Wine table culture has won the hearts of some wine lovers in our workplace. Talking about business and feelings, everyone likes to organize drinking. But some friends, who don't like drinking or can't drink, have to attend and don't like drinking. Others come to persuade people to drink, especially many people boo, or superiors and customers come, they will be embarrassed to refuse, for fear that the other party will be angry and affect their work.

1. Find a good ally to help before dinner.

When eating, people who don't drink are easily attacked by drinking. They either invite you loudly in front of everyone, or walk beside you with a glass of wine to persuade you. The other party has prepared all kinds of rhetoric, and people nearby often like to boo-"have a drink, or it will be embarrassing." Some friends will start to "drink a little" when they can't bear the pressure of this group (the pressure of the opinions of the majority on the personal opinions of the members or the opinions of the minority). Therefore, it is best to find an "ally" before dinner and let them speak for you in your "crisis". Generally speaking, only your peers or superiors can speak effectively!

It is better not to touch it than to drink less.

If you really don't want to drink, you must obey the rules. No matter who advises you, you can't drink it, not at all. You should have heard of the "broken window effect". For example, some graffiti on a wall will soon be covered with messy things. If others see someone advising you to drink a little, it means that you can drink, they will drink with you, otherwise you will not give him face. After all, you've had drinks with others. You can use some reasons that the other party can't refute, such as taking medicine and getting pregnant. If the other person sees that you can't drink, they will give up. After all, you are responsible for persuading people to drink.

If you don't drink, you must do other services.

Just because we don't do this doesn't mean others can't. This is the measure and respect when people get along with each other. There are those who can drink and those who can't drink while eating. Now that you're in the wine bureau, it's definitely useful. If you can't drink, then do other services, such as serving tea, calling waiters and taking care of colleagues who have drunk too much, so as to win everyone's praise.

4. Take the initiative to show weakness and "kill" it

Generally, people who use "you don't drink or look down on me" don't need to drink, but hope to get the attention of others and satisfy their yearning for power in this way. So in the face of such a situation, you can lower your posture and say, "Big Brother, it's not that brothers don't want to drink, but that they really can't drink. So, let me show you. What do you say? " You can sing, dance and perform. If you can't, don't be afraid. The less decent you are, the happier everyone will be, and you will feel that you treat everyone as one of your own.

Finally, wine table culture is really a headache, but now it is an inevitable entertainment in the workplace. I hope the above skills will help you, and you are welcome to actively contribute your "experience" of refusing to persuade wine.