Young people fall in love and then enter marriage, all of which follow their feelings. However, the elders at home not only want birthdays to test its auspicious day, but also postpone the wedding because of the year of birth. It is said that getting married in this animal year is too old and will not be peaceful for a lifetime, so we must be tough to stop it. In fact, the animal year is a cycle of the zodiac, which has no more meaning at all. Tai sui is an auspicious animal that guards the traditional Spring Festival. There is no conflict between the two. Therefore, the rumor that someone is getting married these days is simply nonsense.
Although marriage is a matter for two people, it also requires the participation of both parents. Some customs we should respect, such as worshipping parents and expressing respect and gratitude to parents, which is a very good inheritance; For example, washing your hair means washing away all the bad luck before marriage, which means a happy life in the future.
There are also red dates and longan, which means early birth and so on. These good meanings and traditions should be followed. As for other rumors, we don't have to believe them too much. Otherwise, the year of birth will be postponed, and so will the year of my widow. Marriage has to be pushed three times and pushed four times, and even the feeling of joy is gone. Of course, if the elders say that you can't get married in this animal year, don't fly into a rage immediately. You should patiently explain to each other and let them accept it slowly. Getting married is a happy event. If the house is full of smoke, it will definitely affect the happy mood.
The concept of elders should also be changed, and the happiness of marriage depends on management. Some people get married in this year, others get married in other years. We can't use superstition to hinder marriage, otherwise, we will be led by rumors.