Picking up food-refusing is posturing and persuading to drink-refusing is losing face, talking and laughing at will, making a loud noise, drooling all over the place, but turning your head is full of disgust, extravagance and waste. When you go out, you are called stingy. During the Chinese New Year holiday, without the dinner, there is a lack of atmosphere and trouble for friends. It seems that only the dinner is the easiest way to express your gratitude. Eating together can really narrow the distance between people and is a good way for everyone to relax their vigilance and get to know each other. Otherwise, why do so many people ask others to eat together for the first time? However, the society is developing civilization, and the culture of dinner table should keep pace with the times. In the final analysis, people's ideas need to be improved.