I was seven years old when my mother gave birth to my sister. At that time, my father and brother were both working in the city, and there were only me and my sister who was five years older than me at home. Hearing my sister's first cry after birth, my sister and I woke up at the same time. It turned out that my mother delivered my sister herself.
Because my cousin drowned that summer, leaving several children, and the family was short of labor, my cousin was really busy and asked my mother to help him collect rice. My mother felt sorry for him. On the third day after giving birth to my sister, she went to help my cousin harvest rice regardless of her own fertility. I followed him to the field. There was shallow water in the field. It was too cold in that year (48 years) and the field was covered with thin ice. Although my mother left behind, she still lived to be eighty-five and died.
My wife gave birth to my two daughters. They worked until delivery like their mothers and didn't take a day off early. All the deliveries were in their own beds, especially after the birth of the second daughter, who had a fever, but because she was a private teacher at that time, she could only go to school on the eighteenth day without a substitute teacher. Obviously, the root of the disease has fallen, and now I have been in poor health.
When my two daughters gave birth, they both rested at home for more than 40 days and went to work after maternity leave. (At that time, maternity leave was only 48 days) The situation was relatively normal.
When two grandchildren and girls were young, the eldest granddaughter had a miscarriage because the first child was five months old and the second child was pregnant and rested for labor. After giving birth, she lived in the Yuezi Center for more than 40 days and spent 40,000 yuan. I pay great attention to the pre-natal and post-natal care, and my daughter has assisted me with my children full-time. My little grandson, a daughter and a son, also lived in the Yuezi Center for more than 40 days and spent a lot of money. Two granddaughters and two little girls are in good health.
In short, after giving birth, you should be extra careful and take more care, but you can't live in the center of the month. I don't think it's necessary. After all, the charge is too high. But if there are economic conditions, of course, living in the month center is good for both the mother and the baby. It depends on the pregnant woman's own wishes and family conditions. It doesn't matter if you don't live. After all, most people are locked up at home.
If I had to choose again, I might choose to go to the Confucius Center.
I was with my husband, mother, mother-in-law and daughter for the first half of the month.
I should be very happy to have so many people. On the contrary.
It is better to have more people in confinement, but it is better to have more people who know and can do things.
I am the first child in my second marriage, and I know nothing about confinement to take care of children. At first, I always listened to my husband and mother-in-law.
After all, they have been here before, and they raised their daughter.
As soon as the result came up, because my milk was not completely out, all the children ate milk powder, and my milk was even less.
Then, my husband took a can of milk powder from his colleague, which was specially for the baby who was allergic to milk powder.
At this point, the baby drank milk powder with malt extract as the main component for half a year.
There is a lot of trouble. Because of postpartum weakness, I am particularly afraid of noise. My newborn child is even more scared. As a result, my daughter has been making a lot of noise.
Because, if she is not her own child, her stepmother can't say anything. Sometimes, her grandmother said that she was heavy and hit her, and she also said that I didn't persuade her. These are my husband's exact words. To tell the truth, I'm lying in bed with my ears propped up. Is it impossible to eavesdrop? I did it. I told you, I don't know.
Again, the most pitiful thing is my mother. Not only do I have to be my monthly meal, but I also have to be my mother-in-law's husband's daughter's meal.
My husband and mother-in-law, even when the baby was hungry, fed milk powder, changed diapers, really cried and burped, and threw them all at me.
Bad ideas, one after another, jaundice, because the baby drinks less water. His face was particularly yellow, and he was on the high side when he went to the hospital for testing. My husband and mother-in-law also had him. Take medicine for a while, and blue light for a while. I don't agree that such a young child should suffer.
Say good, feed water desperately, don't want to drink, just feed glucose water, and the result will be fine in a few days.
Next, it's even worse. In the past week, the baby lost a catty. My God, in order to let the baby drink breast milk, I heard from my friend that I feed milk powder with a spoon, so that the baby won't rely on nipples.
That's how her baby successfully breastfed. I don't think I can ever do it.
My baby lost weight, and my mother-in-law put her waist in front of my mother, pointing at me and criticizing me. Say I don't want to feed the baby milk powder? What logic is this? What milk powder can be better for children than breast milk? That's me, I can give the baby the best food!
In the second month, I was not only deficient in both qi and blood after delivery, but also failed to do well in the second month. I also had an argument with my husband and mother-in-law.
Breastfeeding for a year, chasing for a year. I have drunk all kinds of strange soups, and I also go to live milk when I have time. What a pity to see the milk that should have been given to the children squeezed out!
Cousin was invited to stay in Beijing for 26 days a month, more than 15 thousand. My second aunt doesn't like it every day. She is noisy at home, pointing east and west.
So, how comfortable is the Yuezi Center? Ma Bao and her baby are taken care of by professionals 24 hours a day, and the environment is quiet and elegant. Moon meal is also planned by nutritionists.
People who don't know anything can't tell what to do and take many detours less. Why not?
If no one needs to take pictures at home, I'd rather invite my aunt home to help if possible. I have seen a man come back and say that the Moon Center is not as good as I thought.
I'm at the Yuezi Center now. Tell me my opinion.
I am a second-born mother, a nurse in charge of obstetrics and gynecology, and an internationally certified lactation consultant. Before that, I always disapproved of maternity going to the confinement center. However, now that I slap my face, I think there is nothing wrong with choosing the moon center.
I mainly want to eat, haha, the moon meal in the Confucius Center, three meals and three snacks, delivered on time, a small amount of dinner, and nutrition. I am very satisfied.
Then the nurse manages the baby. I won't say professional. After all, this is also one of the characteristics of the Confucius Center, which saves a lot of things.
More importantly, when my family Dabao first went to primary school, I took care of the baby, and when I ate after school and helped with my homework, I was wholeheartedly with Dabao. Dabao falls asleep and takes Bao Xiao back to his room.
Besides, the elderly at home are old and can relax, and the husband can relax and play games freely.
I don't want a new moon. I feel uncomfortable with outsiders at home.
I'm not neurotic. I am also good at taking care of babies. No problem.
Difficult to sleep at night? This is not a problem. I like to get up at night to nurse and change diapers. That's what motherhood is all about. I don't advocate night custody, because it is the peak of lactation, so I cherish the opportunity of pro-feeding!
If you can afford it, you can go. If it is your first child, I suggest you go. If you are a second child, you can't go on.
There are three main ways to confinement after childbirth.
1. Nothing to do
Advantages: confinement at home all the time is the easiest way to get comfort. After all, a dragon bed is not as good as a kennel. But only if you have a considerate and careful husband to help with the baby. Someone can take care of your daily life and know how to eat scientifically and nutritionally. There is no contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law at home.
Disadvantages: confinement at home is also the easiest way to bring a baby day and night, and the rest is not good. It is easy to block the heart, but difficult to vent.
2. Sit at home and ask for a new moon.
Advantages: the cost is cheaper than that of Confucius Center, and it is a one-on-one service, so you can stay at home. If you have two treasures at home, it's not bad to ask for a new moon.
Disadvantages: Many moons are not very professional, and good ones are hard to find. Generally, they need to be booked six months in advance. If you encounter evil intentions, it is to spend money to find a punishment.
3. Confucius Center
Advantages: Compared with the above two kinds, the Confucius Center is probably the place where women can have the best rest. What is important is that you spend money to enjoy the service, and you can complain if you are dissatisfied.
Disadvantages: Although the Confucius Center serves six meals a day, these six meals are actually big pots of rice, and the merchants will not give you the best supplement. However, the promotion of light diet in Yuezi Center is inevitably to save costs. If you have Bauer at home and you are young, it is difficult for you to leave him alone for a month, and it is inconvenient to always take care of the moon center.
However, whether it is a variety of confinement methods, the most important thing is whether you have met the right person and family. One more thing to add is that even if you don't sit well for the next month, don't worry too much. Find a reliable Chinese medicine doctor to recuperate, and your body can be great!
A: No.
1, the fact tells us: "The mothers who recover quickly after delivery are all mothers with strong self-care ability."
2. I took two classes painfully, waiting for the substitute teacher to take over. The baby/kloc-0 was born at 0: 30, and I got up at 3 pm to do personal hygiene.
3. Tomorrow, brush the sheets; The day after tomorrow, go to pick vegetables ...
4, 45 days, send the children to school, put the children in the dormitory, class is over, sprint _
5, students live up to expectations, and the unified examination results are the first in the region; The baby is healthy and sunny, and the physical examination report is all "excellent five stars"!
I think the most cost-effective way is to make the effect of the month center at home. Why do you say that? Of course, many netizens will introduce how good it is to go to the Confucius Center, but I will give you a preliminary quotation. For the current market situation, please stay at home 24 hours, the price is about 8000- 10000/ month, and you can take care of it with your family. The cost of going to the Confucius Center is about 30,000/month. You can visit at any time without the constant care of your family, but the cost is higher than Yue Yue's. Sitting at home is a lot of work but saves money.
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I believe that most people will still choose to sit at home. At that time, they went to the Yuezi Center for work reasons. In the center of the month, it's really worry-free. For pregnant women, they really have a rest. Considering three meals a day, taking care of breastfeeding and arranging the combination of meat and vegetables will not stop them from eating spices and fruits in the old way. These are all eaten in confinement and have a light taste. Some yoga exercises will be arranged after delivery to help the mother recover. The most important thing is to have a good rest at night, because babies are usually separated from their mothers, and mothers only go when they are breastfeeding. If you are financially capable and a mother who can be safely separated from your baby, I suggest you choose the Confucius Center.
I must talk about taking care of the baby at home. I think this is the choice of most people. Due to the economic situation, I finally chose to stay at home for confinement. However, combined with my previous experience in interviewing the confinement center, I summed up my experience and made the effect of confinement center at home, which my sisters can learn from.
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The first is food. In fact, the biggest problem for many people is that they don't want to sit at home. That is, the elderly don't know what to do, what to eat, what to milk and what to avoid. In the month center, these troubles are saved. This is a month's recipe from Confucius Center. You can learn from it, such as sesame oil pork liver, papaya frog, Chinese angelica crucian carp soup, golden soup cod lion's head, shredded chicken and mushroom handmade noodles, miscellaneous grain rice, golden needle fat beef roll, red jujube miscellaneous grain rice, papaya tofu crucian carp soup, black bean stewed black-bone chicken, Kung Fu Matsutake soup, brown rice sweet potato porridge, old pigeon soup, chain red bean soup, Sanwei Coix seed soup and yam lily soup.
With regard to rest, it is suggested that we can learn the model of Confucius Center, so that the elderly can take their babies to sleep at night and put them beside us when they wake up, so that we can not only quit the habit of eating and drinking with our babies, but also have enough time to rest.
In recovery, if you take care of the baby yourself, I believe you will never exercise less. I would like to remind you here that if you are a natural mother, you'd better go to the hospital for postpartum repair after the confinement. Wear a tummy belt and a pelvic belt after giving birth. If it is accompanied by a nutritious moon meal, I believe you will recover soon.
Although the delivery is only one month, it is very important for Ma Bao and her children. Although it won't be as comfortable as the moon center at home, you can take care of your baby yourself, experience it with your baby and grow up together. I think it is also a different harvest. For the baby, I think the best care is also the care of the mother, so the effect of confinement center at home is the best choice.
As long as you ask Yue Yue for money, you must go to Yue Yue Center. Price thinks Yue Yue is cheap, but it is not. Yue Yue only cares about children. Adults' health and food are extra services. Her responsibility is that the child is fine. In the Confucius Center, adults eat many kinds of food. Every meal is fresh, and there will definitely be leftovers at home. Because there are many kinds of food, it is timely to pass milk after birth, and there is basically no pain of blocking milk. In addition to breastfeeding, the Yuezi Center also needs a mother. Usually, it can be looked after by a nurse, and a person can have a good rest. Children take a bath every day, do exercises, form good habits, sleep well, and take them home after the month. Mothers can have professional nurses to guide exercise during the day, doctors to check the wounds every day, and mothers have the opportunity to communicate with each other in parenting classes to avoid depression. The Confucius Center restricts family members from visiting pregnant women and children to avoid infection and interference. Because the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is relatively rare, there is basically no monthly resentment. I buy consumables for my children at home, and the nutrition and monthly expenses for my mother far exceed the monthly expenses of the monthly center. Not to mention bad months, stealing vegetables, stealing things, talking about price increases, regardless of maternity, poor cooking, snoring in the middle of the night, smelly, not fond of taking a bath, not fond of holding children, bad temper, difficult to get along with, seducing children's fathers or relatives at home ... There are really great people, so please be careful.
Speaking of my own experience, I went to the Confucius Center because I was worried about not getting along well with my husband. In fact, my husband's family is very nice, basically accommodating me to everything, and I don't need to do housework or anything. But I have always believed that drinking soup is useful. I like to make pig's foot soup, bone soup and crucian carp soup for me, but I just lack milk. After drinking so much soup in Confucius Center, I still have no milk. That's the point. I'm glad I went to the Moon Center, at least I won't worry about my diet. I don't have to tell them the scientific method of confinement. You can take a bath and wash your hair for more than a week after delivery, and your baby can solve it by himself. No one will read it, for fear that I can't do it well.
From my own physical and mental feelings, it is still beneficial, but even so, when I am confined, I am still grumpy and grumpy, and it is difficult to adapt to life without self. It was not until more than three months after delivery that I got used to the days when I didn't get enough sleep.
So fortunately, I went to the Yuezi Center, otherwise it would be easy to escalate the contradiction.
Is it necessary to go to the Yuezi Center? Crescent Moon works in downtown Ziyue, telling amazing inside story at 5 o'clock!
1, do you want to relax in the second month? Do you want to be educated by the "past people" around you in the next month? Without a mother, her mother-in-law takes care of her heart! Leave yourself a relatively free breathing space. Please take good care of the elderly, children still have a long way to go! )
2. Be nutritious, milk and slim? If there is not enough milk in the month, you will often hear your mother-in-law say, "You eat too little, so there is no milk. Eat more soup! " So I received a big bowl of milk soup every day, all kinds of rhythm of persuading rice, my God! Can you lose weight? Moon meals usually go well together. Food supplement, medicated diet, conditioning to ensure adequate nutrition, while eating properly. This is why so many stars immediately return to their prenatal figure after giving birth! )、
3. Who is responsible for your health? (There are generally pediatricians and obstetricians in the month center. Do you still need to worry about the health of yourself and your baby? Of course not! But at home, you have to go to the hospital under special circumstances. Mainly inexplicable worries, which have been lingering in my mind)
4. Are you worried about getting sick? (Confucius center generally has a postpartum repair center. Milking, uterus repair, pelvic floor muscle repair and pelvic repair are the four major projects. Coupled with daily uncomfortable conditioning, the disease of falling moon can almost be eliminated. )
You don't need to worry about the major of Chinese New Year! Yue Yue doesn't need to cook! Only responsible for taking care of you and the baby, full of energy! Once you are not satisfied, you can ask for a replacement, because it is Confucius Center that serves you, not Yue Yue. In this way, your sense of experience can be better guaranteed! )
End: it's really good to stay in the center of the moon! Let's talk next time!