A firm smile appeared on my face: "Yes! How can a baby from Hunan not eat spicy food! "
Of course, shredded pork with fish flavor is Sichuan food, and pickled peppers are really not spicy (for me). My two children, aged 8 and 4, have been eating spicy food for many years.
Two years ago, we drove an Australian RV and couldn't have a big meal. The two children relied on the old godmother to eat milk and solved one meal after another. I also won the last round and delicious lobster sauce.
Small tables and chairs outside the RV
Cook some Chinese cabbage and ham noodles.
Just serve laodopted mother and milk
In fact, I didn't eat spicy food when I was a child, and I lost my temper at the slightest touch. You can't eat without peppers. You have to cook several for every meal.
When I was 3 years old, I once took him back to Changsha and ate rice noodles in the noodle restaurant at the gate of the community. I asked him for a non-spicy shredded auricularia powder. A look at the cauldron with code, there are several spicy oil stars floating inside. So he asked the boss, "Is there anything that is not spicy? Give it to the children. "
The boss took a look at it first, waved the spoon in his hand with great momentum and asked, "Is he 3 years old?"
I unknown so nodded: "Ah, I see."
The boss looked at me disdainfully: "You can't eat spicy food at the age of 3! Go and see which child can eat before 1 year old! You are so outrageous! Eat spicy and cold, good health! "
Say, mercilessly scooped up a spoonful of edible mushroom minced meat and covered it with rice flour, then poured a spoonful of soup and pushed it to me without looking up.
This domineering! What a shock! Then I silently went to the next steamed stuffed bun shop and bought a cup of soybean milk for my baby.
I didn't think it would be fun to eat first. It's probably delicious, so I don't care if it's spicy or not.
Later, when I returned to Beijing, I began to eat, and there was no phenomenon of dry climate and spicy paste in the north that I was worried about before. Although that spicy degree is equivalent to nothing in my opinion.
Then at the age of 2, I began to gradually unlock my skills. His first food was kebabs sprinkled with cumin and Chili noodles.
I can't find the back and forth photos.
Use the first one.
They look alike anyway.
In retrospect, I used to be an old mother who carefully studied the baby's nutritional recipes, and looked at the ingredient list to calculate the nutritional ratio, covering all aspects. Actually, today, I still can't accept my baby eating fried food and snacks (mainly because I don't like them myself …).
But raising a baby is really a process of grasping the big and letting go of the small and constantly improving. All the baby's abilities are unlocked by our constant letting go. The concept of parenting at home is the same. The less you manage, the more children there will naturally be.
When I was one and a half years old, I gave him a shower and bathed myself. Put the shampoo where he can reach it, and the baby will wash it himself. I'll come out and wrap it in a towel.
Kitchen skills must also be cultivated. I can't take care of them, so I might as well take them to the kitchen to kill time. But this is not baking, this is serious cooking.
An old mother who can't afford the time
Cooking together is a quality parent-child time.
Sometimes when the baby comes home from school, I'm too busy, so I bring it first and then fry a cake myself, wrap some ham and lettuce, squeeze some ketchup, add some hot sauce and pour a cup of milk, and it's a meal. Of course, sometimes you can just make tomato and egg noodles or fried rice. I even searched the Internet for recipes myself. ...
Team friends have a meeting at my house.
They are so hungry that nobody cares.
I went to cook by myself.
Of course, it is my principle not to use a knife without an adult, and I have repeatedly explained it to them. As for the use of gas stoves, the two children have practiced for countless times, and I have repeatedly told them all kinds of safety rules and precautions.
I think cooking is a basic skill. No matter what you do in the future, you must be able to eat well. Do housework, too This is like a deli. No matter what environment you are in, you should make yourself as comfortable as possible.
Of course, although I say so confidently, I am actually a fragile old mother in blx.
I'm six and a half years old. I went to an independent camp for the first time. He said he didn't want to go before, but I backed out countless times and finally threw it in for him. When I first entered the camp, he was crying outside and I was crying inside.
Spend the night alone for the first time.
Eva cried.
I cried when I saw the photo.
Of course, after that, I relaxed. After all, there is nothing more enjoyable than dumping my baby, knowing that she is safe, can learn something, and can eat well.
That's what motherhood is all about. You are crying and laughing. For a while, I want to be a 24-year-old filial mother and devote myself to the baby. For a while, I want to be a happy little woman, just eating, drinking and having fun, no matter how far away the baby is.
But in any case, bringing a baby is a process of drifting away. I was kind to him when I was a child, just for the sake of better separation when I was an adult.
No matter what dog you are busy with every day.
Reading with Eva is a firm thing.
On the issue of independence, I don't fully agree with the view that "it is good for children to grow up" Maybe some trivial things in life are true, but not necessarily mentally.
Why is there a 30-year-old baby boy? There will be neets? Will there be children angry with their parents? In fact, they are all manifestations of spiritual independence.
Even if it's not so extreme. This may encounter other problems. I don't know how to plan and implement free travel independently, but when I encounter problems in my work, marriage and life, I easily fall into passivity and don't know how to face them.
Instead of being forced to grow up by life as an adult, it is better to help them grow up from now on and let them have the ability to advance and retreat freely.
I always believe that independence and thinking are closely related. This is a life skill and necessary for a strong spirit.
And between parents and adult children, the best state is: love each other deeply, be the backing, have concerns, and have no ties.