First of all, the wedding is very troublesome. The two families always meet at the wedding, so it is not convenient to go to other places. Because people who are not from the same place are likely to have different customs and habits, the process and details of marriage will be different. When the two families are discussing, they are far away from each other, but they are afraid that they can't make it clear on the phone and there may be misunderstandings if the language summary is not good. In addition, due to different places, the number of bride price may be different. Because of the number of bride price, there are many quarrels on the Internet. If you want the two sides to communicate well in different places, don't make trouble if you don't agree.
Marrying a foreign daughter-in-law may also have a different taste. Different tastes are really a big problem. You want to eat hot and sour, she likes sweet and sour, you like spicy, she doesn't eat spicy, so you have to endure it. Personally, I have a big appetite. I think eating comes first. If the taste is really different, I will definitely not accept it. My colleagues are the ones who have suffered in this respect. My colleague is a spicy person, but none of his family eats spicy food. After marriage, because my mother-in-law was bored, she said that she couldn't eat spicy food once for a long time. She was greedy every time and ate it secretly in the company, which was particularly pitiful.
Another trouble is who will go for the holidays, because women from other places can't go home several times a year, and some people ask to go to their own homes for the New Year. Do you have the heart to refuse? ! But you also have parents. Although the scene is in one's own home, the meaning of Chinese New Year is different from that of festivals, especially the days of Chinese New Year and reunion, which are also accompanied by family members. This makes it a little unclear who to go to, and it is easy to disagree with Mao Dun. At this time, if you are a local and close to the ground, you won't have this concern. The woman can go home from time to time, and the Chinese New Year will not propose to go to the other's house for the holidays, saving a lot of trouble.
The later you get married, the older your parents get. If the woman's parents are sick or something happens, it will be very troublesome, because the distance is too far, and they can't go to their parents to help solve the problems of drinking and quick care. Their children may feel guilty. Guilt accumulates a lot, which can easily affect a person's mentality, and the days are spent by two people together, which will also affect each other.
Although it is a bit troublesome to marry a foreign daughter-in-law, if we have love, we should be able to break through all constraints and obstacles, and distance is not a problem.