Freshness is a heartfelt experience of people and things. The novelty is that I haven't touched it before, but now I'm curious. After a long time, I won't feel that way. Freshness means that it has just been produced, collected or made, and the date of production is very close, and it has not suffered too much pollution. Emotional freshness means that when two strangers first contact each other, they find something different from others, such as body movements, manners, behavior habits, personality and appearance. When communicating with each other, the mentality and mood of the two sides are different, the atmosphere of the place and the scene is different, and the two sides have different ideas at the moment. The first level of freshness in communication with people comes from the first feeling, the first impression, everyone's appearance, personality, character cultivation and so on. It is also the first experience of both sides. These are all fresh and can make people feel refreshed from the inside out. The second level does not come from simple external senses, but from a calmer state. Maybe you know him/her like the back of your hand and no longer feel the novelty of the other person. But imagine, in real life, what is not fresh, there is no same sky, no same pace, no exactly the same mood, no exactly the same thing, no exactly the same mentality in dealing with things. What is needed is not fresh people, but a heart that is good at discovering new things. The definition of novelty in psychology 2. Novelty means that I have never touched it before, and now I am curious about it. After a long time, you won't feel that way. It is mainly a heartfelt experience of people and things, between strangeness and familiarity. Freshness refers to fresh production, collection or production. Describe that the production date of the article is very close and has not suffered too much pollution. 1, emotional freshness: a person has just started to contact a stranger or something new, and at this time he has great curiosity about the object, which is usually called freshness. People in the novelty period will always pay attention to the object, try their best to understand it in depth, and even have direct contact. 2. Freshness of things: refers to the feeling of edible green plants such as vegetables and fruits. For example, the vegetables that have just been picked are green, and the dew on the leaves has not faded in the morning, which will give people a sense of freshness. When buying vegetables and fruits, people value freshness most to decide whether to buy them. How can we keep it fresh first? Whether boys or girls are in love, don't completely expose your shortcomings to both sides. Whether you are in love for three or five years, you should keep the mentality of just being together for three months. Don't be too hard on girls, boys are still gentle and considerate, and their image and respect are still there. The most common mistake we make in love is that after being together for a long time, we begin to completely expose our shortcomings to both sides, and we don't care much about each other's feelings at first, and our demands on each other are getting higher and higher. The way two people get along has lost the feeling of love. Just like an old couple who have been together for 20 years, this easy-going model makes their feelings dull, so why do many couples fail to enter the marriage hall after being together for six or seven years? In the end, we are strangers, because we have been together for a long time, and we have no scruples about each other, and we have shown too much to both sides, so that both sides have lost interest in getting to know each other, and married life is endless. And go their separate ways. Second, both men and women in love should constantly improve themselves, make progress and surprise each other. Learn to bake, rest on weekends or bake a bun at night after work to improve the fun of life. Even if the baking fails in the end, it is a process that makes the lives of two people more interesting, rather than you coming and going after work. We have nothing to do. Feelings need to be managed, and the joy of life needs to be created by two people together. In your spare time, we will go to the supermarket to buy food together, come back to study new recipes together, experience the fun of life together, make progress together and surprise each other every day. If you get along like this, you will not feel dull and stand the test of time. Third, we should adapt to each other, not unilaterally demand. For example, on this rest day, you accompany me to go shopping, watch movies and eat, and on the next rest day, I will accompany you to play games and video games. You give me points, everyone gives each other some space and tries to adapt to each other's preferences, instead of blindly asking others to pay unilaterally. You are not allowed to play games, and I am not going out with you. Feelings are really mutual, and everyone understands each other. There will be a lot more things to do together, and life will naturally be less boring. Fourth, put yourself in the shoes. Let's sit down and talk about something calmly. Don't hide our dissatisfaction with each other. Let's talk openly, improve together and work together for each other, so that both sides can feel concerned about each other instead of sulking. Then let the other person guess that if you want a long-term relationship, the problems between two people should be spoken out and solved together, so as to enhance each other's feelings. You know what I am unhappy about, and I also know what I am not doing well enough. Fifth, there are regular activities for two people. For example, going out once a month, climbing mountains and playing with water everywhere, two people carrying schoolbags together, experiencing the fun of being alone, and going out to play together can actually enhance the feelings of two people. You don't have to go too far, even if it's only in the surrounding' small attractions'. The important thing is that two people feel the breath of life together, let them feel the feeling of being together, let everyone feel the fun together, and add something. The definition of freshness in psychology 3 What is freshness The word freshness has two explanations. One is the freshness of things, that is, the shelf life of food, whether vegetables are fresh and so on. The other is emotional freshness, which means that when people come into contact with a stranger or new thing for the first time, they will have great curiosity and want to know him more deeply. Especially when you first meet him, you will always pay attention to his every move, and whatever he does may affect your mood. No matter how mysterious this person is at first, your curiosity about him will only get smaller and smaller, and the novelty will be gradually erased. I remember the day before Valentine's Day, my good brother dragged me to the jewelry store to choose a gift for my girlfriend and said that I would give her a surprise. I walked around with him all afternoon and finally picked out a pair of heart-shaped earrings in a jewelry store. As a result, he asked me out for a drink on Valentine's Day. I said, why not go out with your girlfriend? He said she asked a girl out during the day, and she said break up. Asked the reason, it turned out that there was no feeling. He drank a lot that night, and I asked him how long he had been talking. He said it was almost a hundred days, and they broke up without feeling a word. How long can the freshness generally last? Later, I looked it up online. Psychologically speaking, the novelty between men and women is usually about three months, which is neither long nor short enough for us to get to know each other. It's normal if he loses patience with you. Because at this time, we are tired of his eyes, and if you don't make any changes, we will attract him again. Then his novelty will be less and less, and finally a little bit will dissipate, and your relationship will be over. So what should we do without it? Since the original novelty is gone, let's do it ourselves. It doesn't have to be grand, you can start from life. For example, to do a novel thing that two people can do, to travel to places we have never been, to go to Jay Chou to watch a concert, and so on. Give him a loving hug every time you come back, let him know that it is not easy for you to understand him, and give him freshness from some details. In fact, many times this feeling is gone, and many times you don't pay attention to each other. What a woman needs is companionship, not that you always accompany her, but that you accompany her to dinner and watch a movie on some important days, and it is best to prepare a small gift to let her know that you still love her. What a man needs is that you respect him, give him some privacy and understand that it is not easy for him to work overtime, instead of complaining that he comes back so late every time. You can do all these things at first, but how many of them can persist? In fact, what I want to say is that the loss of freshness does not mean that I don't love you. If a person really loves you, his freshness to you will decrease, but it will never expire. Of course, if he doesn't love, there's nothing you can do. The best choice is to let go. Finally, I want to tell you that the probability of two people meeting is four in one hundred thousand, the probability of knowing each other is five in ten million, the probability of knowing each other is three in one billion, and the probability of falling in love can be said to be too low to calculate. If you are together, please cherish each other.