I stand in my perspective to analyze how my husband needs to take care of his wife during pregnancy.
First, remind your wife to eat folic acid. Isn't this seemingly simple thing a bit of a storm in a teacup? No, at least when I was pregnant, my husband took folic acid for more than two months before he knew. He also asked me why I took it. Aren't you afraid it's bad for my children?
I was so angry that I waited for him to praise me for being cautious, but I didn't expect to question me. So I think as a husband, I have an obligation to study the scientific knowledge about pregnancy together. Only when I seriously participate, my wife will not feel that she is fighting alone.
Second, the wife can buy whatever she wants in the first trimester. The pain of morning sickness is only known to the mother. The baby in the early pregnancy is still very small and does not need much nutrition.
In addition, I have no interest in many foods during morning sickness, and even feel sick at the sight. Therefore, once the wife suddenly mentions what she wants to eat, the husband will provide it to her at the first time. Maybe she doesn't want to eat it as soon as it's done, but her husband can't be crazy anymore.
Third, accompany the birth inspection. Every expectant mother hopes that her husband can accompany her every time she has a prenatal check-up, and watch the B-ultrasound machine show that the baby looks different every time. She is not only a wife's companion, but also an unshirkable responsibility as a father to accompany the child to grow up before he is born.
Fourth, prepare all kinds of nutritious meals for your wife. After the morning sickness stage, we should ensure the nutrition of the diet, except those foods that are particularly taboo.
And the husband doesn't have to be a good cook like Huang Lei, as long as he can prepare himself. If the wife cooks by herself, she can certainly help. If she helps, the wife will be very happy.
If mother cooks, her husband will remind her to do something light and fancy. After all, there is a gap between the old and the young. As long as the son speaks, even if he feels that his daughter-in-law is melodramatic, it is hard to say anything.
Fifth, massage your wife in the third trimester. It's very hard in the third trimester. It's not only difficult to fall asleep, but also difficult to turn over. It's also difficult to breathe during the day, and edema may occur in hands, feet and legs.
Therefore, the husband can massage properly when his wife is sitting or lying down to help her relieve discomfort. Of course, the premise is to consult a good doctor to prevent encountering some acupoints that are not conducive to miscarriage.
Sixth, put up with all the negative emotions of his wife. Under the influence of progesterone, pregnant women's mood swings are particularly great, and they will feel insecure, cry inexplicably and get irritable, so husbands should not think this is abnormal, and even some husbands will quarrel with their wives because they can't stand their temper.
Be sure to remember to tolerate all the negative emotions of your wife during pregnancy, because she certainly didn't mean to, and her temper looks great, but it is easy to make her laugh again. As long as you don't beat and scold, smile from time to time to ensure that everything disappears.
A good mood is directly related to the baby's health. If the mother laughs more, the baby will be a smiling baby. Therefore, all prospective fathers should shoulder their responsibilities. What is your busyness and grievance compared with the pain of your wife's pregnancy and childbirth? Set up a good father image for your child now!