When I am old, I am spoiled in all aspects. Suo Yang's parents are real cultivators. They work hard every day. Although they turn their backs on the loess every day, seeing their son who is only in his forties makes life sweet again.
They named their son Suo Yang, hoping that the child would be locked up with them forever. When Suo Yang was a child, his parents often held him in their arms for fear that Suo Yang would be wronged. His parents never let go of this hug.
When Suoyang was 8 years old, his parents wouldn't let him walk, fearing that he would be tired. When he went out, his parents carried him on a pole. To outsiders, Suo Yang's parents spoil their children too much, but Suo Yang's parents don't think so.
They wanted to give all their love to Suo Yang, but they used the wrong method. Suo Yang's parents served the "little prince" like servants, which made Suo Yang lose the ability to live alone.
Some people say that Suo Yang's parenting style is more like keeping a "pet". Humans are responsible for the food, clothing, housing and transportation of pets, but they have lost the ability to survive in the wild.
When Suo Yang was a teenager, he still needed his parents to feed him and dress him. When Suo Yang is slightly criticized by his teacher at school, he will complain to his parents. His parents often came to the school to talk to the teacher, and over time the teacher ignored Suo Yang.
Suo Yang felt tired and bored at school, so he dropped out of school. Suo Yang's teacher said that Suo Yang is very clever, but he has no patience, does not do his homework and doesn't like writing.
Suo Yang dropped out of school and did nothing all day except eat and sleep. He wants to help his parents share the housework, but his parents are worried that Suoyang will be too tired to do it.
His parents are old, so they cherish him especially, but they should also love their children to a certain extent. Parents love their children, so they have far-reaching influence. Suo Yang's parents only care about their present feelings, but ignore their children's future growth.
My parents died and my life was down and out. Everything in the world talks about a causal cycle, and every cause has its consequences. The consequences of Suo Yang's parents' overindulgence of Suo Yang didn't really show up until after their death.
When Suo Yang 13 years old, his father died of liver disease. After his father died, Suo Yang and his mother lived alone. I thought he could pull himself together and take on family responsibilities, but he even went further to find his mother.
In order to support this family, Suo Yang's mother needs a person to do the work that the previous two people did. Nevertheless, she refused to let Suo Yang work and took care of Suo Yang as usual.
Because of long-term work, my mother eventually broke down from overwork and her health went from bad to worse. Perhaps at this time, Suo Yang's mother realized Suo Yang's problems, and she was afraid that Suo Yang would not be able to support herself after she left.
She began to let Suo Yang work and teach Suo Yang life skills. But at this time, Suoyang is in a rebellious period, and his brain has formed a wrong cognition and does not feel that he needs to work.
Not only does he quit, he doesn't take care of his mother, and he has a bad temper. He always hits his mother. Finally, Suo Yang's mother died when Suo Yang/Kloc-0 was 8 years old.
Without the care of parents, Suo Yang's life became poor. In order to make a living, he sells valuable things indoors all day, eats when there is food, sleeps when there is no food, and sometimes sleeps for a day or two.
He never washes clothes, and throws them away when they get dirty, let alone wash his face and tidy himself up. Some villagers feel sorry for Suo Yang and send meat and vegetables to Suo Yang, but they stink on the beams and Suo Yang doesn't cook.
Some villagers delivering food to Suo Yang said that Suo Yang would do nothing. If you bring him food, you have to feed it to his mouth before you eat it. Such a big living person, so wasteful.
At the age of 23, he passed away sadly. After Suo Yang's parents died, my cousin was worried that Suo Yang could not live alone, so she took him in. Suo Yang's cousin works as a coolie in a construction site, so he wants Suo Yang to work with him, so at least he can support himself.
But Suo Yang visited the construction site, felt hot and tired, and went home. Others found Suo Yang a job as a hotel waiter, hoping that Suo Yang could stand on his own feet.
But after Suo Yang went to the hotel, he not only didn't work, but also had to be waited on by others, and was finally sent back by others. Suo Yang stays at home all day, doing nothing. When he was hungry, he went to the villagers' house to beg for food.
Suoyang was 23 years old that year, which happened to be winter. Suo Yang was too lazy to chop wood outside, so he burned all the furniture at home. If you don't want to go out to the bathroom, just dig a hole in the hall and fill it in after you go.
Before the end of winter, Suo Yang burned all the burnable furniture in the house, including his bed. That day, my cousin was afraid that Suo Yang would be frozen, so he specially took a quilt and cooked rice to see him.
After entering the room, I found that Suo Yang's body was already stiff, while Suo Yang's life was forever frozen at the age of 23. The local villagers are very sorry that a good boy is used to this by his parents.
Suo Yang's cousin said that Suo Yang is the best-looking and cleverest child among their brothers, but he is too lazy. If Suo Yang's parents didn't spoil Suo Yang too much, would Suo Yang be another result now?
Suo Yang is the biggest victim. Suo Yang is called "the first lazy man in the contemporary era", and his parents are responsible for his lazy character. In fact, Suo Yang was the biggest victim of his parents' education.
His parents didn't have this child until they were in their forties, and the arrival of Suo Yang filled the gap in their hearts. Parents put all these regrets on Suo Yang, and even hindered the growth of Suo Yang.
Sometimes drowning in love is selfish and a desire for control. Suo Yang's parents neglected the importance of cultivating Suo Yang's self-care ability. They do everything, even scolding Suo Yang when he wants to work.
Suo Yang is no longer an individual, but more like an accessory of his parents. He listens to his parents' arrangement and does as they say. When Suo Yang's mother was about to die, it was difficult to get the idle Suo Yang back to work.
It's like cutting off a child's wings when he was a child and wanting him to fly high when he grows up. When Suo Yang was a child, his parents deprived him of his independence. When he grows up, he wants Suo Yang to support himself. As a result, Suo Yang starved to death.
It is said that children are born with a blank sheet of paper, and what their parents leave on it will make them look like. Suo Yang's parents taught Suo Yang to enjoy, but never to give. As a result, Suo Yang did not survive with the help of the villagers.
Suo Yang's life is miserable, and his parents' education is terrible. His experience reminds me of a word called killing, which makes a person be destroyed in enjoyment.
That's it. Known as "the first slacker in modern times", Suo Yang could not live alone after his parents died, let alone support himself. Finally, he starved to death in a cold winter.