First, face the independent life calmly.
After going to college, the biggest change for college students is the living environment. Without the daily care of parents and elders, many things need to be handled by themselves, and real independent life has begun. On the other hand, from the "independent kingdom" of a single room to the "collective dormitory" of six people, the adaptation and running-in of this living environment and habits is really a test for students who have never lived in school.
Second, manage your own "small treasury"
Although it is only a few months from taking the college entrance examination to entering the university, the living expenses of freshmen have doubled. According to the frontier students of Huangshan University majoring in tourism management in 2004, some students used to get only 10 allowance to 20 yuan every month in high school, but when they went to college, their families had to give them several thousand yuan of living expenses (one semester), which was simply a "huge sum" for them. When I first entered college, my classmates didn't have much experience in "financial management". Some of them were extravagant in the initial time, shopping, traveling and eating ... They spent almost all their money in two months, and later they had to scrimp or ask their parents for it.
In college, many students live a tight life because they can't manage money, and even have to borrow money at the end of the term. Therefore, freshmen should establish the concept of "financial management". Spend the first two or three months of school in a planned way: what expenses are necessary, what expenses are completely unnecessary and what expenses are dispensable in life. Money should be spent on the cutting edge, avoiding completely unnecessary consumption, and spending as little as possible. In particular, we should make daily consumption according to parents' economic ability and the ability of "work-study program", and we must not blindly compare.
Bian Sheng said that a more effective way for freshmen to manage their finances is to make a feasible "consumption plan" at the beginning of each month and try to implement it according to the plan. Excess money can be deposited in the bank for a rainy day.
Third, the law of work and rest.
Wang Di, a journalism student who was admitted to Xi Jiaotong University last year, said that when she first entered the university, she felt that the university was very different from the third year of high school: the third year of high school lived at two o'clock and one line, and the endless homework and books were like a tight top, while the freshman had little pressure to study without the supervision of parents and teachers. This long-awaited freedom made many students feel "at a loss" at first, and life suddenly became a lot lazy.
Good living habits are an important basis to ensure the success of the university stage. In order to enrich college life, we should pay attention to this problem from the moment we enter the university, cultivate good living habits and prevent the formation of bad living habits.
First of all, work and rest on time and get into the habit of going to bed early and getting up early. Tian Jinjie, a student at Dongbei University of Finance and Economics, said that the school apartment lights out every night 1 1. Some students are energetic and used to sleeping at night. They are not sleepy at two or three in the morning. As a result, I was very tired in class the next day, and I was not interested in attending classes at all. Sometimes I just skip class and make up my sleep in the dormitory. If you do this for a long time, it will not only affect your schoolwork, but also easily cause insomnia, and it will also affect other students in the same dormitory. Students who sleep late in most cities get up late, and one of the direct effects is irregular diet. Many people get up late in the morning and go to class before breakfast. Some simply cancel breakfast, and some casually eat snacks during recess. Over time, their health will definitely be affected.
Second, insist on physical exercise. Taking part in some cultural and sports activities after study can not only relieve the rigid and tense life, but also relax the mood and help improve the learning efficiency. Listening to music, running, doing radio gymnastics, playing football, etc. Both contribute to strengthening physical fitness and improving disease resistance. This is a positive rest. There are abundant sports facilities in universities, so students should not waste them.
Third, stay away from bad lifestyles. Without supervision, some students began to relax their requirements as soon as they entered the university, and they became infected with bad life behaviors such as smoking and drinking. In fact, college is not the end of study, but a new starting point, and these bad behaviors will become a big obstacle for college students to learn.
Fourth, develop your specialty in your spare time.
Teacher Jaco, a counselor at the School of Humanities, Hebei University of Economics and Business, believes that a remarkable difference between a university campus and a middle school campus is that the extracurricular life of a university is rich and colorful. In addition to daily teaching activities, there are various lectures, seminars, academic reports, recreational activities, community activities, public relations activities and so on. These activities are really dazzling for freshmen, so freshmen often don't know how to arrange their spare time.
To arrange your spare time reasonably, you must first have a rational analysis of your recent activities. See what you want to achieve in the near future and how important various activities are to your development. Then make the best schedule, and constantly modify and develop it in the implementation plan. Freshmen should be good at using their spare time for some useful entertainment activities, such as singing, dancing and playing chess. Try to cultivate a variety of hobbies, cultivate interests and enrich life. It's best to have one or more hobbies that you are interested in and good at during college, which is not only conducive to building self-confidence, but also to enhancing social adaptability.
In addition, it is best to make a special leisure plan and make proper arrangements for some major holidays and leisure projects, so that leisure and study can be carried out in an orderly manner and the body and mind can be effectively relaxed and adjusted.
Four Common Difficulties of Freshmen and Their Solutions
Because they are not familiar with college life, many freshmen will encounter such problems at the beginning of their enrollment. After a long time, they will find that these are just minor problems.
Question 1: Go to the canteen.
Walking into the university cafeteria, many freshmen look at the same food and don't know how to choose: tomato or cucumber? Noodles or rice? How many steamed buns do you want to buy ... Many students will be confused by these "difficulties", and some students will buy what they like for convenience. They will buy three or four kinds of dishes for dinner, and they will be wasted if they can't finish eating them.
Some students are used to eating quietly at home and sitting in the school cafeteria, but they can't eat any more, for fear that others will see their "eating". This kind of problem is more common among girls.
Question 2: Shopping
Although many freshmen are masters of spending money, they encounter problems as soon as they arrive at school: they have money in their hands, but they don't know where to buy it. As a result, freshmen are often cheated by door-to-door sales, mainly because they are new here and unfamiliar with the environment. Students can consult their brothers and sisters, and they will tell you where things are cheap and which store has everything.
Question 3: Dealing with interpersonal relationships
For freshmen, the relationship between classmates (especially those in the same dormitory) is a serious problem that puzzles everyone. Du Yuanyuan, a student of Shanghai International Studies University, encountered this problem when she first entered the university last year. In the first month after entering the university, several students in the dormitory have a close relationship and everyone's life is relatively unified. In the second month, because students come from different regions and different families, there are obvious differences in concepts, values, lifestyles and habits, and there are also many conflicts between them.
Interpersonal relationship is a compulsory course for prospective college students, and students who are about to enter colleges and universities should consciously strengthen the cultivation in this respect.
First, learn to tolerate others.
Many students have no experience of living on campus. Before they went to college, they lived freely. Suddenly, if they want to share a dormitory with several people, they must tolerate other people's lifestyles. If other people's lifestyles interfere with your life, you need to put forward your opinions euphemistically and adjust yourself appropriately (for example, adjust your schedule).
Second, active communication.
If you want to handle the relationship between classmates, you should be lenient with others and strict with yourself. Don't take me as the center. In our daily life, we should take the initiative to greet our classmates, talk to them and help others. In addition, we should take the initiative to do some public work to increase students' goodwill.
Third, pay attention to skills.
When you get along with your classmates, you should be honest with each other, but when you give advice to your classmates, you must use your brains and pay attention to methods and skills. One thing to note is that giving advice to others must not be in front of everyone, so as not to be embarrassed and lose face.
24 suggestions from people who have experienced it.
1, maybe you are the second choice; Maybe you are the nth major, but whether you like our school or major or not, you should bury yourself in your studies and study hard. If you give up, even if you have the chance to change your major, it's not your turn.
2. No matter what famous school you study; After school starts, there will always be some freshmen who will be arrogant, but please be modest. There are many students with stunts, and grades determine everything.
I will be curious about college life. I should use this time to collect more information about the school and make more friends.
4. The GPA of the first three years is useful, and students with higher GPA have greater employment opportunities. University for 4 years, apply for study abroad (Weibo) scholarship, free of tuition and living expenses will also depend on the grade point (preferably above 3.5).
College exams are not very strict about cheating (so are key universities). Occasionally, I will turn over the books during the exam. When you are out of line, the teacher can remind you at most.
6. University life is rich and colorful, and study is only an important part of it. The purpose of college exams is to test whether you know, not to master. University study basically does not need counseling books.
7. Stick to class. Every day after class, you will study 1-2 hours on average, plus 1 hour of exercise. If you double the time before the exam, you will get a third-class scholarship for the academic year.
8. When the school starts, there will be a phenomenon of "bullying" in the morning class. Please sit in a fixed seat if you listen carefully in class so that the teacher can get to know you (you will get extra points in the exam). If you are often absent from class, please fight guerrilla warfare and don't let the teacher know about you.
9. After school starts, everyone will study hard. Sometimes you will feel that there is a lot of pressure to study, and there are many courses. You must study hard for important courses!
10, universities in northern Guangdong; Most dormitories are not equipped with air conditioning (including famous schools such as Qing, North, Fu, Transportation, Science, Zhejiang and South). ), and many freshmen's dormitories don't have internet cables. There is wireless Internet access in the library of the study room (laptops are free), and seats are also provided in the computer room (charge on time if you want money).
1 1. At night, the school study rooms are generally full, especially in hot season (the study room library is air-conditioned). There are so many people reviewing during the exam that they want to grab seats, but there is no way. Don't grab 7 o'clock in the evening, then there will be no seat for self-study.
12, the overall male-female ratio of each school is also different (there are more boys in science and engineering and more girls in literature and history). Here is a reminder to boys: as boys, you must act like boys and be considerate of girls. Therefore, at the beginning of school, we should try our best to make boys carry luggage and books.
13, collective life can't be as free as living alone. You need to adjust your life rules. The dormitory has lights-out time at night.
14, attention for night owls; Think more about others, don't affect the rest of your roommates, and be sure to have a good relationship with your roommates. After all, you will spend four years together, so always remember that you are a family. Pay attention to communication, and discuss what is difficult.
15, remember: be honest with others! Only in this way can we find a true bosom friend. At the same time, be good at distinguishing which friends can be made and which are just nodding acquaintances. Try to find some excellent people to be your friends, and you will benefit a lot.
16, the building management will check the dormitory hygiene irregularly every week (in fact, it is basically regular, so-called spot check) and pay attention to cleaning, because the hygiene appraisal will be linked to many collective and individual awards.
17. When using a meal card in the canteen, be sure to keep an eye on the machine when punching in to prevent 4 yuan from calling 40 yuan. This is not unheard of.
18, try to play cards as little as possible in freshman year, although this may be your only leisure way this semester. Next semester, freshmen will flee to computer rooms and Internet cafes.
19, develop a regular schedule, although you will become more and more irregular in the next few years.
20. It's a university now. It's best to use college holidays to go out and find a job, or go out for a walk. Contact with society is necessary. If you want to find a job, you must go to the work-study program office!
2 1. Don't help your roommate install computer game software. Although your original intention is good, in the end, he will scold you while playing games and teach him bad.
22. Don't expect the waiter in the canteen to have a high math IQ. Their correct addition rate will not be higher than 50%. For them, multiplication is easier than addition.
23. Don't go to the waiter's window to cook in a bad mood. He will turn your steamed ribs into steamed eggs.
24. Don't take your textbooks home during the holidays. You must take them back to school intact.