Mystery woman basically belongs to the role of being an audience, not always talking about herself, which is also one of the characteristics.

For women who always talk about their own affairs, men will feel that "they already know her very well, and they can do without listening to her" and start to get bored.

On the contrary, women who don't often discuss their own affairs have a feeling of "wanting to know" about men, and then gradually become interested in this woman. The more you keep silent or just skim, the more you can arouse his curiosity and infinite reverie about you.

So don't talk too much about yourself, always say only 70%, which is the first point to keep the mystery.

Second, moderately make the other party sad.

Do you often ask boys if they love you? It's okay to ask once, but asking too much will disgust men. Instead of taking the initiative to find each other, let them tell you on their own initiative. Of course, some methods should also be used in this, for example, moderately let the other party feel the crisis and moderately let the other party feel sad. If your answer is "I will try my best, but I can't guarantee it!" " "Maybe the other party 2 will feel a little sad when hearing it for the first time, but an honest attitude will make the mood turn to a more rational road and avoid unnecessary quarrels.

Third, be calm when you meet for the first time.

First impressions are important, but most men screw up the first time they meet their women. Don't be nervous when you meet, so your impression in her mind will be greatly reduced. You must be natural and generous and look like an old rabbit in love. As long as you can control yourself and treat all women with a normal heart, you will immediately become a powerful magnet to attract women.

Fourth, don't reduce contact, but keep in touch.

If you just met him, even if you have a good impression on him, you must not reply to him immediately. The best frequency is 1 day 5 times. Even if you have been in contact, you don't have to wait for his information every day. If you reply too frequently, it will not only make the other person feel that you are waiting for him, but also make the topic digress. The essence of contact is to make the other person think, "Why hasn't he answered me?"

If possible, contact less every day and less frequently. Through continuous mutual contact, the other party can pay more attention to themselves.

Verb (abbreviation for verb) keeps distance.

Lovers in love always think that conjoined twins is madly in love, but keeping a moderate sense of distance helps to add a little mystery and brew mutual love and infatuation. If you want to talk about a long-lasting love, it is best to avoid getting along with each other day and night, and give each other more space and respect, but you can win the final victory.

Six, moderate attack

Once the time is right, it is important to make a gorgeous turn. At this time, you can attack him gently again, otherwise being passive for a long time is likely to scare him away. Might as well find a suitable time to attack, let him obediently into your arms, never escape from your Wuzhishan.

Even if you are not white, it is not as far away as you think if you want him to be fascinated by you in your heart. As long as you master the secret of playing hard to get, someone will jump into your arms and make you a heartthrob.