Divorce, because my father is playing with ash in my mother's orchid pot. ...
My mother is the kind of delicate woman who has to dress up when she goes downstairs to take out the garbage. At the age of twelve, my father and I divorced because my father threw cigarette butts into my mother's orchid pot and repeatedly discouraged them. ...
Relatives and friends came to persuade her, and she only had one sentence: "He is very nice, but he just can't get along!" Grandma scolded her angrily: "there are many things for you!" "
In grandma's eyes, the son-in-law is tall and handsome, earning money and taking care of his family. On the contrary, the daughter is willful and selfish, regardless of the feelings of children and parents. It is difficult for her to understand her mother's complaints about her father, saying that she throws socks around, doesn't like taking a bath, wolfs down her meals, can't remember her birthday, and has no time to accompany her ... These are all shortcomings in grandma's eyes, aren't they all men?
I still remember when my mother took me away from my old home, she said to me in tears, "A lifetime is too long!" " "
When I was sixteen, my stepfather appeared. He is short and plain, but he looks clean and relaxed. I didn't refuse him at all!
He will replace my mother's flowers and plants with beautiful flowerpots, match my mother's newly bought light green tablecloth with new dishes and chopsticks, choose a pair of ivory square heels for my mother's red skirt, and match my hook key with a beautiful key chain!
He would take her for a walk by the river, watch the sunset and sunrise, shoot flowers and birds in Wendi Park, tell her the names and stories of each plant, bring back some fallen branches, put them in quaint bottles and put them on the selected desks.
My mother likes to study recipes. Every time she grandly recommends new dishes, my stepfather always pulls me away, sits neatly at the table, imitates the appearance of a gourmet, and comments on the color, smell and taste in her expectant eyes always make her giggle!
Stepfather is also a holiday freak. He said that life should have festivals and sometimes order, so that life can be hierarchical. He has different gifts and ways to celebrate different festivals. He will take my mother and me for a walk in nature when the seasons alternate and feel the exchange of time. ...
Once my mother was ill in hospital, I saw a bunch of lilies at her bedside. The fruit was cut into small pieces and placed in a pale green porcelain bowl. Stepfather sat by the bed, reading to his mother, while his aunt lay beside her and looked at her admiringly. Suddenly, my nose ached and I finally understood her sentence "Life is too long!" "
When I first saw this story, I was filled with emotion and envied the mother in the story. Personally, I think this story has been screened in the circle of friends, because in this fast-food impetuous society, everyone wants to have a life partner who knows himself and is in tune, but in fact, such high-quality marriages are rare in China, and even extinct. Many people play the role of bad reviewers in marriage, refuse to improve and don't understand tolerance!
How many glamorous marriages have been riddled with holes in private!
Are men and women really equal in today's society, which clamors for equality between men and women? Most women, like men, are responsible for making money to support their families, but after work, they have to wash clothes, cook, clean and educate their children. Most men seem to have nothing to do with him except work. If there is an argument, throw a word at them, which is not what women should do, and instantly make you speechless!
China's 5,000-year history and culture, the idea that men are superior to women is deeply rooted in men's hearts!
The circle of friends is also rumored that women are not made of water, but of reinforced concrete! By the way, that woman should not be a gentle, innocent girl!
In marriage, women have always been a vulnerable group, and the pressure in women's hearts is far greater than that of men. The pressure of work, life and children's education makes the oppressed women breathless. They can't understand what's going on in this society. Everything seems so natural to men!
In reality, I have seen too many women, enduring all kinds of dissatisfaction with the other half and maintaining a fragmented marriage. Many of them want to end their marriage, but most of them put up with it for the sake of their children and various pressures. This is actually the biggest cruelty to yourself!
Marriage is like shoes, which don't fit and are uncomfortable. Only the parties clearly know that some shoes don't fit well, but they have to put them on and have to move forward reluctantly. Who knows that in the end, they can only make their feet bleed!
Life is too long, please don't settle for it. This society owes too many women. All women can find people who know themselves and have high-quality happy marriages. It doesn't matter if they don't have it for the time being. No matter when, you must love yourself first and manage yourself well in order to have the best!
Life is too long. I hope all men can cherish their other half. It is not easy for women. Please accompany her with love and go on happily!
Life is too long, you must find an interesting person to accompany you, so that you can see the most beautiful scenery on the road of life!
Life is too long, I hope all marriages are due to understanding!