Yiyi's husband has a younger sister, and her mother-in-law is really afraid of this in her mouth and that in her hand.

In fact, as a mother, there are several people who don't love their daughters. Mothers all over the world treat their daughters the same.

When Yiyi got married, the bride price husband privately gave 200,000 yuan, but this matter was known by her mother-in-law, and she wanted to go back 1.5 million yuan, saying it was an urgent loan. Yiyi's husband also said that her mother is very good and will not cheat Yiyi, and said that the loan will be repaid.

After listening to her mother-in-law, Yiyi "lent" 1.5 million to her mother-in-law.

Knowing that Yi Yi's wedding is just around the corner, her mother-in-law has not paid back the money. My mother-in-law said, "I have a deposit, but I can't take it out regularly, otherwise I won't talk to Yi Yi, and I will give it to Yi Yi in a few days."

In this way, Yiyi and her husband walked into the wedding.

In fact, sometimes, after all, my mother-in-law is an older person and wants to use some means to deal with her daughter-in-law. Her daughter-in-law is really hard to guard against, just like Yiyi's mother-in-law treats Yiyi.

02

After marriage, my mother-in-law doesn't like Yiyi, for example:

Don't get up in the morning, my husband makes breakfast and sends it to the bedroom to eat.

On weekends, Yi sleeps all day.

Yiyi often goes out to eat with her husband in the evening.

Yiyi occasionally buys some daily necessities for her mother.

etc ......

These, the mother-in-law looked really angry and didn't complain to her son. Moreover, the mother-in-law always thought that Yiyi provoked her son not to be close to himself, and his son was around his wife all day.

Yiyi's husband has never seen the potential contradiction between his mother-in-law and his daughter-in-law, so he didn't express much opinion. It's just that for his mother, he thinks that older people think too much. Although it's hard, he doesn't say anything.

Before long, when it was time to talk about marriage, Yiyi's sister-in-law and mother-in-law became the apple of her eye. My mother-in-law met her in-laws and talked about the bride price. Her mother-in-law said, "I want 300 thousand bride price."

He also said that his daughter was born very delicate and could do nothing, and because her daughter was spoiled by herself, she wanted to be tolerated by her in-laws when she went to her in-laws' house.

In this way, two months after the bride price, my sister-in-law got married.

After she got married, her husband's family really took special care of her and loved her very much. She eats and uses according to her preferences, and her mother-in-law boasted to everyone: "My daughter has found the right husband's family." When my son-in-law comes, as a mother-in-law, I take special care of my son-in-law, always taking care of all his feelings and choosing what he likes to say.

As long as her sister-in-law doesn't go home, her mother-in-law and sister-in-law send WeChat video chats every day, either in the morning or at night.

Why is a good mother-in-law not necessarily a good mother-in-law?

The reason is nothing more than 1: Being a good mother-in-law wants her daughter to live better in her husband's family, and paying more bride price also wants her husband's family to know how much they value her daughter and hope that her daughter can be pampered in her husband's family;

But for the daughter-in-law, as a mother-in-law, she regards her daughter-in-law as an outsider, always thinking of pressing her daughter-in-law everywhere, thinking that her daughter-in-law can always please herself and even forget the appearance of her family. I hope that everything her daughter-in-law does will be subject to her mother-in-law.

See, that's why. For most difficult mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the reason of 1 has also become the resonance of most daughter-in-law.

03

Once, Yi Yi called her mother and turned around to find that her mother-in-law left her sight soon. Yi turned around and chatted for a while, then turned around and saw her mother-in-law pretending nothing happened there. Yiyi was very angry when she found out that her mother-in-law was eavesdropping on her and her mother's phone call.

As soon as Yiyi told her mother, she didn't say anything beforehand. Just after she hung up the phone, her mother-in-law spoke first: "Yiyi, when did your mother ask you to return the bride price?"

Yi said, "Yes, my mother asked. I actually want to ask when you will return it. Married 1 years. When will the money you regularly deposit expire? " Can you give me a bride price first? "

Mother-in-law suddenly smiled: "Return your bride price? Borrow when you say so? I tell you, no, you don't have 50 thousand bride price. "

Yiyi's face turned red: "Mom, you said it was urgent. What's more, it was my husband's own money and gave me 200 thousand as a bride price. You said to borrow 1.5 million urgently. Now why don't you admit it? "

"My son's money is my money. I didn't ask you to come for nothing, did I? Besides, you found such an expensive hotel. How much did the wedding cost? How much can I save by doing it in a small hotel? Do you really think of yourself as Jin Yezi? " The mother-in-law's words made Yiyi almost faint.

It turns out that my mother-in-law borrowed money for a purpose. Yiyi blames herself for being stupid. Her mother-in-law is calculating the hotel expenses for her wedding. The more she thought about Yiyi, the more she felt wronged, so she went home crying.

In the evening, when her husband didn't see Yiyi after work, her mother-in-law said, "Your daughter-in-law really went too far. Today, she quarreled with me and said that she wanted a bride price. "

The husband said, "Did she take the initiative to ask you for a bride price? Then tell her when to give it, how can there be a quarrel? "

The mother-in-law looked at her son helplessly: "Son, are you really worthless and let her get it?" I didn't intend to give her this 1.5 million when I came back. I left her a bride price of 50,000 yuan, otherwise I brought back 200,000 yuan in an emergency, and that's fine. What do you think of her as a living person? "

The husband looked at his mother and instantly felt that this mother really made him unable to understand. Before she could speak, her mother-in-law spoke again: "Son, I can tell you that she has gone back to her mother's house. Don't take her back, or she won't cry, make trouble and hang herself. You're married and you're afraid she'll go back on her word? Besides, with her, why do you want a 200,000 bride price? "

Hearing this, the husband slammed his mobile phone on the coffee table and roared, "You can be a good mother-in-law, so why can't you be a good mother-in-law?" Did you feel the same way when your sister got married? Sister, what did you think when you opened your mouth? "

Looking at her angry son, her mother-in-law froze.

My husband continued to say loudly: "Mom, the bride price is my savings for many years. For so many years, I didn't ask you for money and gave you other income. Why do you have to have a hard time with Yi? " Don't you think you have gone a little too far in other things, not just the bride price? "

When the husband finished, he got up and went to meet Yi Yi at his mother-in-law's house, leaving the dull mother-in-law standing there for a long time.

At this time, my mother-in-law realized that yes, she was really senile. What mother doesn't want her daughter to be cared for, cared for and distressed in her husband's family? What mother wants her daughter to be wronged in her husband's family?

Mothers all over the world are the same. They all hope that their daughters can enjoy equal treatment in their parents' home. They don't have to get up in the morning, fold quilts, wash dishes and eat, and do whatever they want.

Mother-in-law instantly understood that she was really different from her daughter-in-law and blamed herself. Before her son went to her mother-in-law's house, she called her daughter-in-law on her own initiative.

"Yi, come back tonight. Mom will cook you your favorite braised pork and return the borrowed money to you. Mom did a lot of wrong things. Don't care about me as an old man. Come back soon. "

Yiyi on the other end of the phone replied, "OK, Mom, I get it."

My husband brought Yi Yi back. At dinner, her mother-in-law gave Yi a bank card. Carrie is 20,000 more than 65,438+500,000 when she borrowed it. My mother-in-law said, "My son gave you 200,000 yuan as a bride price, and my mother gave you 20,000 yuan. This is a token of my mother's appreciation. You must accept it. "

It seems that a good mother-in-law is not necessarily a good mother-in-law, and a good husband must have a good mother-in-law.

Yiyi's husband can stand in the high-end position of distinguishing right from wrong with a clear mind and wake up his mother with his own words.

I am glad that Yiyi married the right person, and I am even more glad that my mother-in-law can wake up in time and change her attitude towards Yiyi.

What do you think of this?