The father-in-law is his wife's father. Since ancient times, people have addressed their wives and fathers as grandfather, mother-in-law, grandfather, mother-in-law, Mount Tai, Taishui and so on. "Mother-in-law" originally refers to male elderly people.
As a son-in-law, besides calling or congratulating in person, sending birthday presents will be more considerate to the elderly. Pay attention to attitude, action and language expression when giving gifts. Peaceful, friendly, natural, elegant movements and polite language expressions are generally acceptable to the recipients.