There is an old saying in the countryside that "seeing off relatives should be small, but receiving relatives should be old". What does it mean? Does this make sense?
Seeing the bride off is considering that some children can't see the bride off for special physical reasons. For example, the woman's aunt can't go to see the bride off, and sisters in some places can't. It is necessary to arrange some bridesmaids among the elders, but also remind them to abide by the customs. Generally, the sister-in-law or female elder of the bride and groom will be called the daughter-in-law. It is reasonable to follow rural customs.