Xiao Wang is such a straight man. On this day, he accompanied his girlfriend Xiao Zhang to go shopping at her repeated request. After walking for a long time, but buying nothing, Xiao Zhang is impatient. At this time, Xiao Zhang took a fancy to a skirt. She tried it on happily and looked forward to Xiao Wang's evaluation with great joy.
Who knows, when Xiao Wang opened his mouth, he said loudly, "Oh, your skin is too dark. This color can't be controlled on you at all, just like a village girl. " It's ugly. Take it off. "When he said this, no matter how many customers around him were commenting on Xiao Zhang.
Xiao Zhang's face turned red. She changed her clothes awkwardly and left Xiao Wang without saying a word.
At this time, Xiao Wang looked innocent. He still doubts in his mind that he has said nothing wrong. How did he make Xiao Zhang unhappy?
In fact, Xiao Wang doesn't know. If we can put it another way, maybe the girl won't be angry.
No matter what you say or do, you always like the person who has the upper hand.
Young couples often quarrel because of trivial matters. There is really no need to distinguish who is right and who is wrong at this time.
Men with low emotional intelligence especially love face. Whether they are rational or not, they always like to get the upper hand when talking or doing things. As we all know, it is still difficult for honest officials to break housework. If you speak quickly, you may be happy for a while, but it will deeply hurt the people you love. Over time, people's feelings for you will fade.
Therefore, knowing how to make timely concessions and give meaningless victories to each other can make our feelings stronger.
3. People who don't behave properly enough, but put the blame on others.
A few days ago, a young man got angry on the Internet.
The story goes like this: the young man was introduced to a girl and they agreed to meet in a restaurant.
When we first met, the young man looked at the menu for a long time without asking the girl what she liked to eat, but ordered two special dishes in the store directly. After ordering, I still asked the price with trepidation.
Meanwhile, the girl asked for a drink. The young man thought the restaurant was expensive, so he went out to buy a bottle of iced black tea and shared it with the girl.
During the whole meal, girls basically don't move chopsticks, and the boys eat and drink by themselves. After eating, I also asked to pack the remaining three crayfish and take them away.
Later, blind date naturally ended in failure.
The young man quit He angrily denounced the restaurant and abused the waiter on the Internet, saying that the girl refused to associate with him again because she was talkative when serving food and said, "This is your special crayfish". So, he gave the restaurant a bad review and claimed that he hoped the store would close down soon.
For a time, it attracted many netizens to discuss it. Everyone said: this is really a great man. Even if you are stingy, you still don't know how to respect other girls and don't know how to eat etiquette. Who wants to associate with such a person?
Indeed, a man with such a low eq can't find a girlfriend, which is an iron thing.
4. Men who don't understand amorous feelings and care about others.
A man with culture and high emotional intelligence will always be a gentleman. They respect the old and love the young, respect women and talk in a civilized way. Take care of the people you love.