First, lower expectations. Don't expect too much when you get along with your mother-in-law. If your mother-in-law is kind to you, you should learn to be content and grateful. If I am average to you, don't be too demanding and concerned. Because your relationship with your mother-in-law originated from your husband and separated by a layer. Actually, it's not particularly close. If you expect too much from your mother-in-law, when you find that your mother-in-law is not so kind to you, there will inevitably be some complaints in your heart, and conflicts will arise after a long time.

Second, respect your mother-in-law. The most important way to get along in any relationship is to respect each other, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is no exception. If you want to have a good relationship with your mother-in-law, the first thing to do is to respect her. There may be estrangement or personality disagreement between you and your mother-in-law, but you should still respect her and get along with her. When you get along with your mother-in-law, be more tolerant and understanding, and let her feel your respect for her, which can reduce many unnecessary contradictions.

Third, compromise appropriately.

There will inevitably be some friction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in a long-term relationship. Don't argue with your mother-in-law at this time. Compromise with mother-in-law at the right time is the best choice. Smart women should know how to retreat and learn to apologize to their mother-in-law when there is a dispute, which can not only ease the state at that time, but also make you get along more harmoniously in the future.