What should I pay attention to when meeting my future in-laws? Many couples have to meet their parents when they get married, but some girls are very nervous about this situation and don't know what to pay attention to. Let's share what we need to pay attention to when meeting future in-laws.

What should I pay attention to when meeting my future in-laws? 1 1. Gifts don't have to be too expensive.

It is polite for a girl to meet her future in-laws for the first time. Before giving gifts, the woman should consider the identity, occupation and personality of the man's family. If you are a professional or a businessman, you can give some special gifts. For example, send exquisite scarves and bags to the future mother-in-law, some special tea to the future father-in-law, and some local specialties of the woman to ordinary relatives. If there are some greedy and playful children, as long as they have delicious novel gifts, they can definitely be bought. If in-laws farm at home in the future, they can send some health care products and blood glucose meters. But don't give too expensive gifts. First of all, giving too expensive a gift for the first time, even surpassing the man, may make the other party feel "unbearable" and increase embarrassment. If the man hasn't come to the door yet, there is pressure in his family. Secondly, the first gift is too expensive, which will give people an excuse. Even if the girl really wants to worship, it will make people pretend that you are not upside down and that man will not marry. Remember, girls, gifts should not be too expensive, but they should be graded and reflect your filial piety, which will definitely add points to your impression.

Second, don't be too close to your boyfriend.

In the man's house, girls should not be too close to their boyfriends, so the elders will feel uncomfortable and think that girls are not reserved. However, as an active party, boys show more love for their girlfriends, so that their elders will know how you feel in their eyes.

Third, don't be too diligent.

When a girl goes to her boyfriend's house for the first time, she often wants to behave better and make her future in-laws like her more. Therefore, they will be more diligent and help cut vegetables, cook and clean, but girls who are too diligent may make their boyfriend's parents uncomfortable, but they will be at a loss and become embarrassed. In addition, girls have established the image of "diligence" from the beginning. If you are not diligent after marriage, the man's parents will think that you are "too good at pretending."

Girls can take the initiative to help their elders with food, toast and help clean up after eating. Of course, the man's family will definitely not let you do it, but you still have to express this meaning.

Fourth, don't be silent or chatter.

Don't be too nervous when a girl comes to the man's house for the first time. She should be natural and polite. You can ask questions about the man's parents or something. Of course, the man's parents must have a lot of questions for you. Answer the questions enthusiastically and honestly, don't deliberately cheat, choose the good ones, and don't really say them all. During the visit, girls should not keep silent, but always talk and don't act strong. Remember that you are just a special guest invited.

Don't say these three words when you first meet your husband's family.

I never do housework at home.

As we all know, children nowadays are almost all only children, and they always "give up" when they are at home, so now their mother-in-law will ask her daughter-in-law "can she do housework" almost every time they meet. For some girls who say that they can't do housework or show that they never do housework, at least in the heart of their husband's family, this first point is lost. No one wants his son to marry a "big lady" who knows nothing. Even in the end, his son will do housework. In the eyes of elders, girls who can do housework are good children, good wives and good mothers. On the contrary, if you say that you never do housework, they have to consider it. Of course, as a smart girl, you can have two ways to solve this kind of thing. One is to find a way to prevent in-laws from asking this question. It depends on your husband, and this matter has to be left to him and his family. The second thing is that you can tell them that you don't know much, but you can learn, so that everyone will forgive you for being sensible. Remember not to tell people directly that you won't do it, giving people the impression that I won't do it when I get married. This is not good, they may directly "eliminate" you.

He listens to me between us.

No matter who listens to whom between you and your partner before, as long as you are in front of your husband's family, you must show that you listen to men more. This involves a man's face, and his in-laws certainly don't want his son to be "henpecked", so you should give him the face he deserves in full view, which shows that you are "sensible", which is what the family likes to see at this time. Those who foolishly say that men listen to her are tantamount to challenging the authority of her husband's family. Such a person can never be a candidate for her husband's "wife." As the saying goes: when you meet people, you talk nonsense. People in the husband's family naturally don't want their son to be wronged, so you should keep the dialogue on the principle of "men are the biggest". Of course, you can also express your demands locally, but it is absolutely within the limits that the other party can tolerate you.

My mother cooks better.

Never compare your mother with your mother-in-law, because even if you become the daughter-in-law of this family, you are still an outsider. Comparing your family with your in-laws, even saying that your mother's cooking is not as delicious as your mother's, is simply a "suicide" dialogue. Please make your position clear. You want your mother-in-law to agree to your marriage. You should say something nice to coax her. Even if your mother-in-law's cooking tastes terrible, you should keep smiling and say something nice. Everyone likes listening to good things, and your mother-in-law is no exception.

Taboo of meeting in-laws for the first time

1, no makeup, exposed.

Make-up will make you more confident. I believe your mother-in-law also likes beautiful daughter-in-law. Just paint a light makeup, properly conceal the blemishes and show off your good looks. Dress decently and don't expose yourself. Otherwise, the effect is counterproductive, and it is easy for in-laws to misunderstand that you are "evil in the demon."

Don't come empty-handed.

Don't go home empty-handed when you meet your in-laws for the first time. Maybe you asked your boyfriend what to send before, even if he told you not to be a stranger, don't send it, and don't take his words seriously. But what to send, you must ask your boyfriend for advice, otherwise the gift is not thoughtful and not good-looking. Ask your boyfriend if there are any grandparents or children at home, and it is best to send them all. Of course, gifts are mainly for in-laws.

Don't give money when you meet for the first time.

Money is the most real, but it is also the most sensitive. It is difficult to master the degree of giving more and less. If you give less, you are afraid of being stingy. Give more, and you can only give more and more in the future.

4. Don't say no and don't say too much.

Chatting is a very, very important link. That's how you and your in-laws met. Without saying a word, you seem to be a dull person, and you are easily embarrassed by this silence. But don't talk too much, because you don't understand the personality of your in-laws, and you dare not say more and do more. We should give them the impression of being "cute", keep smiling and seize the opportunity to speak properly.

Don't help your mother-in-law in a hurry.

There is nothing wrong with leaving a diligent impression on your mother-in-law, but once you meet for the first time, you are eager to do this and that, which is equivalent to setting a standard for your behavior. If you are lazy in the future, your mother-in-law will criticize you. So don't do it too well for the time being. This is not to teach everyone to be lazy, but to learn to be smart.

What should I pay attention to when meeting my future in-laws? 1. See your in-laws and bring gifts to your home.

1, the gift is decent and healthy.

It's best not to bring cigarettes, because it's bad for your health. And you don't know whether your future father-in-law will allow smoking. You can buy wine, but it is best to have two bottles.

2. Gifts are not expensive.

Impression score is very important, so don't bring anything too expensive. You'd better do what you want. Gifts should be targeted, that is, they should be given to mom and dad separately. Gifts that cannot be brought can only be used by one person.

3. Recommend hometown specialties

It would be very warm if you could bring some specialties from your hometown or your parents' hometown. Another advantage is that these specialties brought from hometown can also pave the way for the next greetings. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along for the first time Be sure to leave a good impression on them!

4. Don't send things at the end.

It's best not to wear it, because it's too close-fitting, and ordinary people will try it. If it doesn't fit, it may be embarrassing. It is best not to buy the gift box sold in the supermarket now, because it is not affordable and the effect is not good.

Second, the temperament clothes in-laws are more satisfied.

1, pure and sweet as a whole

Girls with pure and sweet temperament are very lovable. If you can give people such a sweet feeling in your dress, your in-laws will be beaming, and your sweet dress will make you very cute.

2, celebrity temperament fashion

If you are exquisite and fashionable, it is appropriate to take the celebrity route to meet your in-laws. The feeling of elegance makes people feel that you are elegant as a lady, and your mother-in-law must like it very much.

3, virtuous and gentle personality

A virtuous daughter-in-law, I believe every mother-in-law will like it, and a girl with firm clothes and gentle personality will definitely impress everyone. You must choose clothes with simple colors and styles to wear a virtuous taste.

Third, the performance of meeting in-laws for the first time

1, don't just please.

If your husband's family is the kind of family that respects him one foot and he respects you one foot, please try your best, which will also enhance the feelings between you and your husband's family. But at the first contact, you knew what kind of person she was. Let's not just invite.

2. Principles cannot be compromised.

On key issues, we should be able to pull our faces down. If necessary, we can even defend and attack. For a husband who plays the fool, take the initiative. You can't be dumb when others are dumb. Otherwise, it will be too late to fight for it when you get married, so you didn't say anything. This sentence will choke you to death

3. Don't be too diligent.

Try hard for the first time, and people will ask you according to this standard in the future. If you do worse in the future, people will think you are lazy or pretentious. In order to avoid asking too much of you in the future, don't do too well for the time being.

4. In-laws have lost their former pride.

In love or marriage, one side is always dominant, that is, one side is always stronger. That person can be your husband, but you can't let your in-laws know. You can't be bossed around by your husband in front of your mother-in-law, but you must be hard.

5. Joint responsibility for family affairs

Home belongs to two people, and housework naturally belongs to two people. If you don't reverse this situation in front of your mother-in-law for the first time, people will think it's right to vomit blood later.

Intimate suggestion: it doesn't matter what we women do. It is chilling that people are ungrateful and ungrateful.