On the evening of April 29th last year, I took Erbao for a walk in the square. Suddenly I got a call from my father. Your mother-in-law has left. Let's go to my mother-in-law's house tomorrow!
I said, how did this happen? Wasn't it fine the other day? My voice was a little choked up at that time.
Dad said he had a fall at home, and when your second uncle found out this afternoon, he was already very hard.
I couldn't control my emotions at that time and began to cry! Then I briefly talked to my father and hung up the phone.
But I still try to control my emotions, because I have two babies, one of whom is less than two months old!
After answering the phone, I lost the desire to walk and went home.
When we arrived the next day, I saw my mother's eyes dyed red with tears. I can only comfort her, which is also a relief for my grandmother. Usually it hurts here and there, and you should be hospitalized at least once a year, so that you can at least suffer less pain!
Mom said, I know this is the reason, but I feel uncomfortable thinking about her hard life!
I gently hugged my mother and didn't speak! In fact, when I came in and saw my grandmother lying in bed, tears could not stop flowing down, but my mother would feel worse than me, because that was the mother who gave birth to her and raised her, and her mother would have no mother in the future.
When I was a child, my relationship with my grandmother was closer than that with my grandmother. My own grandmother doesn't like her grandfather, and even she doesn't like her son, my father.
Because I don't like my father, even our family, so although we live in the same village, we hardly bring three sisters. In addition, when they were in primary school, they all died one after another, which made them even less emotional.
On the contrary, my grandparents are different from us. Every time I go to them, they will give me delicious food. Although I will work with them in the fields, they will never scold me for not doing well, but only praise me.
As far as I can remember, every weekend and summer vacation in primary school was spent at my grandmother's house, which was equivalent to my second home, and I went less and less until I entered junior high school.
Although I went less, I still miss my grandmother all the time. In this way, I worked as an intern in the university for a period of time, and my teacher paid me a salary and gave us a vacation. I usually go home to see my grandmother.
Usually when I go, my mother will prepare something for my grandmother that she likes to eat. Sometimes I go together, and sometimes I take it with me, which is what my grandmother usually likes to eat but is reluctant to buy.
Mom always buys food or clothes, so I can only give her some money to buy it herself. Don't force it. At first, grandma refused, but later I insisted on giving it. She said to save me some money when I got married.
I really got a big bag when I got married. I didn't want it at first, but later I didn't want to touch the old man's heart, so I accepted it.
After I got married, I was preoccupied with my family and didn't have much time to visit my grandmother. Occasionally at my mother's house. Mom has been at work, but when she is at home, she usually brings her grandmother over to play, because she doesn't like cooking at home alone, so she can cook something delicious for her.
As we get older, we have more and more physical problems. Most of them were injured when they were young. At that time, the children had to work in the fields before they even had their confinement.
Children are born more, live more, have little rest time, and suffer more and more physically. When the pain started, I went for injections, almost all of which were painkillers. Most people know that if I inject too much, my body will develop immunity, especially the same potion. In the end, the injection was completely useless, and it hurt so much that I couldn't sleep in bed all night.
The last time I saw her was when I just gave birth to Bauer and brought the baby back to my mother's house. My mother specially asked my brother to pick up my grandmother, and she had been taking injections during that time.
When I just gave birth to Bauer in the hospital and didn't come home, my mother got a call from my aunt saying that my grandmother had gone to the doctor for examination, and the result was very bad, and there was a trend of cancer.
That time, my mother and aunt cried on the phone!
Because she will take care of me for the next month, my mother never has time to see my grandmother. In the next month, my aunt called several times and said that grandma was in unbearable pain all over her body.
Unexpectedly, only a few months before and after, grandma left us forever! Sometimes I have a great opinion of my uncle.
Originally, I had three uncles, and the first uncle fell ill and died when I was in junior high school. It is enough for a white-haired man to bear the pain of a black-haired man once. But three years later, I suffered the same pain, only this time it was even worse. I lost not only my son, but also my husband.
My uncle was hit by a big truck while riding a bike with my aunt and grandpa. Grandpa and aunt were killed on the spot, and uncle was seriously injured in hospital.
Time and time again, it brings not only psychological pain, but also physical influence. Maybe it was not very old at that time, and I couldn't see it for a while, but it all showed up with my age.
My second uncle and my brother-in-law shared my grandfather's compensation and treated my grandmother like that. In recent years, I have been taken to the hospital in the city by my aunt. When it comes to hospitalization, my mother usually takes care of it, and my uncle rarely shows up.
In the end, no one even knew about wrestling. It hurts to think of the scene at that time. What grandma went through at that time! It must be painful, but fortunately there is no pain in heaven, and there is no other pain!
Grandma, please go. I wish you good health and filial piety in your next life, and never bear the pain in this life again!