Zhang Xiaoxian said: "Love begins at the dining table and ends at the dining table." Eating can be big or small, the key depends on where your heart is. Some people pay special attention to outsiders and friends when they eat, and they will show their true colors when they get home. All their bad temper and bared their teeth are scattered on the people closest to them, just like a condescending and natural look. In marriage, the warmest thing is to wash his hands and make soup. Cooking is a condiment in life. Every dish and soup is full of love. Why are more and more women unwilling to cook now?

I don't cook to listen to your complaints

Women are born to love beauty, and no woman really wants to wait for a long time to make her skin rough and yellow in a kitchen full of lampblack. They will decisively choose the shopping malls in the kitchen and shopping malls. They prefer perfume to onion, ginger and garlic. They will also choose the former because of their exquisite makeup and glossy face. Because I love you, I am willing to waste time dragging my tired body to cook for you. They never complain or ask for anything in return. Is it harsh to show it to the front? No matter in marriage or any other relationship, people who are willing to cook for you must love you very much. It is best to give praise and encouragement. If not, can you put away your cocky face? Think about their tired but inexplicably excited back committed to the kitchen, think about the eyes they expect when waiting for your evaluation, which will be erased by your eyes, words and casual actions, thus bringing them great harm.

Men are always busy and women are always waiting.

Romance is wasting time eating slowly, drinking tea slowly, walking slowly and getting old slowly. But that's what we often hear in real life. Will you come back for dinner? There is no time. I'm busy at work, so I may not have time. Will you come back for dinner today? Cook your favorite braised shrimp ~ leave me alone and eat it yourself; Sorry, the number you dialed is busy ... Everything you like at the dinner table is carefully prepared, but you sent me away with a sentence "Don't bother me, I'm busy". At that moment, it felt like a bucket of cold water poured from head to foot in winter, cold to the bone marrow. Qian Zhongshu said that eating is sometimes like getting married, and the most important thing in name is often accessories. Indeed, marriage is not simply eating together. More importantly, two people keep communicating and listen to each other's needs, which is also the best way to solve contradictions. So now more and more women don't want to cook, because they are full of joy to find recipes, buy the best ingredients and cook your favorite dishes, in exchange for cynicism, leftovers and indifference, so I'm sorry, I can't be such a wife. I love you on the basis of your respect for me, otherwise I will never bind myself and wronged myself.

Man, if you can't do what Huang Lei did, whether you succeed or not, you can step into the kitchen without a wife. Then please understand your wife, complain less, praise and affirm more. Only in this way can the marriage last. Finally, I hope you can turn your life into a plain life of "one room, two people, three meals and four seasons", instead of letting the helplessness of "no one asks me how warm the porridge is" gradually wear away the last little tenderness between each other. In fact, the wedding is only one day, and marriage is a lifetime. It doesn't matter whether the wedding reception is gorgeous or grand. The important thing is that marriage should be happy, and a happy marriage should be run with love. It turns out that a simple wedding reception can be very happy, because it has the most sincere wishes from family, relatives and friends.