Why is her mother-in-law eccentric after marriage? For example, a kind and fair mother-in-law will not be partial to her son and daughter-in-law because of the amount of money. Daughter-in-law who is eccentric with her mother-in-law is generally right and can make her look good. For example, I can do housework, please my mother-in-law and do things that make her happy. But there are no exceptions. Many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are partial to each other because of the amount of money. Which daughter-in-law buys more gifts for herself, which daughter-in-law is filial, which daughter-in-law gives herself a little kindness, which daughter-in-law is sensible, and even some mother-in-law thinks that her daughter-in-law is rich and powerful, so she is partial to her daughter-in-law, and so on. So you have to understand why your mother-in-law is eccentric, and you can find a solution by understanding the reasons. 1. It is generally believed that the value of daughter-in-law lies in carrying on the family line, especially in families with deep-rooted patriarchal ideology. If a daughter-in-law has no children for many years after marriage, she will generally be rejected by her mother-in-law. Comparatively speaking, it is obviously more popular to add a male daughter-in-law to her husband's family soon after going through the door, and such a daughter-in-law is also more likely to be favored by her mother-in-law. 2, my mother's favorite son, my mother's favorite son, the wife who comes back is generally not bullied by her mother-in-law. After all, I love my house and my dog, and I don't look at the Buddha's face! Daughter-in-law with strong economic strength and rich family background is usually more emboldened at home and speaks hard. Mother-in-law can naturally understand the important value of resources and contacts brought by such a daughter-in-law to her family. Even for her son's future, her mother-in-law has to live! And if the daughter-in-law has strong working ability and strong economic strength, then she will certainly understand the benefits of economic independence. Especially those who have experienced the fluctuation of husband and wife's income will understand the sentence "economic strength determines their right to speak in the family" What can I do to make my mother-in-law as a younger generation? Faced with such a problem, first of all, I must not get angry and keep a calm mind. It's best to find out why her mother-in-law is biased. Some people are biased because of their poor conditions, or their mother-in-law feels guilty because she suffered a lot when she was a child. Only by finding out the reason can we prescribe the right medicine and not freeze the relationship. I understand the reason why my mother-in-law is eccentric to her family, so there must be a reason why her mother-in-law is eccentric. The so-called love for no reason can also be reflected here. Generally speaking, a kind and fair mother-in-law will not be partial to her son or daughter-in-law because of the amount of money. The daughter-in-law of eccentric mother-in-law is generally right and can make her mother-in-law look good. For example, I can do housework, please my mother-in-law and do things that make her happy. But there are no exceptions. Many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are partial to each other because of the amount of money. Which daughter-in-law buys more gifts for herself, which daughter-in-law is filial, which daughter-in-law gives herself a little kindness, which daughter-in-law is sensible, and even some mother-in-law thinks that her daughter-in-law is rich and powerful, so she is partial to her daughter-in-law, and so on. So you have to understand why your mother-in-law is eccentric, and you can find a solution by understanding the reasons. It doesn't matter if you are partial to your mother-in-law, as long as you find the reason, you can solve it. After all, you are a family. Does your mother-in-law make everyone feel bad? Mother-in-law must have her own preferences, something she doesn't like very much, or a style of doing things. Then you have to know your mother-in-law, thoroughly understand your mother-in-law's personality, and then start your "action". If she likes her daughter-in-law to buy herself some gifts occasionally, then you don't have to be too stingy. It's not too expensive to buy some for her according to her family conditions, mainly because of her own heart. If she likes her daughter-in-law, you don't have to dally and pretend to be gentle, then let's show her the wind and rain, and so on. Only by doing what your mother-in-law likes can you make her like you, and then the eccentric situation can be solved. Sometimes a daughter-in-law always cares who her mother-in-law favors, and many people are afraid that her in-laws will leave their inheritance or money to one person. Actually, it's better to think so. Is it really that important for her mother-in-law to be eccentric? Why do you have to struggle with this? Even if you give everything to one person, is it really that important? Instead of imagining things, think about how to run your small family well. After all, parents can't keep it for life. Self-reliance is the truth. Why is my mother-in-law biased after marriage? Although it is said that the feudal ideology of son preference is not as good as before, many family elders still hope that their daughter-in-law will have a boy and even advocate the release of girls. There are two pregnant women at home at the same time, and her mother-in-law is happy and worried. She is glad that she can finally have grandchildren, and she is also worried about how to help us take care of the children. Although they are both pregnant, I have nothing to say to my sister-in-law. She is too narrow-minded and too strong. She always felt that her mother-in-law was partial to me, and she could only let her go everywhere, and advised me to talk less to her. After a few months, we were both pregnant, and we could check the men and women, so my mother-in-law let us watch. As soon as the results came out, my mother-in-law's attitude towards my sister-in-law and me was very different. Every day, my sister-in-law eats delicious food first, and my meal can only be cooked for me when my husband is off work. We are all pregnant, but my mother-in-law carefully walks in the village with her sister-in-law. If I walk behind, I will be urged by my mother-in-law. I can't help it I'm pregnant with a daughter and my sister-in-law is pregnant with a boy. But not long after, my mother-in-law suddenly called me out and said to me, Xiaoying, mom went to ask the doctor today. It's not too late to abort the baby. Otherwise, don't do it yet. Girls' films have nothing to raise. And mom has to take care of your sister-in-law, so she won't have time to take care of you in the future. As soon as I heard it, I was anxious and said, Mom, why are you so biased? I don't have to raise children, I raise them myself! In the evening, I told my husband about it. He hesitated and said, Just listen to your mother. His words almost made me fall out of bed. I didn't expect their family to be like this. I cried all night, and the next day I went back to my mother with my stomach on my back. I was pregnant in October. I thought I could finally meet the little princess in my belly. My sister-in-law and I entered the delivery room three days later. Unexpectedly, she gave birth to a daughter, but I gave birth to a son, weighing more than six kilograms! The whole family is also blindsided. Looking at my mother-in-law's flattering face, I firmly refused to let her touch my son and wipe her tears in the hospital corridor. When my husband scolded me, I was very happy. Do you think I did the right thing?