1 is to have children. They hope to have children after their careers are stable. Coupled with Xiaogang's physical problems at that time, Xiaohua's stomach didn't move at all, and her in-laws were very dissatisfied. Everyone mistakenly thinks that Xiaohua can't have children, and Xiaohua knows that men love face. For the sake of Xiaogang's face, Xiaohua bears the reputation of being infertile, and Xiaogang knows Xiaohua's grievances, so whenever her mother-in-law is in trouble.
After five years of marriage, Xiaohua is pregnant and her in-laws are very happy. Her mother-in-law took the initiative to take care of Xiaohua, which made Xiaohua very happy. She wants to take this opportunity to ease the relationship with her mother-in-law, but she doesn't know that Xiaohua's life is hard.
It is said that pregnant women should be delicious and delicious, so that nutrition can keep up and healthy children can be born. Before her mother-in-law came, Xiaogang often bought local chickens for Xiaohua to make up her body. After her mother-in-law got used to it for a month, she left the food and daily life at home to her mother-in-law.
Xiaogang gives her mother-in-law 3000 yuan every month. Xiaogang means Xiaohua can buy whatever her mother-in-law wants, and her mother-in-law agrees. At first, my mother-in-law changed her tricks to cook for Xiaohua, but since Xiaogang went on a business trip, her mother-in-law has changed.
A while ago, Xiaogang was on a business trip for a month. In this month, my mother-in-law spent almost every day on vegetables, porridge, pickles and steamed bread. In the morning, my mother-in-law cooked porridge, fried two dishes, ate early and went out to play cards. At noon, Xiaohua was asked to heat the leftovers herself. At night, her mother-in-law bought some steamed buns from the supermarket and sent them away.
At first Xiaohua could bear it, but after a month, Xiaohua was overwhelmed. This is not a life, but a complete pain. Mother-in-law takes 3,000 yuan for meals every month, but buys food every day to send Xiaohua away, and takes the rest of the money to play poker, which makes Xiaohua very angry. So she complained to Xiaogang that she was too stingy and always reluctant to buy meat and vegetables, but Xiaogang did not believe that her mother was such a person. He comforted Xiaohua and said
The day before yesterday, Xiaohua couldn't help it, thinking that she hadn't eaten pork for a long time, and wanted her mother-in-law to buy two Jin of ribs for stew, but her mother-in-law still bought one Jin of cabbage and radish. Xiaohua was angry and quarreled with her mother-in-law.
Xiaohua pointed out that her mother-in-law was too stingy, but her mother-in-law accused Xiaohua of being too expensive, saying that life was even more difficult when she was pregnant, and Xiaohua should learn to bear hardships. Xiaohua shouted angrily to her mother-in-law: I will divorce your son if the child is aborted.
That afternoon, Xiaohua called her parents, who took Xiaohua back to her family. It was her mother-in-law's fault, but her mother-in-law said Xiaohua was too difficult to serve everywhere, so she found fault with her mother-in-law. She didn't lose her temper and ran back to her parents' house.
In the face of such a rude and unreasonable mother-in-law, Xiaohua was very annoyed. Originally, Xiaohua was full of grievances, but Xiaogang blindly let Xiaohua make way for her mother-in-law. Xiaohua began to wonder, is such a man what she wants? Can such a marriage continue?
My mother-in-law doesn't buy ribs because pork is expensive. She buys food every day to entertain her pregnant daughter-in-law. Is her mother-in-law really stingy or does she not like her daughter-in-law at all?