1, the bride sits in the center of the main table facing everyone, the groom sits on the bride's left, his father is on the bride's right, his mother is on the groom's father's left, her mother is on the bride's father's left, her parents' elders sit opposite the bride, the witness sits next to the elder and the distinguished guests sit next to the witness.

2. When the couple is not sitting, the groom's father sits in the center of the main table, with the bride's father on his left and the bride's mother on her left. The elders sit next to the bride's father, the witness sits next to the bride's mother, and the distinguished guests sit next to the witness.

3. If the couple's house is too big to arrange a main table, they can arrange two main tables, one for their parents (married brothers and sisters can arrange the main table or arrange the dining table separately), and the elders and distinguished guests can sit at two tables respectively.

According to some customs, the parents and elders of the new couple can be divided into two tables according to gender. Behind the main table is the dining table of relatives of the new family, on the left are relatives, colleagues and friends of the groom, and on the right are relatives, colleagues and friends of the bride-to-be.