Eating is the most popular way to date. Two people have fun eating and chatting, and they will naturally be happy when they go home to play something else.
Today, Bian Xiao sent you a strategy about having dinner with my sister. According to this strategy, the goal of eating together will soon be realized, and the next step should be to get together. ...
1, restaurant selection
Since you are the girl you invited on your own initiative, and most girls have different degrees of difficulty in choosing, remember not to ask her "what do you want to eat" ... otherwise you will fall into an infinite cycle of "whatever" ... Smart men will do their homework in advance and provide two or three options from restaurants they are familiar with, so that girls can do multiple-choice questions instead of filling in the blanks.
There are generally two choices about the location of the restaurant, either in a big shopping mall that integrates eating, drinking and having fun, or taking my sister to eat private cuisine. The biggest advantage of the former is convenient transportation and many entertainment projects. After eating, you can naturally move on to the next link, such as watching a movie. However, restaurants in big shopping malls are often full and need to wait for meals, and privacy and emotional appeal are often insufficient, so if you are already familiar with it, you can consider this one.
The advantage of the latter is that it is usually private and unique, which helps to show your taste and interest in life (some themed private kitchens can definitely satisfy girls' desire to take pictures). But private kitchens are usually "hidden in the city", and the location is not so easy to find. If you choose private kitchens, you need to do field research in advance and try to pick up your girls (most girls have a weaker sense of direction than boys), and the price of private kitchens will be a little more expensive. This kind is more suitable for first meeting.
How to choose a restaurant to see someone, but be sure to choose a restaurant that is "dating" instead of "gathering", otherwise you will be flirting with your sister, and a group of old men will be embarrassed when drinking and fighting.
Recommended dishes: Japanese food, western food, advanced Chinese food, Southeast Asian food.
Dishes are not recommended: hot pot and other cuisines with heavy taste and good taste in body and mouth after eating.
2. How to order food
Traditionally, you and your sister should each have a recipe in front of you, but since you invited your sister and the restaurant is a place you are familiar with, the task of determining the dishes is still on you-the best ordering process is that you are responsible for the proposal and your sister is responsible for the decision.
Be sure to ask the girl's taboo before ordering. Bian Xiao once saw a boy take his sister to a big dinner and ordered a table of seafood without asking anything. My sister said awkwardly, "I'm allergic to seafood" ... after knowing her basic taste, I can start ordering. Two people can order three dishes. You can choose a restaurant's specialty and a new dish. The third course can symbolically ask her what she wants to eat in particular. If the girl still expresses casually.
If it's the first date, try not to order anything with a shell. You need to vomit a lot. Of course, if you are familiar with it, please feel free.
If it's western food, then the girl orders what she wants.
When your order is almost finished, give her the menu and let her see if there is anything else she wants to eat. Generally speaking, girls with tutors will refuse, but some ugly village girls will take the menu a little bigger at this time, which just excludes her.
After ordering, you can talk to your sister about your daily eating habits from the dishes you choose. In short, it is good to create a relaxed and pleasant dining atmosphere.
3. Other details
Please take the initiative to pay for the first date. First, you invite your sister. Secondly, in the dating culture of China, it is natural for a boy to pay for the first date (in fact, in a very formal date in western countries, the man pays for the first meal). Don't make your sister think you are a stingy person for this little money. If my sister clearly wants AA to invite her to buy you a movie or a drink or something. Of course, there is a clever saying that "it's your treat next week", and you can confirm it next time.
Sister is a neat freak at ordinary times, so it's best not to take the initiative to help her (but there are some small places where you don't help her, but you will feel that you are not enthusiastic and impolite, which has been controversial in Zhihu).
If you eat western-style French food, you'd better check your dining etiquette in advance. If your sister had been well informed, she wouldn't have made jokes in front of her. You can know more than her, but never less than her.
If your sister doesn't know enough about table manners, you can teach her if she wants to ask questions. If she doesn't want to ask questions and make some harmless jokes, don't expose it in front of her. If you think it is too corny, don't ask her out next time. Bian Xiao once saw a boy insist on his sister ordering a medium-rare steak on the Zhihu, which was a behavior of the terrapin and could not be lower.
It is said that girls have two stomachs, one for dinner and the other for dessert-almost no girl can refuse the temptation of dessert. After dinner, take this stalk out politely and play a joke on her sister. By the way, ask her if she wants some more dessert. In her sister's eyes, your intimacy index will definitely rise to a higher level.
How to chat and date with girls is a commonplace topic. Although this thing has a lot to do with your connotation construction, there are still many skills worth learning.