In fact, a person is too scheming for a long time, and everyone will think that this person is too gloomy, too scheming and easy to be rejected. Therefore, you can't be too scheming. However, if a person does not have a little scheming, it is easy to be played and bullied, and it is easy to fail in doing things.

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When you speak, don't talk too much, leave room. As the old saying goes, "You can't just tell everyone, but you can't throw it all in my heart." This sentence means that when we talk together, we should be careful, not careless, not outspoken, and be careful.

When talking to someone, don't shut up and pretend to be dead, and leave some room for the other person to step down. Only in this way can we handle things reasonably and smoothly when we encounter contradictions and disputes, which is not only a protective measure for our own safety and conduct, but also a protection for the objects of communication.