Since that incident, I have a little more awe and admiration for my cousin.

I used to think that emergencies only reflect a person's psychological quality, but now I know that they also reflect a person's life experience, wisdom and ability to manage emotions.

It was a winter afternoon, and my cousin took me, my mother and my seven-year-old niece to go shopping. There are no seats left in our bus, and we are all standing. My little niece is playful and ran between my cousin and me as soon as she got on the bus. Cousin was afraid that her baby daughter would fall down when the bus braked suddenly, so she pulled it, raised the volume and told her not to run around in a harsh tone.

Who knows that such an action aroused the disgust of an old man next door. The old man shouted loudly, "bitch, who told you to educate your children like this?" This is hooliganism ... "Before my cousin could speak, a series of ugly words came out.

Cousin was angry and replied, "I love how to discipline our children. This is my business." This time, the old man's mood was higher, his eyes were wide open, he raised his arm and pointed to his cousin and said, "Do you believe I hit you?" Son of a bitch "

A young man next to him couldn't stand it anymore. He stood up and said to the old man, "Stop talking, this is too much. If you dare to hit her, I will hit you. "

Later, an aunt came to persuade the old man: "Forget it." But the old man didn't listen, and the more he persuaded him, the louder he said, "This bitch ..."

At first, I was a little caught off guard. Is that old man drunk or crazy? My first reaction was that I had to take good care of my little niece and discourage the elderly. So, my mother and I are pulling the old man away from my cousin. I didn't really see what my cousin did during the old man's madness.

All I know is that the old man calmed down under everyone's persuasion and we got off at the mall station.

I am curious about one thing, because my cousin is the kind of person who has a particularly hot temper. Generally, she can't bear such humiliation. How can she control it so well this time?

Later, I heard from my cousin that she was very angry at that time, but she had to hold back. Her analysis is: First, from what the old man said, we can see that he is either drunk or crazy. Such people should not be provoked and should stay away. Second, even if he is not crazy and so old, he can't confront him head-on. If he has a heart attack or blackouts, he will lose money, so he has to stay away and control his anger, which will affect the rest of his life.

There is another detail that my cousin told us later. At that time, the old man stood up and hit people, and his cousin did two things. The first thing is to ask the nearest person for help. Young people are more deterrent and can stabilize the elderly. However, one possibility is that others look on coldly and don't help. So, the second thing is to turn on your mobile phone and dial 1 10.

At that time, the situation was quite optimistic, and all the young people around me helped. After dialing 1 10, the police gave advice: If he hits someone, you ask the bus driver to stop and we will come right away.

Later, as you know, the old man was persuaded, and there was no scene where the police came.

Only through this incident did I know what life experience and wisdom are. If I were a cousin, I would be at a loss. Cousin can judge the surrounding environment at the first time: the old man is ill. At the same time, control your emotions: this kind of person can't be provoked, and you must hold back whatever you say. I also made the right choice: stay away from him, don't play hardball, and ask the nearest man and police for help.

Unexpected events, but there are ways to deal with them. First of all, we should have a correct judgment on the environment, then manage our emotions, and finally, remember to ask for help.

And most importantly, when you meet a madman, you must stay away!