So some men say that they don't love a woman, probably more because the woman's appearance and face value failed to impress him, which made him unable to produce hormonal impulses, that is, this woman is not his dish.
These are only for men and women who have only met once, but apart from the feeling of love at first sight, there is also a saying that love will last for a long time. Some men really have no feelings for this woman at first, but in the long-term contact, they gradually like her, actively pursue her, and finally achieve a beautiful marriage.
I once met a real example that happened around me. At first, men had no feelings for women, and finally there was a reversal.
First, there is a boy named Liang Xiao in the company, who is good-looking in all aspects and has been looking for him on the emotional road.
Later, a girl named Li was transferred from other places in the unit. The girl is not tall, small and exquisite, with a bumpy figure and a good family. Because only two of them were single in the company at that time, many colleagues teased them, so let you two fall in love, and the rich water will not flow out.
Finally, the boy Liang Xiao refused, saying that Xiao Li was two years older than him. He is emotionally neat, and both men and women can do it, but women and men can't do it in a day. This sentence also reached Xiao Li's ears. Xiao Li was also very sad at that time, but after all, neither of them started, and this matter passed.
Later, Xiao Li talked about a good boyfriend outside and often came to pick her up from work. The two seem to be a good match.
Second, I don't know when things suddenly turned upside down.
During that time, it was circulated in the unit that Liang Xiao suddenly launched a fierce pursuit of Xiao Li. One day, a letter was stuffed in the girl's drawer, and Xiao Li had just started a relationship. He must have ignored Liang Xiao and never replied.
However, Liang Xiao was not discouraged, and continued to write a courtship letter, saying, "I love you. This is my business, not your business."
Later, I learned that Xiao Liang's family was an only child in a remote mountainous area. His family is afraid of putting it in his mouth and falling into his hand, which is particularly delicate. Liang Xiao, on the other hand, has deep feelings for his mother, who is said to be still in high school. In order to accompany him to do his homework, his mother also sleeps with him at night.
Once, my mother suddenly fell ill and went to the provincial capital to see a doctor. As it happens, Xiao Li's parents are both chief physicians of a big hospital in the provincial capital. Liang Xiao found a girl to help and arranged for her mother to be hospitalized. This is all arranged by Xiao Li's parents. In the meantime, Xiao Li is busy buying some fruits to visit Liang Xiao's mother, and sometimes she brings soup from home.
These trabeculae are all in my eyes and I am very touched. It is said that Xiao Li's family is much better than him in all aspects, and he is so nice. He doesn't care about his original wild words, doesn't like her being two years older than himself, and doesn't want to fall in love with her. It's really good, which makes Xiao Liang very moved.
Third, after her mother returned home from the hospital, Liang Xiao made up her mind to catch up with her.
During that time, Liang Xiao ran to Xiao Li's office every day and stuffed a love letter into her drawer every day. Although Xiao Li didn't reply all the time, she continued all day.
During this period, it happened that Xiao Li broke up with her long-known boyfriend, and her feelings were empty. Under the powerful offensive of Liang Xiao, Xiao Li finally moved his heart, and the two men came together smoothly.
Later, someone made fun of Liang Xiao. Didn't you say that women are one day older than you? Then why are you two years older than you now? Liang Xiao always said that I was blind and didn't understand good advice.
After more than a year of love, they got married and later had a daughter. Although Liang Xiao's mother is a bit patriarchal and whiny, she feels sorry for her granddaughter, so she made many small clothes for her granddaughter and brought them back from her hometown.
Later, both husband and wife resigned and went to work in an American-funded enterprise in Shanghai. The man also became the manager of China District, earning a lot of money. I bought a big house of 150 square meters in Shanghai and took root.
Since marriage, the man has spoiled his wife like a princess. Because Liang Xiao's income is high, more than one million a year, and she is distressed that her wife is working hard in a big city, she let her wife be a full-time wife at home. Xiao Li is now at home to pick up children, raise flowers, do SPA and do yoga, which is very relaxing and leisurely.
Former colleagues sometimes visit them and envy their married life now.
Conclusion:
There are many men who say they don't love this woman at first. Generally, there is a reason, either because Yan value didn't impress him, or because they didn't have eye contact, or because of their age. Finally, they may have a feeling of inferiority in their hearts. In order to hide this inferiority complex, they said they didn't like each other. Finally, if a man falls in love with this woman through something, he will be unable to extricate himself, love to death, and treat this woman as well as possible.
So some people say that men don't like it, and once they fall in love, they can't extricate themselves, which is particularly lasting.