Things to note when being a bridesmaid are as follows:

1. Conditions

1. The bridesmaid must be a woman and must pass physical examinations.

2. The bridesmaid must be an unmarried woman, and a certificate of unmarriedness should be produced if necessary.

3. The bridesmaid must be more ordinary than the bride. Of course, it is okay if the appearance is similar to the bride, because the bride will definitely become the focus of the audience after putting on makeup, but the bridesmaid must not overshadow the bride. If any company can't decide which one of the bride and bridesmaids looks better, we suggest you send the photos here for our reference.

4. The bridesmaid must be an upright and honest woman. Because the wedding day will be very chaotic, it is a bit difficult for the bride to receive the red envelopes alone. Under normal circumstances, the bridesmaid must bring a bag. In addition to putting some tools for timely touch-ups, a large part of the space must be freed up to place the red envelopes. , don’t want the red envelope to be lost.

5. The bridesmaid must be a delicate and flexible woman, because some unexpected things may happen at the wedding, and the bride is often overwhelmed by happiness at this time and has been undecided. Therefore, Bridesmaids must always pay attention to the situation on the scene and make timely and correct opinions and suggestions.

6. The bridesmaid must be able to drink a little bit, and can stand in the way of the bride if necessary, because the protagonist of the day must be the bride, and nothing can happen to the bride. Green leaves lining red flowers must be in place.

7. The number of bridesmaids depends on the size of the wedding. For small weddings, one is usually enough. If you invite multiple bridesmaids, they must be in an even number. This is because good things come in pairs. Avoid odd numbers after "one", which will be unlucky.

2. Bridesmaid’s work responsibilities and procedures

1. Agree with the bride on the meeting time, accommodation location and hotel location (finalized one week before the wedding).

2. Report to the bride’s house on time and prepare the missing items (such as flower arrangements on the head) with the bride. Some may also need to arrange the venue. It is best to see the groom and best man. At this time, you must pay attention to more communication. The bride is already dizzy from work, but the bridesmaids should be sober and ask more about the things that should be prepared. Are you ready? Wedding cigarettes, wedding candies, fake wine during toasts, female guests scattering flower petals, lighting cannons Have the groomsmen, champagne tables, and candlesticks been prepared, have the speakers been tried, and have the hosts been contacted... Don't think that the newlyweds will remember everything, treat their wedding as their own, and get into the role from the beginning. After all, a successful wedding is what everyone looks forward to. If possible, it is recommended that newcomers practice it in the field. When they practice, imagine themselves following behind and practice it in their minds.

3. Help the bride put on her wedding dress again in the evening. First, the bridesmaids can familiarize themselves with the dressing process, and second, they can give the bride a feel. It is best to put a piece of cloth under the wedding dress when wearing it to prevent static electricity from attracting dust on the ground due to friction.

4. Supervise the bride’s drinking water before going to bed and remind her to go to bed early. Set the alarm before going to bed and put the things you need in a prominent place.

5. The next morning, get up a little earlier than the bride and wash up before her. When the bride is washing up, the bridesmaids should seize the time to do their own makeup (it is much easier if you hire a makeup artist to do the bridesmaid makeup. Some brides go to the photo studio to do the makeup, and the bridesmaids have to take advantage of every opportunity). Just cover up the pimples and pits, don’t even think about false eyelashes or wigs. You don’t have to do anything to do your hair, I just pick it up casually to solve the problem, because it is permed (of course, I basically don’t have time to do it). Then have a large breakfast with the bride (this is a day’s ration!)

6. During the bride’s makeup period, the bridesmaid’s main tasks are to organize her own clothes and makeup, and to check what the bride will bring. Whether items such as head flowers, jewelry, etc. are all installed, the most important thing is to convey and complete the bride's instructions, such as: the bride wants to drink water - pour it; the bride wants to find someone - call; the groom calls - Take it; the makeup artist is too busy - go... In short, you must have a "screw" spirit - get it wherever it is needed.

7. When the groom accepts the bride, do your best to stop him (you can make things more difficult if time allows). The more demanding the questions and requirements you ask, the better. If there are no elders coming with you, let the groom find one. Don’t have too few shoes for the bride (just one is enough), because when you put the shoes on the bride, the happy expression on the bride’s face is really touching (maybe this once in her life).

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8. After getting off the float, there will be a lot of ribbons spilled on the newlyweds, so they should be cleaned up in time. Before the ceremony begins, check the bride’s makeup again (it’s easier if you have a makeup artist). Deliver the items needed by the bride to the dressing room in a timely manner. (Sometimes the bride’s family will do this)

9. Put the napkin, cosmetics, and diamond ring into a small handbag and take it with you, return to the bride and prepare to enter.

10. Help the bride lift the wedding dress appropriately when entering the venue. It is best to raise the wedding dress and bustle slightly from the side to prevent the bride from tripping. I'm short, so I don't need to bend down at all. The taller JM has to be a little sacrificial at this time and bend down a noble waist. Even if I don't feel good about myself, I have to do it for the bride (no one wants the bride to fall).

11. After sending the newlyweds to the stage, the groomsmen and the groomsmen automatically retreat to the sides of the stage and wait for your orders. ). If the bride sheds tears, quickly pass a tissue and touch up her makeup.

12. After the ceremony is completed, change the bride’s clothes, touch up her makeup, sort and pack things as quickly as possible (it’s best to have help from her mother-in-law’s family), and it’s best to have something to eat. . Be sure to remind newcomers to go to wc.

13. When toasting, the best man brings wine and the bridesmaid brings cigarettes and candies. Remind the bride to offer cigarettes to male guests when making a toast; peel candies when meeting female guests; and give red envelopes to the bridesmaids for safekeeping.

14. Let the groomsmen take care of the drinks. While they are changing glasses, quickly find an acquaintance to bring you food and dishes (be sure to say hello beforehand, but also pay attention to how you eat). If you see the newlyweds eating something that is difficult to swallow, hand them a tissue in a timely manner (steamed buns are even better).

15. Wait patiently until the banquet is over. No matter how tired you are, you should politely ask "Is there anything else you can help me with?" and then explain the whereabouts of the bride's belongings, the collection and handover of red envelopes, and communicate with the couple. The parents congratulated each other with smiles and said goodbye. Make sure to take inventory of your belongings before leaving. Don’t take away the couple’s belongings, and don’t leave your own belongings behind.