In fact, there are your own reasons, as well as your husband and brother. 1, let's talk about what you can accept first. Husband's brother's reason: He should be what you call greedy, trying to get something for nothing, thinking that you are relatives, embarrassed to take the money back, or there is always a reason to refuse if you want to go back, so you can only continue this behavior under repeated trials;

But what I want to express more is that your own reasons, after all, have personal feelings: I think you connived at this behavior from the beginning and didn't make corresponding reminders. After several times, my brother took it for granted; Another aspect is that your brother knows your financial situation and knows that you have spare money, which will naturally attract your attention. The reason is very simple.

My little advice is: 1. You can't stop borrowing money at once, but it's harder for your brother to borrow money. For example, he offered to borrow money once, found various excuses, and kept putting it off. Every time, he looked unhappy and said that his family's economic conditions were not good, and all kinds of expenses were supported. Women are the best. Most importantly, don't let your brother know the financial situation of the two of you. If your husband tells you, you control your husband. If you can't control it, there is nothing you can do.

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