I am a local. Marry the girl here, go to the woman's house for the first time, and get a red envelope, about 4 yuan, including her parents, grandparents, grandparents, brothers and sisters, brothers and sisters and other close relatives. When you set the wedding date for the second time, you have to wrap a red envelope, ranging from about 2, to 4,, depending on your own financial ability and the attitude of her family. There are many relatives attending the engagement, and the banquet on this day costs 3, yuan, usually four to six tables. In addition, when the woman marries her daughter, the man should be responsible for the banquet money at home or in the shop. The woman should report the number of banquet tables, for example, 3 tables and 5 tables, and then a table ranges from 4 to 6 yuan, where it is about 3, to 4,. In addition, I have to give my girlfriend and mother a big red envelope, ranging from 6 to 1. This is called a red envelope to repay the kindness of childbirth. There are also big items such as color TV refrigerators sent by the woman's family, which are all for the man to pay, and the woman buys them and puts them at home, and they are given by the woman on the day of marriage. This costs about 8, yuan. I also want to buy your wife a gold ring, a gold necklace and gold earrings, which is the three gold mentioned by the man above, about 6 yuan. In addition, you have to get 5 tables for your own banquet at home. The money depends on whether you want to get high-end or ordinary, about 3,. If the woman asks you to buy a car or a house, you can do it yourself.
If you are a foreigner, it is very likely that the parents of the woman say that the number is 5, or 6,. Some parents will also ask for a lot of money, while others who are sensible will not ask for a lot. Just take people away. Other programs don't have to go.
if you have money, give it to 18,.
as long as you have money, it won't work without money.
In short, a daughter has followed you since she was brought up, so you have to show it anyway.