Hemei family construction
In my feeling, home is a quiet and safe harbor. No matter how hard we try to make a living outside and come home, we will put down all pretenses, share the pains and joys in life with our families, let our hearts return to peace and find the goal of a long life struggle. If home is a harbor, then every member of our family is her repairman. Only by cooperating with each other carefully can our harbor not be disturbed by the wind and waves.
First of all, a family should have a good family style. The personality of each member of the family will definitely be different to some extent. However, members of the same family often reveal something in common when they speak and act, which is enough to show that the atmosphere of a family will affect a person's growth to a certain extent. Family is the first school after each of us is born, and the formation of our outlook on life, values and world outlook will basically be influenced by family. Adults in the family, in particular, should do a good job of self-discipline, take Chinese traditional virtues as the code of conduct, and achieve "honesty and trustworthiness, openness and diligence, unity with neighbors and family harmony" to set a good example for their children.
Secondly, cultivate good reading habits. Reading can enrich our spiritual life. It is said that reading changes fate, but I think the biggest advantage of reading is to broaden your horizons and enhance communication. We may all want to see the outside world and see other people's lives. However, the time of life is limited, and we can't realize all our ideas one by one. However, reading can let us see more and learn more, from reading biographies of famous people to listening to trivial things of little people. Every reading is an expansion of our horizons. When a family has the habit of reading, its vision will be broadened, it will be more tolerant and the gap between families will be smaller. A family that can read is full of vitality and will keep advancing with the development of the times. We are now in the era of information explosion, and we read in various ways. In addition to traditional bookstores, TV, mobile phones and the Internet all constitute our faster and more convenient reading channels. Young people can use these tools to get in touch with the freshest ideas from the outside world, while old people have a window to understand the development of the times while sticking to the tradition. Even if reading family members observe problems from different angles, they can give each other more understanding and tolerance and have more common topics.
Finally, small decorations in life can make family life more lively. In the final analysis, family life is mainly composed of the most basic necessities of life. If the living environment is comfortable, people's mood will naturally be peaceful and happy. Of course, a comfortable life needs a certain economic foundation, but not the amount of money can fully measure the comfort of life. Family members can use their brains together, carry out the second transformation of waste materials, change the decoration at home together, or raise pots of plants together and learn new recipes to improve food at weekends, all of which can well increase the interest of life, which is not only healthy and environmentally friendly, but also enhance the emotional communication between family members.
A harmonious family, like an oasis in the desert, brings comfort and tranquility to people. Since we are on the oasis, what we have to do is to manage our homeland in unity and harmony, so as to keep the oasis alive forever.
Qiao Xue, Technology Center.
Essays on Hemei Family (2)
Family is a member of society and the most important harbor in everyone's life. Everyone's life struggles and experiences revolve around a happy home. From our harmonious family to our motherland, "home" embodies many dreams and contributions of life. So, how to have a happy and beautiful home? Tolstoy once said: Happy families are all alike. What is similarity? I think the most important thing is harmony. Harmony means hard work, care, dedication, health and inner peace; Harmony means tacit understanding, understanding, tolerance and mutual affinity; Harmony means management, innovation, progress and keeping pace with Qi Fei. There is nothing immutable in the world, but harmony is the best way to maintain a family and create eternal happiness.
Happy families all over the world have something in common. Tolstoy once said another sentence: Every unhappy family is different. We are in an era of rapid information development, and the other side reflected by the great expansion of material desires is the impetuousness of people's hearts and the materialization of human nature. The characteristics of these times challenge the development of human nature and family itself. There will always be various opportunities in one's life. In the process of facing life together, every member of the family may have all kinds of incomprehension and differences, so great writers will sigh, but fundamentally speaking, family members do not have a truly objective and inclusive attitude to look at each other, which is easy to make a family gloomy. A family is established by several people together, which is different from the freedom before it was established. In the world at home, what is needed more is understanding and tolerance. Because of the differences in personality, lifestyle, outlook on life and society, it takes a long time for any two people to get together and form a family. People especially envy those who have taken care of each other all their lives. Their life together is probably a process of constantly improving themselves and knowing how to give and tolerate. One of the biggest characteristics of harmony is the balance between tolerance and the whole, and prosperity on this basis. The foundation of trust and understanding, tolerance and dedication is embodied in the company day and night, which gives the river of family an inexhaustible source and the motivation to move forward happily.
It takes decades or even hundreds of years for a small tree to grow into a towering tree. In the process of its growth, it also needs to be cut and discarded after there is enough nutrient supply. This is like the growth of each of us, which is a process of constantly promoting the superior and discarding the inferior. Many sages and philosophers have said: a person's greatest enemy is himself, and the person who can defeat himself is amazing. The growth of a family is nothing more than that It can be said that an enemy of a family is the stagnation of each member of the family in self and running the family. In the process of our common struggle, if everyone stays at the initial starting point without making progress, does not know how to examine their own shortcomings and is good at changing, then the family tree will lose some vitality, may lack strength in the face of wind and rain, and may also lose vitality in the face of disasters and tests. The world we live in is undergoing earth-shaking and ever-changing changes. When everyone is struggling in life, if you don't know how to stick to your own beauty and let it improve and strengthen with life, then the whole family will not grow up strongly and will not be able to cope with all kinds of tests. Therefore, it is very important for everyone to learn and reflect on themselves. If every member of the family can take creating a beautiful home as a powerful driving force, constantly improve themselves and jointly manage their own and each other's dreams, then the family will grow into a towering tree full of love and emotion. A good family lets us know how to be grateful for life and life, and how happy and meaningful it is to work together in life! Man is the most active individual. For families, growth is inevitable, and management is also very necessary.
Home is a small boat, which leads us forward happily in the ocean of life. A man with love and wisdom will be a good helmsman. Facing life, let's all become open-minded and brave sailors, and strive to make the ships of our homeland sail and reach the other side of harmony and happiness.
(Contributed by: Department of Gynecology, Laigang Hospital? Yu)
Hemei Family Essays (3)
Li Haihong
The harmony between the earth and the blue sky creates everything; The harmony between loess and green water makes the world full of vitality; With the harmony throughout the year, seeds germinate in spring, everything grows in summer, the earth harvests in autumn and fruits accumulate in winter. Harmony is the beginning of everything! Only in a harmonious world can we have human reproduction and growth.
Harmony is a representative concept in China traditional culture, the best state of natural things and the common feature of all beautiful things. Realizing harmony is a beautiful ideal and desire that human beings have dreamed of since ancient times.
Family is the basic unit of human society and the harbor of happiness for each of us. Family harmony is the beautiful wish of all of us and the common expectation of the whole society. It will be an eternal theme and our goal to mobilize all positive factors and create a harmonious and civilized family environment. Carry out activities to create a "harmonious family", promote social stability with family security, build "small security" of family into "big security" of society, and create a harmonious, stable and peaceful social environment.
Family harmony is the basis of social harmony, and family security is the basis of family harmony. Without a peaceful family, you can't play harmonious notes. Family harmony should be based on peace and fairness. Finally, gender equality, harmonious relationship, family harmony and neighborhood unity will be realized, which will be conducive to the all-round development of all of us and the harmonious development of society. Ultimately, a harmonious society that is democratic and ruled by law, fair and just, honest and friendly, full of vitality, stable and orderly, and harmonious coexistence between man and nature is the ideal society for mankind.
To build a harmonious family, we need to build a harmonious family relationship. (Fan _ Wen _ Xian _ Sheng _ Net) It is the responsibility of parents to respect the elderly, care for the next generation and work hard; Our children respect their parents and the elderly, and it is our task to study hard; Parents inspired us to love, let us grow up in a loving environment, learn to keep a good attitude, learn to tolerate others, and exchange one sincere heart for another. Family members respect and care for each other, thus creating a harmonious family atmosphere, so that each of us can feel the warmth of a harmonious family and study and work better.
To build a harmonious family, we need to establish a good family style and atmosphere. Good family style and atmosphere can make us full of vigor, unity and friendship; Enthusiastic and down-to-earth study, warm and harmonious family style and atmosphere can promote personal growth in a good environment, guide each family to be an upright person like the spring breeze, set lofty goals and work hard for their ideals.
Building a harmonious society and family requires the joint efforts of all of us. We all need to trust each other, be honest with each other, tell the truth and do practical things; We need all of us to be upright and brave, and to be brave in fighting against the bad guys. We need all of us to grasp every day of life unremittingly, use our wisdom and courage to raise the ideal sail and sail to the other side of harmony.
In spring, let's fly the ideal kite in the beautiful spring breeze; In summer, let us thrive in a warm family; Autumn has come, let us all harvest happily in a stable environment; Winter is coming, we gather strength and greet the beginning of the new year with hope!
Let the old people spend their old age in a harmonious and happy family; Let parents have the energy to work hard in a fair and stable society and weave the dream of a strong motherland together; Let children study hard in a harmonious and friendly environment and serve the motherland in the future.
Let's all ring the bell of peace and beauty with harmonious notes, and play the cheerful music of a happy family: as the saying goes: home and everything prosper!