Mr. Qian Zhongshu once said: the love between men and women begins with books. Borrow once and return once, and you have two chances to get in touch. Although there is some truth in this statement, it is not necessarily correct. I think the relationship between men and women actually begins at the dinner table. As the wise ancients said: eating color, sex is also. It can be seen that food and color are twin brothers. A man and a woman, if just in their prime, obviously can't enhance their feelings. The best medium and catalyst is a dining table in a restaurant. When they sit down gently under the greeting of the young lady, the man will take the beautifully printed menu from the young lady and say to the woman, what do you want to eat? And women always say something reserved: whatever. You can't eat casually. At this time, men will be surrounded by a large table of dishes, which seems to be enough for eight strong men to eat. Women always whisper, don't order so much, you can't eat. This obedient man is a little disobedient this time-he continues to order. Women don't really seem to want men to stop ordering-unless they are married. Because a woman knows that her position in his mind can be fully reflected through this table of dishes. Will she really stop it? There is a story about a man and a woman going to a restaurant for dinner. The woman wanted to order, but she didn't know which grade to order, so she asked the man: Where do you think our feelings are? The man casually said, I think it's higher than steak, but not as high as seafood. The way men and women eat and drink in restaurants shows that they have certain feelings, but their feelings are still quite unstable and may collapse at any time-for example, if another man is willing to order a table of seafood for a woman who has carefully verified her position, I guess she probably won't be interested in eating steak again. Therefore, before the relationship is determined and the dust settles, men and women need to constantly change restaurants and cuisines to eat and drink. Every day is like Chinese New Year, although men are always sad about losing their wallets on their way home. But when I wake up tomorrow, I will bite my teeth. The real happy life of men and women begins in the kitchen. In ancient times, every woman who just married her husband would take off those exaggerated ornaments and cook a bowl of soup for her husband in the kitchen on the third morning, indicating that they had changed from gorgeous love to a quiet life, which is what the poem said: On the third day, they would cook instead of me and wash their hands to make bride soup. Once a man and a woman get married, they usually don't go to a restaurant for dinner, but set up a dining table in their own small home and are busy in their own kitchen. If a man and a woman get married and don't have a kitchen, I dare say that their relationship is still not strong and smacks of "interim government". If your friend is married and you want to give a gift honorably and cheaply, I suggest that you send an exquisite pickle jar-this actually means wishing your friend real happiness. Families with kimchi jars are generally happy-at least they don't feel like breaking up at any time. A happy life begins in the kitchen. You wash the dishes and I cook. Although it is often too salty or too light at first, there is too much love as a seasoning at this time, and these dishes taste quite good. When love seasoning is almost used, women's cooking will be greatly improved. A good way for a scheming woman to tie a man is to cook him good food. At 5: 30 in the afternoon, men will listen to the call of their tongues and go home on time from the vast sea of people. In addition, when a man and a woman are eating in a restaurant, if a man keeps ordering and is still extravagant, it means that he has not got the woman in front of him. If he complains that it is too expensive while ordering, this woman is probably his own. If the woman pays for the meal and the man picks his teeth leisurely, it means that the poor guy has been married for about three years. (