Some students often tell me privately that my husband is cheating on me and talks about divorce. Although I knew he was cheating on me, I never expected him to talk about his feelings, and the eight-year relationship broke up like this.

In fact, in my opinion, eight years of love is not much. You can check the number of divorces at the age of 50, which can shock you on the spot. And their rhetoric is very harsh: we have known each other for so many years and have long since fallen in love. We just live together. Now we get enough pension every month to live on. I don't want to live with him anymore. I'm going to find a new lover.

So, don't fantasize about growing old together after eight years, and always have a sense of urgency. What should you do if a man cheats?

1: Collect evidence If a man has an affair, which proves that he intends to divorce, you can take it back, but you can't be completely unprepared for divorce. When a man tells you about his divorce, everything you say is nonsense in his eyes. He desperately wants you to sign an agreement and share the property with his youngest son. In this case, you can't let him achieve his goal.

The law makes it very clear that if one party cheats and the evidence is perfect, the house can be cleaned or the family property can be divided less. When he talks about divorce with you, throw him the evidence and promise that he will keep silent for a long time, and then start thinking about whether this marriage is inseparable. If divorced, he will lose half of his family property, and San Xiao will probably despise himself. If not, how can I coax his wife? These problems have been bothering him for a long time.

2. It's nothing more than boredom to publicize her husband's infidelity. Life has no passion, and every day is boring, so he finds a mistress to experience the novelty and finds this kind of life exciting. Secondly, he must like a certain aspect of Xiao San, which may be her face value, figure or good personality. Anyway, the advantages of mistress are definitely what you don't have, and her husband is just right, so derailment has become a natural thing in their eyes.

Therefore, improving yourself is a top priority. Why did your husband cheat when you became better than San Xiao? Are you free? Grasp men's psychology, start with their inner weakness, and make them regret losing you. Only when men take the initiative, you will not be abandoned by them, because the initiative of love is in your hands at this time.

3. It's actually very difficult to crack down on Xiao San and let her back down. After all, you have been together for so many years, and you are familiar with each other. He knows very well how capable you are and what your style of doing things is, so you are easily seen by the other party, so you can only play mistress's idea and let her back down.

Isn't your first step to collect evidence? Find an opportunity to ask Xiao San out to meet, throw evidence in his face and tell him that he wants a divorce, so less than one-tenth of the property means that he has no money to support you. Do you want to continue with him?

If Xiao Sanyi says in words: I just like him, it's not about money. it is quite easy to do so. Tell San Xiao the man's shortcomings directly, such as cheating on him when he falls in love with himself, or finding a young lady. In short, you can say something worse to stir up the conflict between San Xiao and her husband. How do you attack San Xiao correctly and make her give in?

These three tricks are the most useful ways to attack mistress, and they can also make you feel happy. In short, being betrayed by men is not terrible. The most uncomfortable thing is that I have no feelings and no money, and I am bullied by Xiao San and him.

The so-called "Mashan is ridden and people are bullied" is very reasonable. Only stick to your bottom line, once you do something wrong, it violates my principles. I'm sorry, your end will be worse than mine, which makes the derailed man really scared.

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