Married love 1 Husband is an optimist.
My husband and I work in a textile factory. I am a yarn stop worker and my husband is a maintenance worker. Due to poor management, our factory suffered great losses. It was acquired by a large enterprise in March last year, and all the original employees were laid off. I took more than 40 thousand buyout service fees from the old Volkswagen, which has nothing to do with the factory we have worked for for nearly 20 years since then. I feel that my heart has been hollowed out at once and I am full of fear for the future.
My husband's performance makes me very angry. When he got home, he actually said: Since then, we have been laid off at home and enjoyed ourselves. ? I got angry when I heard it: you are still the head of the family. Why don't you worry at all? What's the use of worrying? The days are over. Just because we can't see the road now doesn't mean there is no road ahead, but we haven't found it yet. ? I don't want to talk to him after listening to him drinking tea and selling his mouth.
That day, listening to my sigh, my husband smiled and said:? What is there to worry about? We have strong arms and legs. What are we afraid of? Nothing is difficult in the world, if you put your mind to it! I have made up my mind. I'll repair the bike and you repair the shoes. Small investment, no risk. It suits us. I have repaired bicycles for many years, and my basic skills are relatively solid. Besides, I have been a mechanic for many years, so it shouldn't be a problem to repair bicycles. Repairing shoes won't be difficult. ? My husband smiled when he saw that I didn't talk. What's so embarrassing? The newspaper reported that there was a Peking University student who set up a stall to sell meat in Xi 'an. This is a technical job, which is the same as the white-collar job of computer software in Zhongguancun, Beijing, except that none of them has high technical content. ? After listening to what my husband said, I felt a little more secure.
The tools for repairing shoes and bicycles were bought back soon. My husband practiced with his own shoes, but because he was not skilled, he was stabbed several times by needles and awls. After two days, I became proficient, so I learned to sell land now and taught me.
We set up a stall in a new community. Three days ago, we repaired cars and shoes for free. Some customers are embarrassed and insist on giving it. Husband said sincerely: if you can let us do it, trust us. If you think we are doing well, come back and support us later. ?
We didn't collect money for three days, and our reputation soon spread in this community, and then our popularity rose. We are honest, never cheat customers by cutting corners, with good reputation and good business. Whenever I have free time, my husband plays jokes on me. Sitting at the gate of the community, millions of beautiful women have seen it, and suddenly looking back, my wife is the most beautiful. ? Cheated my heart.
The second rule of love after marriage is to be broad-minded, not broad-minded
My family lives in the two rooms and one living room that the unit used to divide, with a usable area of only 40 square meters and a living room of only a few square meters.
In order to make the children's learning environment relaxed, my husband and I vacated a larger bedroom for our son. My son has a lot of information and books, so he ordered several boards as bookcases in the middle of the TV cabinet. Our family has two single beds with the same specifications, so my husband piled them up and nailed them together to form a bunk bed. Husband calls it? Double bed? And put it in your son's? Boys' dormitory? If there are female relatives in the family, the husband will go to the male dormitory to sleep in a duplex bed.
There is no TV cabinet, and my husband fixed a thick wooden board on the wall of the bedroom to put the TV, saying that this is the most popular wall-mounted TV now.
In order to save water and electricity, instead of using a double-cylinder washing machine, we wash ourselves and call ourselves? Automatic washing machine? , also called what? Even drying clothes is automatic? . The double-cylinder washing machine has a new use. It is put in the kitchen, with rice in one cylinder and noodles in the other. The kitchen is smaller. My husband hung some hooks on the wall, stainless steel pot and the wok. Casseroles have no holes for hooks. My husband tied it with a rope and hung it on an iron hook with a rope. Every time I go into the kitchen, I look up and see that broken casserole looks like a doormat, and I laugh my stomach hurts.
My son used to do his homework at the dining table, but now he puts the dining table in the bedroom and study, which looks neither fish nor fowl, so he uses the dresser as a writing desk for his son. The rice barrel returned from the kitchen was used as a big cosmetic box by my husband, and my sunscreen was put in it. My husband said with a smile that putting cosmetics in iron rice barrels is good for moisture protection. Every morning, when I open the lid of the rice barrel to get cosmetics, I can't help feeling happy.
On summer nights, in order to save electricity, we only turn on a fan in our son's room. Put a big basin of water in the living room and my bedroom to cool down.
My son is very sensible, studies hard and gets good grades. Every night, my husband is busy with unfinished work in the living room, I am busy with housework, and my son is reviewing his lessons. Looking at the warm and peaceful home, I feel happy. Although the house is small, it feels comfortable to live in.
Love after marriage: 3 families and everything.
Every day at noon, we will go home to cook alone. What does my husband suggest? A thick stick, a tiger, a chicken, a bug? At first, we guessed a level. A month later, my husband failed, and then he simply lost every time. He goes back to cook every day.
My husband's home cooking is very affordable and delicious, and he will give these home cooking nifty names, such as fried bean sprouts with soybean sprouts, which is a meeting between mother and son. Scrambled eggs with tomatoes are caused by the heavy snow on the volcano. We are all northerners and like to eat steamed bread. My husband put a poached egg in my steamed bread and named it a couple sandwich.
One noon, a customer came to pick up the leather shoes she gave the day before yesterday. But at night, after I finished repairing it at home, I forgot to bring it, so I let Lao Wang, who was repairing the lock and matching the key, watch the booth and I went home to get it. My husband is eating, and the fried leftovers are a plate of pickles. The floor hasn't been cleaned yet. It's just an eggshell, boiled for me. My husband was shocked to see me back. My heart ached and I threw myself on his shoulder and cried. How can you be so hard on yourself? I am an incompetent person. I want to try my best to make your life better. It is my greatest wish and my greatest happiness that you and your children live well. ? The optimistic husband shed tears. That day we put poached eggs in steamed bread, and the husband and wife took turns taking a bite from you and eating it from me? Couple sandwich? At that moment, I burst into tears and felt that I was the happiest woman in the world.
Since then, I have supervised my husband to eat the same food as me. I wholesale beer, keep it at home, and bring a bottle when I come out every morning. At noon, we eat face to face, and my husband always looks at me warmly while drinking beer, which is very warm. Husband still likes to kiss my ass and say me? Does it taste good？ A glance at me is equivalent to holding a delicious appetizer with chopsticks. I said him? Nonsense? But my heart is sweet and warm. Soon, I discovered a secret My husband and I attended his cousin's wedding that day. At the wedding reception, the husband and the guests guessed together. Tiger, thick stick, chicken, worm? No one is his opponent at the dinner table, and her husband has won the favor, often drinking with others and getting drunk. On the taxi home, I asked my drunken husband: You usually drink with me, why do you always lose so badly? In order to lose to you on purpose, I specially practiced the slow-half-beat boxing skills. I lost to you in order to cook for you. You are a good wife, and I want to treat you well. ?
After working for half a year, I earned some money and bought a facade house by mortgage near the entrance of our community. When I was laid off, I paid the down payment with more than 40 thousand. Then, I used more than 10 thousand yuan I earned in the past six months to purchase goods and opened a hardware store. At the same time, we used to repair cars and shoes, and the booth was right in front of our hardware store.
You don't have to pay rent for your own house, and the rent saved every month is enough to pay for the monthly purchase. A shop and repairing cars and shoes make our life better and better.
Two months later, it will be my 35th birthday. At noon that day, my husband deliberately closed the store door and posted a notice on the door: Today is noon 12 to 2 pm, for my wife's birthday, and it will open as usual after 2 pm.
I don't want to spend money on my birthday. My husband insisted that I go and threatened: If you don't go, I will carry you like a bride. ? Hearing this, I felt sweet and helpless, so I went to a nearby restaurant with him.
When eating, my husband said:? I am an incompetent person. Follow me, and you will be wronged. ? When I heard this, my tears immediately flowed out. I lowered my head and it took me a long time to control my emotions. I said to my husband: I am very happy to marry you. You are optimistic, tolerant, strong and kind. You are the best person in my heart. No matter how much it costs, isn't it just three meals a day? No matter how big the house is, isn't sleeping just a bed? Our parents are healthy, our children are sensible and have a stable life. The important thing is that I have a good husband, and I feel very practical and comfortable with you. ? My husband shed tears, but he clearly smiled. I know, I am smiling with tears, too.