Many people may feel the same way about this, and they have had the experience of being called aunt to collapse; Some people think this is normal. Aunt is just a title, not a derogatory insult. The Indian woman in the incident was angry because she was called an aunt. The fundamental reason is that in her cognition, aunt is not a symbol of seniority, but an elder in stereotype. So after being called aunt, she will fall into deep self-doubt: am I old enough to be called aunt, and do my clothes and makeup look old today? Aunt seems to have denied the time and money spent on maintenance and clothing before. All previous efforts seem to have been in vain, but after all, they can't beat the knife of time.
The name Auntie is a reminder to many people, especially to female stars. Tamia Liu told the children in the variety show that she could be called Sister Director or Sister Tao Tao. A child asked, "Can I call you aunt?" Her expression collapsed in an instant. Fan Bingbing was also called "Aunt Bing Bing" by the children she just met in the variety show. She immediately said, "Don't call me aunt, call me sister."
How to address strange young women seems to be difficult to find a happy title. After all, there are too many people in the world, and everyone has different lightning spots. Although it is only a title, it is easy to make people uncomfortable with a little carelessness. Calling miss may be misunderstood as an insult; Calling a lady is too formal and lacks intimacy; Calling sister is generally used for older women, and it is often impossible to accurately judge the age from the appearance. Women generally don't like this title to express their age; Miss Sister is a popular word on the Internet, and sometimes it is a bit frivolous.
At this time, we need a name that can change constantly and satisfy most people. While "beauty" and "handsome boy" are relatively universal, applicable to a wide range of ages and regions, and will not offend people. Therefore, "beauty" and "handsome boy" no longer belong to good-looking people, but become a kind of address or title such as "teacher", "sir" and "miss". Nowadays, people often call each other "beautiful" or "handsome" regardless of crowd and occasion.
There is another important reason why "beauty" and "handsome boy" have become common appellations-reaching out and not hitting the smiling face. When you want to ask a stranger for help, you must say something pleasant, so it is easier to get what you want. Although flattery may not be right, at least it is not easy to make mistakes.
Everyone has a love of beauty. No one wants to be called ugly, mediocre and praised. Even if you know what you look like, you will feel affirmed and respected when you hear "beauty" and "handsome boy"
In fact, when it comes to the sweetness of the opening credits, of course, we can't help but mention the service and sales staff. In order to make customers happy, reduce their guard and enhance their trust, they will devote themselves to studying people's psychology, and they will try their best to say hello and greetings. At some point, people in the whole society are actually learning from them, such as "handsome guys", "beautiful girls", "big sisters", "teachers" and "bosses".
These appellations are intended to please passers-by. Passers-by don't need to please passers-by, but many people do mind being addressed by others. Perhaps it is because they spend too much on age and appearance, and society has high expectations of appearance, which is not wrong in itself.
But if this expectation is too high, even ordinary people are naturally anxious like stars, then there may be a problem. After all, people will grow up and get old, so they always have to accept and mediate themselves. If you care too much, it will deepen your anxiety and spread it to others, and some people will ask for it.