Half a year before I got married, I just arrived in a strange environment and everything around me was out of place. I miss my home almost every day, and how many nights I spent crying secretly. I feel very wronged, but I dare not contact my family and friends, because I will choke when I open my mouth, for fear that they will worry. It is better to accept the status quo than to be so depressed and negative all the time. When you have nothing to do, take the bus and go around the city again and again, looking for surprises and warmth. Go to fitness, exercise, and vent your homesickness in a sweat. After slowly adjusting my mind, I decided to find a job and enrich myself thoroughly. It took me about a year, and I have completely adapted to it. I have a favorite job and one or two friends to talk to.

Of course, my home thousands of miles away is still my root, and I will still miss it. Now that you have thought of it, put it into action. Nowadays, with developed transportation and communication, I will make video calls to my parents, talk about each other's interesting lives, care about the current situation of life, and listen to the familiar local accent, which makes my heart warm. Every once in a while, I visit married families with children. Even if I am tired and in a hurry by car, I must go back, because I know I am worried about my family there. They look forward to my return day and night.

I am also glad to meet a reasonable and good mother-in-law. She loves me for marrying away from home, so the food I remember will appear at the dinner table from time to time. When I saw a Jiangnan woman choking on Chili peppers in the kitchen, she took pains to try again and again according to the online recipes, just to make my favorite hot and sour fish. I was particularly moved at that moment, which made me fall in love with this city and have a sense of belonging to this new home.

It's my choice to marry far away, and I'm glad I married the right person. It has been agreed with my husband that my parents will come to live with me when the epidemic situation improves. They are willing to live together, but they find it inconvenient to rent another house in the same community. Life is so satisfying.